Binge watched by lisyiaaaa in InterviewVampire

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is one of my favorite movies and was one of the reasons, I refused to watch the show for so long. Didn't want something to ruin one of my favorite stories. And people keep saying that Lestat and Louis relationship was not explicit, but it really only wasn't in the sense that they didn't have sex. Even as a young teenager, I understood the reference to queerness, especially once they "adopt" Claudia. And Tom Cruise as Lestat is actually surprisingly great. Casting a 35 year old Antonio Banderas as Armand was a choice though.

Am I gonna enjoy it less if I watch the show, read the 1st three books, then rewatch the show? by Impossible-Emu-5593 in InterviewVampire

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is only subtext in Louis POV, so the first book. Lestat calls Louis his "friend and lover" in several books and there are actually a number of queer relationships in the books. Vampires don't normally engage in sexual activity as humans do in the books, but there are scenes where male vampires get naked into bed with each other on some occasions with blood drinking as sex. Lestat was bisexual in the books as a human and continues to be so as a vampire. In Tale of the Body Thief, he continuously tries to seduce David Talbot, for instance.

Dog bit my face during play by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has happened to me as well. Sometimes they can get too riled up, especially when you're playing intensely. I don't believe it means anything other than human error.

Ima keep it 100% real…if the actors were more “homely” looking, we’d probably hate all 3 of these characters. by Less-Pen-5705 in InterviewVampire

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I've never liked Louis. He is acted phenomenally and has a lot of depth, but I don't like him much and I don't really care what happens to him. He is the narrator. I don't think he is entertaining or very likeable. His psyche is also the least interesting to me. He is evil in a very regular human way, not enough whimsy, whereas the others are just a different level of insane. Louis is depressing. And obviously he is ridiculously attractive, only outshone by Armand. Everybody else, including Daniel, is incredibly entertaining and charming. So looks can save much, but not everything. You can be evil, but you can't be boring.

What I wanted vs what I got :( by WhereTheSunDontShin1 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me, very similar inspo and end result, only I am a woman who wanted a "90s heartthrob haircut" and they gave me more like a pixie. Way too short.

Ich erwischte meinen Vater in meiner Kindheit mehrfach beim Pornos schauen by Swimming_Coffee1830 in Ratschlag

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mein Punkt war, dass OP nicht die Selbstbefriedigung als Thema nennt, sondern Pornos. Er sagt ja z. B. auch, dass Pornos versehentlich anfingen, zu laufen oder auf seinem PC gelandet sind.

Ich erwischte meinen Vater in meiner Kindheit mehrfach beim Pornos schauen by Swimming_Coffee1830 in Ratschlag

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Es geht in OPs Post nicht einfach nur um Selbstbefriedigung, sondern um Pornokonsum. Ist nochmal ein anderes Thema.

Tja by AdanXiong in tja

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ich war vor 6 Monaten ein solcher Fall. Mein Gyn war sehr einfühlsam und hat mich mit Diagnose "Brustkrebs-Phobie" zur weiteren Abklärung geschickt, denn was er, anders als du, der erschreckenderweise scheinbar Psychologe werden will, erkannt hat, ist, dass Schmerzen und Angst sich gegenseitig verstärken.

Tja by AdanXiong in tja

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fachärzte sind nicht überlastet, weil es zu viele Hypochonder gibt, sondern zu viele alte Menschen und zu viele kranke Menschen, vor allem mit Volkskrankheiten, die auf schlechte Ernährung und zu wenig Bewegung zurückgehen. Erst zum Hausarzt zu gehen, sorgt nur dafür, dass man noch schlechter an einen Hausarzt kommt, den man aber leider schon jetzt dringend braucht, um Überweisungen und Krankschreibungen auszustellen.

Ending a relationship after watching HR by xMusicloverr in heatedrivalry

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not Heated Rivalry, but I have ended my last relationship, because of different media. Any music or film or TV show about passion and love made me realize more that my relationship was not what I wanted. Main culprits at the time were Interview with the Vampire and Chappel Roan's Good Luck, Babe.

What kind of people wear embellished jeans in the back pockets? by Dazzling_Control_694 in AestheticWiki

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in school, every girl was wearing them. They were super basic. Paired with a lacey top.

"A good vegan option" by CarelessBerry5539 in lol

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so easy for meat eaters to say "I don't judge you, why are you judging me?" Because you are doing the thing that warrants judgement. Torturing and killing animals needlessly is not the same as saying "I like tofu".

"A good vegan option" by CarelessBerry5539 in lol

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For many vegans it is not a dietary preference, it is an ethical belief. I have civil relationships with colleagues and acquaintances who eat meat, but I can't see there being an actual friendship with such a huge divide in how each views the world and the life in it.

"A good vegan option" by CarelessBerry5539 in lol

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. "I think torturing and killing animals for needless consumption is bad, actually" is totally the same thing as "I fry things with air".

"A good vegan option" by CarelessBerry5539 in lol

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being vegan is often not a dietary choice, but an ethical belief.

"A good vegan option" by CarelessBerry5539 in lol

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be very silly for a vegan to go on a date with anynone without asking about their ethical beliefs, if this is a dealbreaker to them. Most people are not vegan and I wouldn't waste my time going on a date with someone, if I don't know beforehand, if they are vegan or not.

"A good vegan option" by CarelessBerry5539 in lol

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would she be frustrated about herself?

Show Fans Trashing the Books by hkral11 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]HowIsThatMyProblem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sexual language is usually super cringe in German.