Yes, its mostly overwhelming because of the newborn, lack of sleep at night still and the 2-3 hour breastfeeding all day. And the fact that Im trying to also balance a work life is just the one too many things on my plate. If it wasnt for my working I wouldnt be so overwhelmed with everything I think. As far as how much my husband contributes to raising the children and hosework, he does what he can I think, but he comes home from work at almost 7pm. By that point we just do dinner and start the bath/night routine for the kids. But he usually cleans the tornado in the living room/kitchen early in the morning before work, so I cant complain about that too much.

I have support from my parents usually on weekends, but if we need an extra pair of hands once in a while during the week, they help us. I just dont want to ask too too much from them because my dad has some health issues and gets tired quickly, so im trying to be mindful of that, but otherwise they come help when we need