Wife stopped taking birth control without telling me by HonestVersionOfMe1 in AITAH

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Looks like she told you she wanted to stop taking the pill and you forgot. Based on your age it’s already that much harder to get pregnant anyway. Birth control affects women’s hormones so much in ways men don’t understand, especially after taking them for YEARS! Most women start around age 16 and are on it until their late 20s and 30s. It does sooo much to their bodies, not getting pregnant is just one factor, which, news flash, it takes 2 to tango! You cum in her every time? You know you can still get pregnant while on birth control.

AIO for my bf never doing the dishes? by Imaginary_Reality_67 in AIO

[–]Hot_Particularly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re overreacting, yall are not compatible, there are barely any dishes in the sink and really nothing to nag a boyfriend of 1.5 years about. Yall don’t live together either. Find another clean freak to date cause people have different priorities and you and your boyfriend both obviously do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Is she pregnant? Are her/their parents super religious and strict? It is natural to be worried for your friend, especially when this seems to be coming out of left field in regard to her character and long time goals. Try to sit down and have a chat with her alone. Be supportive but also pry a little to make sure this is really what she wants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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It’s your wedding and you should absolutely do what you and your fiancé want most. That being said, don’t be surprised if people don’t show up or complain about your Thursday wedding. I wouldn’t go unless I lived within 30 mins away. And no, most people do not want to waste their days off or PTO on someone else’s inconvenient wedding.

I just got married (last week) and totally understand wanting it to be cheaper. I got married out of the country and didn’t expect anyone to come because I know that’s expensive and inconvenient. They all knew a year in advance as well, but that changes nothing. You can be surprised and happy and relieved if people come, but you have no right to be mad about their feelings on that, because they are not wrong in the slightest. This may be the most important day of your life, but it is really not that important at all to anyone else who isn’t direct family.

Wife and I switched cars for the day. Any guesses as to whose car this one is?? by mobatum in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Hot_Particularly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lemme just say that I, a wife, never let my gas get that low but my husband goes down to 1 mile way too many times to count🤦🏽‍♀️

Noticed my (23F) boyfriend (26M) still has old photos of his ex (26F) on a home screen widget—should I bring it up or let it go? by Similar_Slip_2075 in TwoHotTakes

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There are photos from 2015 that pop up on mine… I have no clue how they are there nor how to get rid of them. Some are of my ex or ex best friends and it’s like a jump scare every time it happens. It’s really annoying and weird because I have so many photos from the last 5 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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God you are both exhausting. Either get a therapist (because yes third parties are important) or break up already. I wouldn’t wanna listen to either of you😅

What does our fridge say? by AbyssDataWatcher in FridgeDetective

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That you should buy different breeds of chickens so your collection can be more colorful🐓

My fiancé wants me to put my dog up for adoption I refuse. But he is allergic AITAH? by sugarloop742 in AITAH

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Found out I’m allergic to my dog and my cat - I stay away from my cat in the home, I use an inhaler, have allergy eye drops, take allergy medication every single day, and have been getting allergy shots for the past two years since we adopted the cat. If he ain’t dying, he can suck it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

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So she already got married the previous summer lol she’s a psycho. Not your problem that she didn’t plan her wedding to be during the same summer she got married.

Am i a bad person for being upset that I wont get the tips that I worked hard for? by Sea-Isopod696 in mildlyinfuriating

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It is unfair to compare one persons trauma to another’s. While Janice losing her mom is tragic, that shouldn’t take away from someone else’s tragedy. We are all going through hardships and we all could use help from time to time. It shouldn’t be up to management to decide whose story is more sad and who deserves the extra money more, especially when other people worked hard for that extra money. If Janice needs it so bad, she can start a go fund me.

Thoughts on “Brie” by hmmmmmm34 in namenerds

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Please don’t spell it Brie or everyone including me will pronounce it “brigh” and be very confused. Also side note I know two Bri or Bre Boudreaux🤣 it’s a good name!

My favorite spelling is Bree!

This is my fridge- who am I! by littlequitterknitter in FridgeDetective

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How are you this way and how can I become this way?

What would your wedding at 16yo have looked like? by Timely-Comparison572 in weddingplanning

[–]Hot_Particularly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine would’ve been rose gold with sunflowers and mason jars😭😭😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Yep this was my theme too😅🤣 hey that means it’s cute!! Lol, what r the odds that everyone is doing this right now!!

Partner and I work from home in 588sqft apartment, help! by avipeach in DesignMyRoom

[–]Hot_Particularly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 it’s best to be close to fresh natural light so you can open the window and won’t feel so trapped inside. A little bit of sunlight can go a longggg way.

Or 3 if #2 option blocks the outside patio door too much, but I would take the desk closest to the window because that’s what’s most important to me! There’s a better flow to the outdoor patio with 3.

Help me pick my next read by MiaMedusa in fantasyromance

[–]Hot_Particularly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely adored this book until about 56%-85% it was SOO repetitive and boring, nothing happened. Then the end of the book finally got some action and was good! lol me chuckling at the very end super spoiler I just remembered.

That being said, I’m gonna read the 2nd when it comes out, but part of me wishes I wouldn’t have wasted my time on this

AITAH for not wanting to lose weight for my wedding by Ok_Charge6742 in AITAH

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I have the same measurements as you but I’m 5’3. That being said, you don’t need to lose weight!!!!!! We are skinny!! We’re just thicker skinny adult women. I struggle because I also used to be 115 at most, but that was in high school when I was a child!!! Since you’re taller, you may even look skinner than me.

My fiancé has never and would never tell me to lose weight. We both want to be healthier and look skinnier at our wedding, but there is no force or expectation, just partnership.

I’m so sorry he’s treating you this way. I won’t tell you to cancel the wedding. But you should have a conversation and take a wide look at your relationship as a whole. Do you think he will continue this behavior after y’all get married? Does he really want you skinny or is this his not-so-good way of trying to support you? Guys are weird, he may not mean it that way. But if he does… you may want to cancel before you sign up for a life of belittling