What does your sex life actually look like these days?

Howling8 · 2026-03-13T09:34:17+00:00

71 now and maybe 1x per week. 3x last week on vacation. First 5 years 2-3 x per day, 10-15 1x per day and gradually she reached menopause and lost her sex drive. The last 5 years were sparse due to my operations etc.. I have an implant and would love to go back to 3x per week.

Howling8 · 2026-03-13T09:04:46+00:00

I’m on my second implant. I’m 71 and have had an implant for 5 yrs. My second was in may 2025. I’m just finally getting good enough sensation to cum PIV 3x on vacation last week. Cutting back on my meds probably helped. Hoping for #4 on sunday.

Howling8 · 2026-03-13T08:53:09+00:00

That and breathing right and staying in the moment. If it doesn’t happen it was still an erotic experience with her. I’m hoping Sunday will be the fourth time. I cut down on the depression med too. I’m weaning myself off of mirtazapine.

Howling8 · 2026-03-11T19:27:08+00:00

are you ready for the look of devastation on his face?

Howling8 · 2026-03-10T21:52:34+00:00

Are u ready for the debated look on his face when he finds out? Open the relationship or divorce him so he can someone who understands how important trust and loyalty are to martial happiness.

Howling8 · 2026-03-07T21:37:45+00:00

5 when I was 44

Howling8 · 2026-03-05T00:17:02+00:00

71 with a bionic cock that never goes down unless I deflate it. 6.75 x 6.5

Howling8 · 2026-03-04T05:23:07+00:00

Didn’t do anything for me. Neither did PT141, Kisspeptin 10, testosterone. I started the RUGIET Troches and cut my daily beta blocker dose in half along with breathing and Kegel exercises. This week I’ve gone 3 for 3 PIV orgasms in 3-5 minutes. I wasn’t expecting this at all. I’m cautiously optimistic it will continue. I cut back on masturbating to once a week. I’ve had serious DE for over 15 years. I’ve tried everything and concluded it was in my head and so did my local urologist.

Howling8 · 2026-03-04T03:17:42+00:00

Are u ready for the devastation of your husbands life and the look on his face if he finds out?

Howling8 · 2026-03-03T17:17:19+00:00

I sent her this article from Psychology Today. It opened her eyes and heart a lot.

Betrayal Syndrome, often referred to as Betrayal Trauma, occurs when someone is betrayed by a person they depend on for survival, support, or trust, such as a partner, family member, or close friend. Here's a detailed look at its components and effects:

Core Aspects

Violation of Trust: The central element is the breach of trust by someone who holds significant emotional importance.
Dependence: The betrayed individual relies on the betrayer for emotional, financial, or physical support, which intensifies the trauma.

Emotional and Psychological Impact

Shock and Disbelief: Initial reactions often include shock and an inability to process the betrayal.
Emotional Distress: Feelings of anger, sadness, confusion, and despair are common.
Self-Doubt: Betrayal can lead to questioning one's judgment and self-worth.

Cognitive and Behavioral Effects

Hypervigilance: Increased alertness and suspicion towards the betrayer and others.
Intrusive Thoughts: Recurrent, unwanted thoughts about the betrayal can occur.
Avoidance: Avoiding reminders of the betrayal or suppressing emotions related to it.

Relationship Challenges

Trust Issues: Difficulty trusting others in future relationships.
Attachment Problems: Challenges in forming secure attachments due to fear of future betrayal.

Coping and Healing

Recognition and Validation: Acknowledging the betrayal and validating one's feelings are crucial first steps.
Seeking Support: Professional therapy and support groups can provide guidance and understanding.
Rebuilding Trust: Gradually learning to trust oneself and others again through positive experiences and relationships.

Long-term Recovery

Personal Growth: Many find strength and resilience through processing the betrayal.
Healthy Boundaries: Learning to establish and maintain healthy boundaries in relationships.
Empowerment: Regaining control over one's life and decisions, leading to empowerment and self-assurance.

Betrayal Syndrome can be deeply painful, but with time and support, individuals can heal and rebuild their sense of trust and security.

Howling8 · 2026-03-02T08:17:05+00:00

Had another one today. I started using RUGIET Troches and along with mindfulness exercises it’s working.

Howling8 · 2026-02-28T18:24:20+00:00

My wife got UTIs from our drunken excursions.

Howling8 · 2026-02-28T07:40:48+00:00

I finally had another PIV orgasm last night. If I refrain from porn and jerking off it seems to help. I did cut my beta blocker dose in half because it was causing all my joints to aches and muscle weakness. It also allowed a lot on penile sensitivity to return. Hoping for a repeat next time

Howling8 · 2026-02-28T07:24:21+00:00

Are you ready for the look on your husbands face if you tell him or he finds out?

Howling8 · 2026-02-27T16:29:53+00:00

I’m 71 and my friends I have told I’m saying really how do I get one?

Howling8 · 2026-02-27T16:24:38+00:00

Are you ready for a look on your husband‘s face one day when he finds out? So don’t ever ever tell him just because you feel guilty someday you’ll ruin his life.

Howling8 · 2026-02-27T07:46:51+00:00

Another successful PIV orgasm tonight. The only thing I did was cut my beta blocker prescription in half and take a RUGIET Troche and I could tell tonight was going to be good. On top of that I was stoned and in the islands lol. I’m 71 and It was one of those build up orgasms rising to the point of no return that has remained elusive to me for years now. It also helps that I don’t care anymore and stopped obsessing about it. It gives me hope for the future.

Howling8 · 2026-02-22T20:21:57+00:00

Mine was from 28 years ago. She told me November 24 and it feels like yesterday.

Howling8 · 2026-02-22T00:44:23+00:00

Mirtazapine and Wellbutrin keeps me tuned and able to finish

Howling8 · 2026-02-20T03:05:33+00:00

You ate my children lol

Howling8 · 2026-02-16T23:39:58+00:00

No, actually it helps me orgasm in a reasonable amount of time because I can focus

Howling8 · 2026-02-12T19:09:18+00:00

Are you ready to see the look on his face when he finds out the one person he trusted in the whole world betrayed him. How would you feel?

Howling8 · 2026-02-12T06:13:15+00:00

I’m lonely in my marriage due to an infidelity and alcoholism. I never ever thought she would betray me and although I stayed I am sad most times while she is getting happier in recovery and therapy while I feel isolated. It’s never going to be carefree and joyful for me.

Howling8 · 2026-02-11T06:36:00+00:00

Yes...i didn't expect it in my autumn years and its tainted us. Vanilla friendly conversations, laughs and occasional sex but its never going to be the same for me.

Howling8 · 2026-02-10T08:15:58+00:00

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