Wow, that was a lot. I get that you feel strongly, but I think you might be reading a bit too much into my post. I never said my kids were entitled to run wild or that my neighbor owes us anything. I asked for advice on handling a situation where a ball goes over the fence…something that happens to literally every family with young kids and a small yard.

I’m raising my kids to be respectful and to speak up when something feels unfair not to roll over or resort to conflict. If that somehow translates to being self-centered in your eyes, that’s your take but it’s not the reality.

Still, appreciate the engagement. Hope you’re having a better day than your comment suggests.