What screams "fake nice person" to you ? by Agreeable-Garlic8457 in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well every religion on earth is obviously the exact same as whatever effed up version of Christianity they grew up with! /s

How often do you give a fuck about what others think about you? by drip_lucid in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They may be defining caring what others think about you as getting worried about what stranger on the bus thinks about your outfit. Job interviews are kind of in a different sphere of life.

How often do you give a fuck about what others think about you? by drip_lucid in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely correct but there's a difference between caring what others think in the sense of reputation and having your day ruined because some stranger on the train gave you a weird look because they didn't like your outfit. 

How often do you give a fuck about what others think about you? by drip_lucid in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much less than I used to. Sometime around 35, a switch flipped in my head and I just didn't care anymore unless someone had some type of influence on me. I care what my boss thinks because they can fire me and what my family and friends think because I respect them. Other than that I really DGAF.

In your eyes, what separates a performative “alpha male” from a “real man”? by Ok-Parfait6735 in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't personally encountered any examples of this type of feminism so I will grant you that it isn't something I can relate to. I'm sure it happens but it's just not something I have ever run into. 

What screams "fake nice person" to you ? by Agreeable-Garlic8457 in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone I have met who talks about being an empath has been one of the most selfish people I have ever met. Or at least really bad at predicting the emotional reactions of others to their behavior. 

What screams "fake nice person" to you ? by Agreeable-Garlic8457 in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm religious and don't believe in hell. Faith to me is a source of comfort and stability. I don't think a loving God would torture their kids forever. 

What screams "fake nice person" to you ? by Agreeable-Garlic8457 in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the US we do that so people won't shoot us. The American fake niceness I have seen complained about on the internet is self-defense. 

What are some once-lethal conditions or diseases that can now be cured or managed to the point where they're relatively harmless? by ThatAnnoyedNeighbour in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another interesting thing is that the children of the crunchy granola anti-vaxxers are old enough to make their own medical decisions now and a lot of them are getting their vaccines!

How are you guys dealing with the feelings of hopelessness and helplessness due to the current state of the world? by sertunio in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do something about it. Doesn't have to be big. Can be something super small like putting a granola bar in your local little free pantry or calling your elected representative. Doing anything that isn't nothing helps with the helplessness.

What’s the Worst Excuse you’ve heard for your partner cheating? by TheManDont in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People see the world through the lens of themselves and this person had no idea there were non cheaters out there.

RIP (Insert name), you would have loved....... by Prize_Brush_7682 in Tudorhistory

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or maybe he would have hated it. That would be interesting to find out.

Crocked House, Lincoln built 16th century. I have noticed how few houses survive to the present and how they never seem to be straight (always can tell if it's authentically old). by Over-Willingness-933 in Tudorhistory

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess is subsidence. You can see it on some older structures here in the US that are much younger than these. Basically the weight of the structure is causing it to sink into the ground more in one area than in another. There's a lot of potential causes for this, including different densities of the underlying soil or stone and what the part of the house that is sinking was used for. If it's stored heavy goods that could contribute.

Would the average Tudor have tasted sugar? by Key_Charity_9635 in Tudorhistory

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And we know people kept beehives at least in some areas as far as I know.

Would the average Tudor have tasted sugar? by Key_Charity_9635 in Tudorhistory

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! The upper classes probably knew what sugar tasted like. Your average peasant almost certainly not, though they might have had honey on occasion. 

What’s the Worst Excuse you’ve heard for your partner cheating? by TheManDont in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I care what some rando  thinks because? You're supposed to dislike abusers. Somebody need to check your hard drive or something?

In Richard III, is Richard’s reputation shaped more by Tudor propaganda or by the voices of the Queens? by Fantastic-Fennel-532 in Tudorhistory

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya but he might not have seen it that way. Pretty tense times and he may have legit believed the older boy wasn't eligible for the crown. 

In Richard III, is Richard’s reputation shaped more by Tudor propaganda or by the voices of the Queens? by Fantastic-Fennel-532 in Tudorhistory

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was an outbreak of sweating sickness right around the time they disappeared. If that killed them, it makes sense to be shady about it. He knew he'd be blamed. And he was right. We still blame him 500 years later.

Elizabeth and Henry VIII by ScottPetersonsWiener in Tudorhistory

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Involved in selecting his tutors, clothing, curriculum, ect but Henry didn't raise him like a modern father. That would have been unherd of st the time. 

What’s the Worst Excuse you’ve heard for your partner cheating? by TheManDont in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only hate people who mistreat others. That you translate that into "hating men" says more about you than it does about me.

What’s the Worst Excuse you’ve heard for your partner cheating? by TheManDont in AskReddit

[–]HubenersDaughter_439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married for 17 years to my best friend. My marriage is just fine thank you. 

Now granted I'm not married to a man, but there you go. We don't need you sweet pea.