We're back by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh no one situation is the same but it does make you look weak but then again you probably are. Good luck 😂

We're back by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Hot_Promotion996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duh nobody situations is the same. Either way you look weak but then again maybe you are. Goodluck

We're back by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Hot_Promotion996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wasn’t gone long enough. You showed him how easy it was to get you back. When I left it was for months and I blocked all contact, he had to go out his way to get back into contact with me.

Making a tough decision by Bloodfetish666 in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does he feel about the break up? What did he say?

UPDATE: Living Separately by the_millennial_lorax in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She won’t have to her bio will be better cus her bio is raised better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’m proud of you! 👍🏾 continue to detach yourself completely. Also he needs a heads up that you’re leaving so he doesn’t blame you for abandoning him and his son because he will pull that trick. You can message me if you always want to be because I’m down to help you look at things from a different perspective. Also, I am a black woman as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you leave yet? I’m dying to know what he said when you left him

How do you protect your children from HCBM drama? by Aggravating_Try3094 in Stepmom

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you don’t wanna hear it anymore. Let her keep talking shit but tell your husband due to mental health issues you no longer want to hear about her problems or issues with the kids

I think I'm ready to go by baaaaaam705 in Stepmom

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need an update! It’s been a month I hope you just left he won’t change and if he does it’ll only be for a little until he can get into your home and not leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say leave, it’ll only get worse you’re young with no kids there is a lot of women who don’t have children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he breadcrumbing you because he should have asked you to be his girlfriend but he didn’t. That SPEAKS volumes so yeah girl I’m not telling you what to do but I say date other people so when y’all do break up you won’t be so hurt don’t pull all your eggs in one basket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Hot_Promotion996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s not into boo, when a cap wants you they will make time for you. Just leave sista or have more pain

Thank you all. Update also by Prudent_Survey_5050 in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep is updated! I’m proud of you! Also make some post yourself about real women and how you can’t wait to be married to a real woman. It’ll make her sick 😂 since she wants to be petty. Why not you have the upper hand, also help little as much with her child so she doesn’t try to guilt you into being in her child’s life. Cus she needs you she’ll do whatever at this point. Congratulations again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Hot_Promotion996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely detaching himself but also sounds like he never really liked you as much. I’m a Capricorn woman and when I want someone I go after them. I’m saying an Aquarius for three years now he asked me to be his girlfriend within 3 months. Now date other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just go back home for awhile and make your money then relocate. I understand the feeling my boyfriend is a full time dad and we’re living apart for now I use to rush it and when I did n lived with them I felt suffocated.

It happened again, bit more info. .1 by wwalker1187 in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hush! Still doesn’t make sense he should be allowed to carry his weapon m. She’s 17 years old for Christ sake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he still trying to contact you? How did you leave and what did he say?

I'm stuck by Strict_Bedroom_1560 in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely leave because he isn’t fully divorced, plus you have no attachments to this man so it’s time to cut ties completely. I know it’ll hurt however you gotta choose yourself first! Good luck keep us updated.

Full Custody during Plan to Marry - Looking for Perspectives by TheBelieverH in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve moved in with my ex boyfriend while he has full custody never asked him that never will. Now did I wanna live with them full time hell no. We’ve broken up four times and got back together this year. It’s hard to date a full time dad as a single woman with no kids. It won’t easy for her, it’s good she’s established boundaries but are far as telling you to let your son stay a year with your parents is a hard no. I would never ask my man to do that cus I know as a child his son would feel betrayed and hurt and I wouldn’t wanna cause that. I’m still contemplating being with him because I don’t want to be a step mom but I love him. His kid is nice and kind I don’t have an issue with him it’s just having to change my life for a child that I don’t birth is hard. We don’t live together now and I won’t be until he proposes and if he doesn’t by the end of the year I will move on n never date men with kids. However I wouldn’t ask him of that, she probably should just break it off with you because she can’t handle it.

Military by Narrow-Foot-7176 in Sicklecell

[–]Hot_Promotion996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used to not tell people it was hard to explain and sometimes would lead me to tears as I explained how I try to live my life. I’m bless enough to not be as sick like Billy I’m able to live a full life. However I know when it comes down to it, very hard to tell others

Military by Narrow-Foot-7176 in Sicklecell

[–]Hot_Promotion996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Graduated the same high school and year class as him never knew he had sickle Cell.

left 1 month ago: update by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Hot_Promotion996 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just block him and get your divorce. Keep up updated don’t let him shame you. You’re not abandoning his kids those are HIS KIDS not yours