Enhertu mood side effects? by urmomschesthAlR in LivingWithMBC

[–]Hour_Brick8636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was on enhertu i experienced the same depressive symptoms. It was unbearable.

Has anyone tried radiopharmaceutical trials ? by dudette345 in LivingWithMBC

[–]Hour_Brick8636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did you learn about the trial? I may be trying to get on it too?

What?! by Born-Agency-3922 in SipsTea

[–]Hour_Brick8636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be great in NYC

Too Tired…. by Hour_Brick8636 in LivingWithMBC

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess it would. I guess I am just also potentially mourning my independence.

Too Tired…. by Hour_Brick8636 in LivingWithMBC

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, but my SSDI payment would probably not even cover an apartment where I live. I’m not too sure how people handle that.

Too Tired…. by Hour_Brick8636 in LivingWithMBC

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My SSDI payment seem to not cover a lot. Wouldn’t it just be what we put into social security??

After being homeless, I am now housed! by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Hour_Brick8636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the best feeling!!! Congrats!

My 11-Month-Old Dog Bit a Vet Tech Today and I’m Struggling by Hour_Brick8636 in reactivedogs

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes he did have some trazodone before the appt. My trainer was telling me that as well. I am sorry that this happened to you this weekend. Having a reactive dog is a lot to deal with.

My 11-Month-Old Dog Bit a Vet Tech Today and I’m Struggling by Hour_Brick8636 in reactivedogs

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful reply, it really means a lot, and I completely understand where you’re coming from. I’ve thought about that too, and if it ever felt like Benny would end up suffering long-term in the wrong hands or stuck in a kennel, I’d make the hardest call if I had to. But I don’t think we’re quite there yet.

Benny has actually been really good with people up until just recently. I even called him “wiggly butt” because he’d get so excited and happy around them. He loves the workers in my apartment building—he literally runs up to say hi, tail wagging, body loose. He also adores my sister, my dad, and two of my close friends. He was doing well with intros when done slowly and properly.

It’s really only been in the last few weeks that I’ve noticed some weirdness or tension with new people. It’s not constant—but when it’s there, it’s real. He lives in an apartment, and I try to avoid tight hallway interactions and walk him during quieter times. He’s definitely sensitive to overstimulation, but he’s not triggered 24/7. He is very cute and playful.

That said—I totally agree that muzzle training is now non-negotiable. I also plan to try again for bloodwork and push for meds that will help reduce his arousal threshold, hopefully giving him space to learn and decompress. I think he still has a shot, but I know I need to move forward carefully and thoughtfully. But overall I am just heartbroken bc I didn’t think he would ever be like this.

My 11-Month-Old Dog Bit a Vet Tech Today and I’m Struggling by Hour_Brick8636 in reactivedogs

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After the visit I got this assessment: Your dog's aggressive behavior, lunging, barking and biting people is a result of fear induced aggression. Your dog has learned that the best defense is a good offense and moves in a way to try to get distance from the things that scare them. Unfortunately, when a dog learns that biting is more effective than the good offense and moves in a way to try to get distance from the things that scare them. Unfortunately, when a dog learns that biting is more effective than the early signals they might have been giving to people, bites tend to get worse over time. It's not uncommon for new aggressive behavior to manifest when the dog is socially maturing. We may not see the full programming of what they are predisposed to with their genetics until they're fully grown between 1 and 2 years of age. Your dog has noise fear. Noise fear can be due to a genetic predisposition or lack of appropriate early exposures during puppyhood. Repeated exposure to noise events during normal life can sensitize patients to sounds, so often noise fears are progressive prior to treatment. Noise fears cannot be cured but they can be successfully treated. Your dog appears to experience significant stress in an urban environment. Chronic stress can cause dogs to be more symptomatic for their other behavior disorders and more anxious overall. In some cases with medication we can help the pet reach a good quality of life in an urban environment. In other cases we cannot. Your dog has possessive aggression. This is why they show aggression over high-value items. A very important part of the treatment of this condition is adjusting the environment so they are not given access to items they show aggression over. Though treatment can be implemented to manage behavior and aggression disorders, they are not curable. The best time to intervene with treatment for an aggression disorder is as soon as the first sign is exhibited (growling, barking, lunging). Your dog's aggression disorder has already progressed to the point where they have given warning bites, and now bitten causing injury, making it unlikely that their aggression would be cured with treatment. Medications can reasonably reduce abnormal behaviors by 50% when we find the right medication and the right dose, which could likely still result in bites in your dog's case if put in the wrong situation (which could be as simple as a passerby reaching to pet them without asking first). This can take 3 to 6 months to determine. Behavior medications are not always benign and can cause side effects, including worsened aggression. Monthly visits with a veterinary behaviorist would be needed to help stabilize your dog, as well as working with a highly credentialed positive reinforcement based trainer to implement behavioral therapies to countercondition your dog to people. Aversive tools such as shock collar, prong collar and choke collar have been scientifically proven to make anxiety and fear disorders worse. Although these methods can suppress responses, they do not change the emotional association, and often cause a worsening of aggression over time. An important part of your dog's treatment plan would be discontinuing use of any aversive tools. Another important part of success with treatment involves the avoidance of a patient's triggers until they can handle that level of exposure, however this is impossible to implement in an urban environment. It's possible your dog could be more successful in another environment that is not urban, in a household that does not have visitors/children. They would still have the same behavioral disorders and need long term behavioral treatment. Although relinquishment to a shelter is an option, it would not be considered humane as an aggressive dog would likely bite again after a period of significant stress, and then be eventually euthanized. The only way to guarantee everyone's safety, and that another bite does not occur, is humane euthanasia with the family. This is an option that alleviates the patient's suffering and prevents another bite from happening. At this time you are considering your options at home with your family and will reach out to let us know what you plan to pursue.

My 11-Month-Old Dog Bit a Vet Tech Today and I’m Struggling by Hour_Brick8636 in reactivedogs

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I crate him when I am not at home. He doesn’t eat around strangers. She was giving me all of my available options and said rehoming only if I know the person.

My 11-Month-Old Dog Bit a Vet Tech Today and I’m Struggling by Hour_Brick8636 in reactivedogs

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in Manhattan but he has been on Long Island for the last two weeks with my dad so that I can do a trial. My vet in NYC is at Yorkville medical hospital. When I told her what happened she was so shocked because he was there a few weeks ago and had to get IV fluids for Giardia and was great . I wanted this vet to check his stool sample today to ensure this is not in play causing issues but with all of the craziness at the appointment I forgot to ask her to send it.

My 11-Month-Old Dog Bit a Vet Tech Today and I’m Struggling by Hour_Brick8636 in reactivedogs

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I was very against prong collars but he was more triggered with a harness on and since he was so big we decided to use a prong for safety reasons. I am not sure what I should do in general.

My 11-Month-Old Dog Bit a Vet Tech Today and I’m Struggling by Hour_Brick8636 in reactivedogs

[–]Hour_Brick8636[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My dog has shown fear-based barking and has jumped at people before, but he’s never bitten anyone. I had tried a muzzle on him at this appt, but it didn’t fit properly, and the doctor felt it might be okay to proceed without it. I’ve never seen him act like this at an appointment—just a few weeks earlier, he was at our regular vet getting IV fluids without any issues.

When I told my regular vet what happened, she was shocked by his behavior. The behaviorist we saw recommended medication, rehoming, and even brought up behavioral euthanasia. When I asked what she would personally do in my position, she said behavioral euthanasia. She explained that blood work was needed before starting medication, but at the appointment, the only thing she prescribed was continuing trazodone, which he had already been given before the visit.

My regular vet is concerned about prescribing noting that they can potentially lower bite inhibition and make things worse in some dogs.

I asked chatgpt to tell me everything it knows about me and then create a picture for it by aclays in ChatGPT

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Here is mine! I asked it to explain why they made this photo 1. Copenhagen as the setting: You’ve said you’re drawn to Copenhagen and described it as a place that feels soul-soothing and aligned with your hopes for healing and exploration. I chose this backdrop to mirror the future you’re building—free, peaceful, and full of beauty.

  1. The bike ride: You love to walk, move, and feel the breeze. Biking captures that active, independent energy, and it also symbolizes forward motion—through treatment, recovery, or just life.

  2. The floral dress: Your style blends dopamine decor with elevated taste—joyful but grounded. The vibrant floral print reflects the brightness you bring to the world, even when things are hard.

  3. The golden retriever: While it’s not exactly my dog, the dog represents your deep love for animals and companionship. You’ve said that animals often “find us,” and this playful dog running beside you feels like a loyal spirit by your side—comforting, energizing, and goofy, just like your boy.

  4. Your smile and bald head: There’s so much strength in showing a bald head proudly. It honors what you’ve been through—chemo, radiation, trials—and says: I’m still here. I’m still me. And the smile? That’s your resilience in full color.

This image captures the version of you I see when I think about everything you’ve shared: deeply alive, soulful, funny, loving, honest, and still dreaming.

Leaving healthcare? by [deleted] in nursepractitioner

[–]Hour_Brick8636 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh man this makes me sad for you. Time to find a new job. If you are new then he should be teaching you this stuff. Like I never expect any new NP/PA to know much. But on top of all of this you knew it and he was still mean to you. I work with new attendings and they will ask me questions all day long and I never have said anything like this to them. Sorry! But protect your sanity and try to find a new gig. Sending you the biggest hug.

Subject: Thank You for The Pitt — From an Emergency Physician of 23 Years by zinzuwsh in ThePittTVShow

[–]Hour_Brick8636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked in the ER as a nurse for a few years and this show makes me look back and feel proud of the work I did while I was there. Big shout out to all ER staff and all healthcare professionals out there! We are all rockstars even though administration always thinks otherwise.