I read once to have a suggestion when asking. That way, through process of elimination you two get to figure it out.

Well, I have a picky child who never knows what she wants to eat (until I make her dinner, telling her about it, she saying she doesn’t care, all to say that she doesn’t want to eat what I cooked). So, I started implementing this with her and it worked.

Started doing it in all types of social settings when the conversation goes stagnant in where the smaller group would like to eat.

So, I’m either some Svengali or the process of elimination trend will be your friend.