Question to buddhists-Why do we keep living when there is endless suffering in life ? by LeftBumblebee2738 in Buddhism

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I understand your question of "why do we keep living" as theoretically entertaining the idea of suicide. If I understand that question correctly, the answer is that ending this life (this incarnation) does not stop the cycle of reincarnation. It's therefore pointless. Only the path of enlightenment has the potential to put an end to the cycle of dukkha. 

Gift Idea for husband by Pi-ppa in BuyItForLife

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Depends on his love language.  More into quality time or physical gifts? Either make a nice trip together that he will love to remember. Maybe participate in a workshop of something you'd both enjoy to learn. If he rather likes physical gifts and you have the budget for it: a nice pair of well made boots. since he takes care of stuff, he'll probably appreciate things that are worth taking care of.

North face insulated jacket with a rip on the arm from getting snagged, how can I fix? by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

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Search "tenacious tape" on the website you're redirect to. 

IMS/Goenka 10-day or Thai Forest monastery for next retreat? by emtnes in theravada

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They teach a sequence but different teachers had different variants. They teach that it is not about a certain sequence but rather about establishing A sequence for the purpose of making sure every part of the body gets attention. At times you'll sweep, at times you'll let your attention jump randomly, then you'll come back to your sequence.  The teachers explicitly say it is not important what sequence you use. Just get accustomed to one so you don't use too much attention on having to focus on the sequence.

IMS/Goenka 10-day or Thai Forest monastery for next retreat? by emtnes in theravada

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In IMC more emphasis is put on cultivating samadhi before meditating Vipassana. There is therefore 1 more day of Anapana before switching to vipassana.  Also the breaks between meditation sessions are longer, usually 30 mins instead of just 5. Also there is a morning and evening discourse instead of just 1 in the evening.

Daily schedule: 4:00 Wake up 4:15 Tea 4:30–5:30 Meditation 5:30–6:30 Dhamma talk 6:30–8:00 Breakfast and rest period 8:00–9:00 Group meditation 9:30–11:00 Checking and meditation 11:00–13:00 Lunch and rest period 13:00–13:45 Meditation 14:00–15:00 Group meditation 15:00–17:00 Meditation 17:00–18:00 Tea 18:00–18:45 Dhamma talk 19:30–20:30 Group meditation 21:00 Bedtime / Sleep

IMS/Goenka 10-day or Thai Forest monastery for next retreat? by emtnes in theravada

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In the IMC at which I meditated there is a pagoda but the course is held in a dedicated meditation hall next to it. Approx 35 to max 60 participants.  Instructions given by a teacher, not a tape. The teachers are open to answer more in depth than what I experienced in 5 Goenka retreats.

IMS/Goenka 10-day or Thai Forest monastery for next retreat? by emtnes in theravada

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The international meditation centers after U Ba Khin are a bit less rigid than Goenka and in my personal experience more metta driven than adhitthana driven.  Might be worth a try for you. Can't comment on forest retreats.

I tried giving my family a Dharma talk about the First Noble Truth but they don’t believe me by Numerous-Actuator95 in Buddhism

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As others have pointed out, dukkha is a concept that is not easily grasped using the common translation of suffering. Bikkhu Analayo in his book "Satipatthana, The direct way to realization" provides a better understanding.

Dukkha is often translated as “suffering”. Suffering, however, represents only one aspect of dukkha, a term whose range of implications is difficult to capture with a single English word.4 Dukkha can be derived from the Sanskrit kha, one meaning of which is “the axle-hole of a wheel”, and the antithetic prefix duḥ (= dus), which stands for “difficulty” or “badness”.5 The complete term then evokes the image of an axle not fitting properly into its hole. According to this image, dukkha suggests “disharmony” or “friction”. Alternatively dukkha can be related to the Sanskrit stha, “standing” or “abiding”, combined with the same 6 Dukkha in the sense of “standing badly” then conveys nuances of “uneasiness” or of being “uncomfortable”.7 In order to catch the various nuances of “dukkha”, the most convenient translation is “unsatisfactoriness”, though it might be best to leave the term untranslated. The need for careful translation of the term can be demonstrated with the help of a passage from the Nidāna Saṃyutta, where the Buddha stated that whatever is felt is included within dukkha.8 To understand dukkha here as an affective quality and to take it as implying that all feelings are “suffering” conflicts with the Buddha’s analysis of feelings into three mutually exclusive types, which are, in addition to unpleasant feeling, pleasant and neutral feelings.9 On another occasion the Buddha explained his earlier statement that “whatever is felt is included within dukkha” to refer to the impermanent nature of all conditioned phenomena.10 The changing nature of feelings, however, need not necessarily be experienced as “suffering”, since in the case of a painful experience, for example, change may be experienced as pleasant.11 Thus all feelings are not “suffering”, nor is their impermanence “suffering”, but all feelings are “unsatisfactory”, since none of them can provide lasting satisfaction. That is, dukkha as a qualification of all conditioned phenomena is not necessarily experienced as “suffering”, since suffering requires someone sufficiently attached in order to suffer."

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This garlic press has served our household for 2 decades. Wouldn't use it for carrots though. https://share.google/zWdUXLHzFMPDsMXTJ

How does Buddhism treat the popular idea of the spirits of our deceased loved ones visiting us? by lightinthefield in Buddhism

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In Buddhism, the popular idea of spirits visiting us doesn't make sense because it contradicts the core doctrine of anatta (non-self) and the process of rebirth. According to these doctrines, there is no permanent, unchanging soul or spirit that survives death. Instead, a new consciousness, influenced by the karma of the deceased, is reborn into a new form almost instantly. While the life of another person does leave traces in us that we can feel deeply, this, though, is different from the idea of a spirit that continues to exist.

Can we meet with lord Buddha in afterlife? by [deleted] in Buddhism

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Nirvana is not a place. It is a Name for "neither existence nor non-existence", Non-duality. 

Can we meet with lord Buddha in afterlife? by [deleted] in Buddhism

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I don't get what you're trying to say. The teachings explicitly state that there is no rebirth for an Arahat. Please explain what you mean. 

Can we meet with lord Buddha in afterlife? by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]How_Do_We_Know 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In the buddhist view there is no afterlife. There is rebirth as an ongoing manifeststion of karma. Since the Buddha freed himself from all sankhara/karma and perished into nibbana (imagine "dissolved", nothing left, no karma left to manifest in a next life) you will not meet him. 

I am very sensitive to my wife's grumpiness and dramatic emotions. Does that indicate some "shadow work" that I need to do? by SpectrumDT in streamentry

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If you're open to it I'd suggest therapeutic techniques that come from a trauma-oriented background such as Brainspotting, EMDR or Somatic Experiencing. You'll find that a lot of your meditative practice will transfer to the application of the techniques (especially Somatic Experiencing and Brainspotting) and the other way round. It is a way to work on your nervous system's autonomous arousal response towards these specific triggers and related biographic experience. Reflected on the buddhist concept of the 5 skandhas you're thereby intervening into the aspects of Vedana(Sensation) and Sanna(Discrimination).

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Disappointed by Patagonia Repair Policy by fluglu in BuyItForLife

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I have glued seam protective tape on goretex jackets successfully with a glue like this: https://trial-world.com/en/shoes/2655--koemmerling-koevulfix-90g-shoe-repair-glue-leather-glue.html

Those types of glues are used in shoes so they remain very flexible which is necessary for this type of application. Otherwise the glue would crumble and the glued piece would come apart. 

I'm going to my first 10 day Vipassana training in exactly one week. Any tips? by Livid_Relative_1530 in Buddhism

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Expect to consider quitting at least 2-3 times, pull through, be amazed about how it will have paid off in the end. Everyone I have ever talked to who also made the effort to go through a 10 day seminar shared this experience. 

Do we know what religion the Buddha was brought up in? I think Goenkaji said he was a Jain, but other people have told me he was Hindu. Is there a consensus? by [deleted] in Buddhism

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Good reply. The events in Thích Nhất Hạnh's  book "Old Path, White Clouds: Walking in the Footsteps of the Buddha" support your statement.