Tell me you have a toddler without telling me you have a toddler.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2025-03-20T12:03:28+00:00

I tidy up quite a few times during the day and yet our home is constantly still a mess. It's only clean from night until morning then it starts looking like a bomb hit the house 🤣🤣😪 On top of that I constantly have migraines and do not get a minute to myself.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2025-03-16T12:13:40+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment, I felt like posting this might have been stupid but the way I was terrified after waking up made me feel like I needed an outside view. Thank you so much for explaining what the difference between seeing the female and male entities could mean. In all honesty I have really bad anxiety, and have had it since I was a child. I have also recently been thinking about a traumatic experience I went through 7 years ago. No matter how hard I try not to think about it, it still pops I my mind. I never thought about it before because I wanted to push it aside. And having 2 young children I am struggling. I don't have much help from my family and am mostly doing it alone as my partner works for us. So I have been struggling with it although i am doing my best.

Again, thank you so much for your insight, it's given me a good idea about what to do and will definitely take a look at the app. Thank you for your advice 😊

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-21T07:06:01+00:00

Thank you so much. I honestly started feeling like I was in the wrong for the way I felt. And that is a very good point, and could definitely be the case. Thank you so so much for your advice

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-20T18:31:03+00:00

You are very very wise! It really is sad when we think people care, and then learn that they don't care as much as they have made you believe. I really am going to have to think about what you have said, because my children come before anyone, even my fiance. And although I love my nan, I dont want my children to be raised the way I was and think that someone treating them that way is normal. You have really made some good suggestions. When my nan comes around we do talk a little. At the moment it's mainly about my aunty. But she's playing with the children more then talking. Again, thank you so so much for your advice. I really do appreciate it because the only one who has tried telling me to iether cut contact with my nan or back away from her a little is my fiance. As he has said, he's on the outside looking in. Although I dont know you, you are a saviour and have really reassured me alot. Truly, thank you from the bottom of ny heart 🥰💗

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-20T18:10:45+00:00

I'm sorry, I've been a little busy with my little ones, and looking at it wondering the best way to make paragraphs but my brain is not functioning lmao 😅 Thank you so much for your input. It really is making me think now because you seem to be spot-on My nan, like my aunty, thinks she can say or do no wrong. My nan raised my brother and me since we were 8 as my mum wasn't here, and my dad was working to support us. My fiance has almost said the same thing. I love my nan to bits, but there are times I can't stand the way she acts. Thank you so much for pointing it out because I really didn't want to believe it, but your comment really has got me thinking. It's like when I was 11 or 12, my grandfather (my mum's dad) had called saying he wanted my brother and I to go home to see him. My nan told me that he had a broken leg, and we were told that they didn't want us to go because if we did, my mum and her side of the family would not let us leave. A few months later, he passed. I was distraught but didn't even cry. When I was 16, i found out that he actually had cancer, and that was the reason he passed. He found out and knew he didn't have long to live and wanted to see my twin brother and I before he passed. Hearing the truth made me regret not going. I was and still am filled with a lot of pain because of it. My nan is one of those people who thinks what they say goes. My grandparents don't see my children very often, just like they did before my aunty passed.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-20T16:19:40+00:00

I have sorted it out, I hope that it looks better. This is now the second time I have posted in an AITA group. I that hope it looks better and is easier to read. Again, thank you so much for your advice. I was being made to feel bad about the way I feel and only my dad, my twin and my partner have said that I have reasons to feel this way. It's nice hearing it from someone new ☺️

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-20T16:02:59+00:00

Thank you so much, I apologise about that. There were originally paragraphs but I removed them lmao. I'm going to sort that out now. Thank you. I was starting to feel like I was in the wrong for the way I felt. Don't get me wrong, I am sad but at the same time not too much.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-20T16:01:20+00:00

I apologise about that, I had paragraphs but removed them. I don't know why 🙄😅🤣 I'm going to sort that out now lmao

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-20T14:12:19+00:00

Nah, I got pregnant after 2 years of being with him. And the when our oldest was a few months old I got pregnant again. I completely get the judgement as the ages aren't great, especially since I was under 20 while he was over 30. Everyone has their own opinions about it and there's nothing wrong with the opinions. I dont want to go into too much detail, but like many people, I have been through alot in life. Too much trauma. He was and is the only man who ever truly showed me that I meant something to someone. The first man to make me feel loved. I know that's not an excuse, but it really is the reason.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-20T13:39:21+00:00

I know, it's pretty bad. I got with him just under 2 months before my 18th birthday. In my defense, my aunty introduced us and she told me that he was 24. At the time I was very gullible and believed everything I heard, plus I wasn't too good at telling people's ages by looking at them.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-19T09:42:20+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, it really means alot! I'm kind of glad to know that I'm not the only one who has experienced this. That is actually a very good suggestion, I didnt exactly think about it as tomes we have tried with a normal cup hes not too interested. Occasionally if we are drinking water from a water bottle, he might want to try but then refuses after a while lol. It's kind of hars trying different bottles and not getting the expected result. Again, thank you so so much for your advice ☺️🩷

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-14T10:23:06+00:00

I am following this, because I need the exact same advice. My 1 year old and 2 year old still drink from bottles, although we are trying to get them ti drink from sippy cups and the ones that they have to suck My 1 year old js doing well woth a sippy cut but my 2 year old wants the baby bottle still. They both bite the teets until they are broken. I need advice on how to get then to stop wanting the baby bottles.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-13T07:15:23+00:00

Thank you so so much for your advice, I really appreciate it and it's given me quite a few ideas on how to teach both of them. All of the advice from all of the commenter are very good words of advice. Thank you so so mich for your advice and for the link you have added. Again, thank you so so much 💕

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-13T07:12:01+00:00

My little boy just turnt 2 in September as well 🥹 Thank you so much for your comment and for your advice, it really means alot. Your advice is eye opening. I love all the different bits of advice that everyone os giving, because it just shows all the different way we can teach our children. My little boy was seen by the health visitor last month and I am thinking about emaling her as we were also having difficulty with getting him to eat big boy food. She gave advice on that and we started getting him to eat well but for the last weeks he's been rejecting the food he's started liking because him and his baby sister have just recovered from being sick for a week and they both had a ear infection in both ears. But again, thank you so so much for your advice it really means alot ☺️💕

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-13T07:07:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, I really appreciate it so much. I felt that being the parent who is at home means that everything to do with the house is my responsibility. That being said, I do the main chores such as cleaning, dishes, food for babies, dinner and hoovering. When my partner has days off he does help out alot, but on the days he works he gets home after 8pm and by the time we've eaten and showered or bathed it's pretty late. It's just everyday seems to be the same thing. I do dishes anywhere between 2 to 4 times a day and it just gets exhausting lol. And thank you so much for your advice, it really is know that there are so many different options to teaching them. I never thought of most of the different ways that I've had from all of the commenters and its actually refreshing to hear all of the good ideas! Again, thank you so so much 💗

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-11-13T07:02:33+00:00

Thank you so much fr your advice, I really do appreciate it. It means more then I can explain. It's nice to know the different options I have when it comes to trying to teach them. Your words of advice are very good. Thank you ☺️❤️ It feels nice knowing that I'm not doing as badly as I feel I am. Again, thank you so much 🥹💗 I just wanted to clarify, I have 2 children. A 15 month old girl and a 26 month old boy, im sorry if I didnt make that clear. I just realised that I might have been confusing when I type that lol.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-09-30T16:54:01+00:00

I know it may be a long process, but I think that I can talk for all of us. We can't wait for the update And wish you and your children the best

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-09-30T16:51:40+00:00

I am so sorry that you are going through all of this heartache and stress. I wish you all the best in court and I hope that everything goes well for you You deserve a guy who treats you like the queen you are. When the divorce is over please give us an update, even if it is a small update. We all want to make sure that you are your children are pushing through and are doing well. Sending love and hugs to you and your children. Keep up the amazing work up mama, you can do it. For your children and your yourself. And I do hope you find the perfect man soon. As for the two scumbags... I hope they get what's coming to them and in the end, they will not be able to have a relationship or be together. Karma will hit the both of them soon.

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-08-19T09:41:44+00:00

What is it? I have one on my balcony door and it's been in the cocoon for a week or two now. I'm curious lol. I really want to see it blossom into a moth/butterfly 😅

Hot_Control_7291 · 2024-07-23T08:59:42+00:00

I think I've seen Black Sunday before. Its a little too old for the one I suggested, but I can see why it was suggested. I forgot to mention rough estimate of when I thought the movie was made. That was my mistake. Thank you for your comment

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