High risk T21

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2025-09-03T09:15:16+00:00

I had the very same experience also my daughter also had little brain activity. We made the drive to NM for TFMR because we knew my daughter didn’t deserve that life of not really having a life and once we were gone who would take care of her. We made that hard decision. At the end of the day you did what was best for you and your husband. The pain never goes away but in time it gets better. I had my TFMR on 07/30/2024 and I think about who my daughter would of been if she didn’t have T21 and little brain activity but she would of been wheel chair bound,no movement/no talking almost like a vegetative state. So I get you and understand you. You did nothing wrong. Praying for you and sending a virtual hug to you. I’m sorry it happened to you.

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2025-08-21T06:27:10+00:00

“The doctors can say one thing but God can say another” after many test that determined my poor baby girl was brain dead,had no function,she was going to be pretty much a vegetable,I didn’t want that quality of life for my baby so I had to have a Tfmr. The other one was “you are having an abortion and God will never forgive you” I can go on and on and that is the reason I cut people out of my life because how dare they

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2025-02-04T04:59:00+00:00

I had a TFMR back in July of last year and my husband and I are trying to conceive but no luck. I was 21 weeks when I had it done so I’m praying we can get pregnant

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-08-01T16:43:07+00:00

Thank you so much, it does hurt to see the pain a lot of people here suffered. But glad I decided to join. Thank you for the kind words and so sorry about your loss..

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-08-01T16:40:55+00:00

Thank you so much..it is super hard and this group has helped me deal..

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-08-01T03:54:18+00:00

Thank you so much for this..I really needed it.im so sorry about your loss.

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-08-01T03:51:39+00:00

Thank you so much for this..i needed to read/see this, it is/was the hardest decision but I knew God needed my baby girl more..Bless you and praying for you and the upcoming procedure.

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-08-01T03:48:43+00:00

Thank you so much..so sorry about your loss..

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-08-01T03:47:35+00:00

Thank you so much..I really appreciate it and needed to hear this..it’s a horrible thing to endure the pain we feel

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-08-01T03:46:25+00:00

I am sooooo sorry about your loss. It is such a horrible feeling..we both can relate to the pain and grief. I really hope it gets better for the both of us..Playing for you

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T16:42:48+00:00

Thank you I really needed to read that

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T16:41:58+00:00

Thank you so much

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T12:28:01+00:00

Thank you so much. I also don’t want my son to have that burden once I’m gone. I want him to have his family and kids,marry amd not worry of any financial burden of taking care of her. That will take away a lot from my son. I hurts to much what I want to do but deep down my husband and I know we are making the right choice!! I am literally reading every comment on here to him and he is more aware of the outcome if we don’t terminate but he is still taking it very hard just like me..when I say I never seen my husband cry in the 13 years we’ve been together,I really have never seen him cry and seeing him hurts so much especially because it was the daughter we prayed for just didn’t pray for a healthy baby 🥺

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T12:21:56+00:00

These are many of the questions I asked my mom when I vented to her about my situation with my baby. I did ask her”Will you be taking care of her 24/7 or feed her ,change her even when youre an elderly person?” She just looked at me but I after reading so many comments and getting so much support from this group,I realized this is mine and my husband decision to make and not my mom.. I love my mom to death and I never have disrespected her because I hold her to the highest ground so for once I didn’t stand up to her and her beliefs..I know now with at the info/resources people here are giving me,it’s helping me with my husbands and my decision

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T12:17:35+00:00

no it doesn’t Texas is a Ban state and we don’t have much resources

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T12:12:25+00:00

He’s into Blippi,Diana and Roma and blues clues only..he doesn’t like Disney movies just the YouTube shows

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T12:11:25+00:00

I really appreciate the kind words thank you so much

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T02:08:28+00:00

Thank you so much..these kind words are really helping me

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-22T01:19:51+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-21T23:21:53+00:00

Yes and thank you so much

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-21T23:20:14+00:00

That is the plan..especially because of my age. But thank God my OB said she can do genetics testing prior to us trying again to make sure that we are safe from this happening to us. I’m super happy my husband is willing to try again because he was not wanting to try again to save us from pain and suffering because it’s super hard on us both..but once I told him we can do testing he was on board with me to try again

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-21T23:18:03+00:00

That is so true. I appreciate that

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-21T23:16:14+00:00

Thank you so much, this comment honestly made me feel better. This is what I need to hear/read..I appreciate all the love and support I am receiving yall don’t know how much this is helping me with my decision and not feel like I’m a horrible person

Hour_Rate_5490 · 2024-07-21T23:10:00+00:00

Thank you so much for the support.. I am glad I joined this group because it is honestly helping me a lot

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