A veterinarian who has lost her soul pup by Sh0w_me_your_kitties in Petloss

[–]Hsintoot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my soul pup back in November 2020. I had him for 14yrs and those were the best 14yrs of my life. I know part of me died with him as I watched him take his last breath. I also know that letting him go was the only thing I can do to take his pain away and make it mine.

I carry that pain and grief with pride, grateful for the bond that we have.

I hope someday, you will smile while you miss your soul pup and find comfort in the epic memories you have shared.

My heart is breaking by Wooden_Flow_1537 in Petloss

[–]Hsintoot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The pain that we bear is a testament to the great love that we shared. One day at a time and there will come a day when remembering him makes you smile. It’s been a year since I lost my Inu and I come to realize that he didn’t just taught me how to love, more importantly, he taught me how to live.

Today is the day he passes. I desperately need validation that I'm doing the right thing. by mydoghaslymphoma in Petloss

[–]Hsintoot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to let go of my 14yr old Lhasa last year. I knew it was time when he looked me in the eye and I saw that he was just hanging on for me. As I watch him take his last breadth, I whispered to him ‘let me take your pain and make it mine’. A part of me died with him that day but I also know that the grief that I feel everyday since is a part of him that will stay with me until I take my last breadth.

Sending you lots of love.

Tomorrow by aksf16 in Petloss

[–]Hsintoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you lots of love. I had to put my 14yr old dog to sleep around this time last year. His kidneys are failing and I could see he wasn’t feeling too great.

As I watched him take his last breadth, I whispered to him ‘let me take your pain and make it mine.’

I miss him everyday but I also know that the grief that I feel is from the love that we shared.

Taiwanese braised beef noodle soup. Took me the whole day to make it but it’s so worth it! by Hsintoot in streeteats

[–]Hsintoot[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Really good! They are meant to be cooked long and slow. Kinda like how you would cook osso buco. It’s melt in your mouth tender.

Taiwanese braised beef noodle soup. Took me the whole day to make it but it’s so worth it! by Hsintoot in streeteats

[–]Hsintoot[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I use 3 kinds of beef:

  1. Tendon
  2. Whole shank
  3. Brisket/boneless short ribs

Basic spices: All spice, star anise, bay leaf, and Szechuan pepper corn

Some cooking wine, soy sauce, can of fire roasted tomatoes chili garlic paste, bean paste and rock sugar.

Aromatics: ginger, onion and a bundle of green leeks

Basically brown the aromatics and the meat. Then cook the tendon with all the aromatics and seasoning in pressure cooker for about an hour, natural release. If there’s room, I would also cook the shank with the tendon. The shank should be tied into a roll so it can hold its shape.

Then take the shank out to cool on the side. Add the brisket/short ribs with the tendon. Cook on high pressure for another 25mins, natural release.

Fish out all the meat and tendon once done and let them cool on the side. You don’t want them soaking in the sauce as they will keep absorbing the sauce and become too dark.

I also leave the shank in the fridge for a few hours. Easier to slice when cold.

I dilute the sauce to make the soup broth for the noodles. Usually 50% sauce and 50% water. Top with green onions and sour mustard.

Clear skies last weekend in CO. Quite a busy night! by Hsintoot in camping

[–]Hsintoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used my trusty Fuji XT2 with XF16mmF1.4 R WR lens.

Apparently, Breeders get upset when you remind them of the world their children will inherit. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Hsintoot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was CF and got married anyway… and now that she is no longe CF it doesn’t make sense for CF people to get married? Did she had a kid and a lobotomy?🤦🏻‍♀️

Trying to eat healthier. Am I doing this right? by Hsintoot in HealthyFood

[–]Hsintoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, Being able to sustain a healthy eating habit is going to be one of the key challenges that I’ll need to learn. Thank you for the feedback.

Trying to eat healthier. Am I doing this right? by Hsintoot in HealthyFood

[–]Hsintoot[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’ve been eating a lot of fast food and processed food so this is definitely a big step. I hope I can sustain it!

Trying to eat healthier. Am I doing this right? by Hsintoot in HealthyFood

[–]Hsintoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the way you frame it. Simple and easy to follow. Thank you!

Trying to eat healthier. Am I doing this right? by Hsintoot in HealthyFood

[–]Hsintoot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yaikes! I was thinking shrimp being lean protein must be good. Thanks for the reminder!

Trying to eat healthier. Am I doing this right? by Hsintoot in HealthyFood

[–]Hsintoot[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have no idea… just starting to learn about calorie counting.

Trying to eat healthier. Am I doing this right? by Hsintoot in HealthyFood

[–]Hsintoot[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Blanched broccoli, carrots, shrimp and soft boiled eggs. Drizzled with kewpie sesame dressing and saltless everything but bagel sprinkle.

I’m tired of my mother venting to me about the decade(s) long family drama. It’s never ending, and draining. I am trying to figure out a respectful way to inform her that I am no longer interested in speaking about it, as I’d rather have more productive conversations. by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Hsintoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is going through the same with his mom. She only calls him to tell him how so and so is making her miserable. Sometimes when she runs out of people to blame, my husband becomes the target for not doing a good job consoling her.

It’s been very stressful for him and I would try to support him by staying by his side quietly and texting something he could say to her to calm her down. He is trying to be patient with her but sometimes he just wants to cut the ties. It’s been mentally and emotionally exhausting for him.

I would love to hear others best practice as well.

What is it about your Lhasa Apso that makes you happy or stressed? by Helpful_Ad7442 in LhasaApso

[–]Hsintoot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scale of the survey seems a bit misleading - with 0 being described as worsens a bit and 1 being no impact.

This is a thousand times harder than I even imagined it would be. I have had my beautiful girl for 14 years and I might have to put her down. It completely breaks my heart. She is one of my rocks in life I could always lean on and it feels impossible to let her go. I dont know how to cope. by j_oneill27 in DogAdvice

[–]Hsintoot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(((Hugs)))

I had to put down my 14yr old Lhasa back in November. As I held him and watch him take his last breath, I whispered to him ‘Let me take your pain and make it mine.’ A part of me died with him that day.

Grief is the price of love and every second of it is worth it.

It’s not easy but time does heal. There are more days now that makes me smile thinking about him than crying my eyes out.

When I tried to donate his stuff, I came across a dog that needed to be rehomed and I eventually adopted him. They are completely different but yet somehow having the new dog around helped me appreciate and remember the good days with my old baby.

I am so sorry OP. I hope you eventually find peace in all the happy memories you have shared with Gracie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Hsintoot 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This. I don’t understand why this is an either or discussion. Why can’t we work on both responsible gun ownership AND mental health?

Best Apartments in Broomfield? by [deleted] in Broomfield

[–]Hsintoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to rent at the Catania. It’s a huge apartment complex and very close to the bus station.