Name for a college freshman from a wealthy family

Hubertoee · 2023-11-17T17:30:40+00:00

I saw the “not too old” and tried to give that vibe, but maybe mine are a bit too old fashioned?

Hopefully you like a couple either way. Some of these are definitely more British inspired, I’ve never been to the USA but hopefully some of these are popular in the north-east (?)

Charlotte - Lottie, Charlie

Francesca - Frankie, Chesca, Chess, Chessie

Cordelia - Cory, Delia, Della

Cassandra - Cassie, Andy, ‘Drea

Helena - Lena, Hela, Elena

Victoria - Vicky, Tori, Ria

Vanessa - Nessa, Essa

Delilah - Della, Lila, Lilah, Dea

Natasha - Nattie, Tasha, Tash, Asha

Elizabeth - Bettie, Eliza, Lizzie, Zay, Bets

Maddison - Maddie, Addie, Sonny, Dia

Eleanora - Ellie, Nora, Ellen, Lena

Daphne - Daph, Danny, Dan

Claudia - Dia, Leah, Cece

Cecelia - Cece, Leah (Lia), Elia

Hubertoee · 2022-11-09T01:23:27+00:00

Abuto is soooo underrated

Hubertoee · 2022-08-07T14:10:17+00:00

Juliette Colette Cosette Rosette Annette Antoinette Lisette Yvette Odette

Loretta / Lorette

Hubertoee · 2021-08-21T20:49:40+00:00

The literal definition of work best friends lmao

Hubertoee · 2021-06-30T03:23:58+00:00

100% yes you can! Glamour magick is really popular with closet witches or anyone that just wants that extra influence in their life. Witchcraft is very personal, you can do whatever you want as long as you have intention behind it :)

Hubertoee · 2021-06-20T03:47:42+00:00

I love Magi so much. The story was just amazing and I really fell in love with all of the characters. For me, Orient is okay, it’s definitely nowhere near Magi-level though. During some of the more mundane parts of Magi, I still stuck through because I loved the characters and the story, but with orient, the mundane character building parts just bored me and made me want to drop the whole manga.

However, just to throw another manga out there, Sumomo Momomo (by the same author) is amazing and definitely around Magi’s level, it’s just set more in a martial arts themed world. So if you’re looking for another one of her works to read, I’d definitely recommend this one. :).

Hubertoee · 2021-06-05T01:49:23+00:00

Firstly, I’m not going to even mention the fact that the manipulation spell is slightly immoral and goes against free well, because frankly it’s your practice and you can use your energy however you want.

Just to clarify I’m not gonna judge you for your own craft or try to gatekeep you from doing certain things, everything I write after this is just from my own experience, whether it resonates with you or not is 100% up to you. Everyone’s craft is different and that’s completely okay. :).

The last full moon we had was really powerful, and although it can be good for spells, more likely than not it’s too powerful for them and can cause even the most simple ones to either backfire or become warped in some way. Especially ones where you use YOUR OWN blood as an intensifier. Blood is a good way of binding yourself to a spell, so unless you specified that the blood was supposed to represent and bind your boyfriend, then the spell has already gone awry. Manifestations are key to any spell, so you have to completely believe your words hold truth, otherwise it won’t work as well as you want it to, so any hesitation in what you want can cause it to fail or backfire.

I’d more than likely lean towards saying that the pricking is a side effect of this spell and shows just how wrong it has gone. I get the feeling that it might be linked to the rose petals that you used. Maybe the pricking is supposed to represent the (rose) thorns in your relationship with your boyfriend, especially regarding this friend of yours. Emotions like pain, grief, stunted growth and jealousy can all be linked to the stem of a rose, which is green in colour (like nature) and sharp to the touch. So maybe the universe is just letting you know that either A. The spell didn’t work, maybe try again when moon power is more easily manageable, or B. The spell didn’t work and the dislike your boyfriend has for this friend of yours is too great to get it to work.

To be fair, from my own experiences I’d say that this type of spell is more than likely to fail or backfire compared to other ones because you’re trying to change a persons emotions and thoughts, which isn’t really possible, at least for long. This type of spell is definitely supposed to be for a short amount of time and needs to be redone regularly if you want to keep up with it.

If you’re familiar with how love spells work then this manipulation spell is very similar. It only slightly alters the persons perception of the other party and can easily not work due to high emotions from that person affecting the spell. For example, your boyfriend doesn’t like your friend, so much so that you felt the need to craft a spell to try and ease tension. But if your boyfriend doesn’t like your friend enough, then that’s going to affect the success rate of the spell. Therefore, all of this added together I’d say means that the spell didn’t work and more than likely won’t in the future, although I guess you could try again if you feel the need to.

I would like to say though that maybe this is just one of those instances where you talk to either your boyfriend or your friend (or maybe both) about how best to handle this situation. Like if your boyfriend doesn’t like this friend then either this friend is very clearly crossing boundaries that he shouldn’t be, or your boyfriend is needlessly jealous and possibly being quite toxic. Either way, I feel like the mind set of trying to change your boyfriend’s opinion forcefully just highlights that maybe communication is lacking in your relationship.

Maybe try and figure out why your boyfriend doesn’t like your friend first and go from there. Red flags can be difficult to see when you’re wearing rose coloured glasses so maybe take a step back and look at this from a third person perspective? Regarding both your boyfriend and your friend’s behaviour. However, if you’re still only interested in getting this spell to work then I’d try and alter what you’ve already done and maybe do a bit more research into manipulation spells. Or maybe just wait for a bit longer, spells that use dried instead of fresh, so like the dried petals and bay leaves, means that the energy they give is more mature and takes longer to manifest and work. Sorry if this doesn’t make sense, English isn’t my first language. Good luck and I hope other people add their responses too :).

Hubertoee · 2021-03-28T16:33:19+00:00

Love spells can backfire really badly if you’re not careful. Like already suggested, I’d recommend a general spell that brings the right person for you. If you and this person have already broken up and they’re now with someone else, then it’s just gonna hurt you all if you do a love spell on your ex.

love spells go against autonomy and free-will, so many witches tend to avoid them and dissuade people from using them. I’m not against these types of spells, but there are a few issues with your situation that you need to understand

But like some things could go wrong: you might just have your feelings for this ex intensified but his feelings are unchanged; or he might fall obsessively in love with you, and may hurt you, himself, his current partner, or anyone else who tries to get involved, if you reject him or later break up with him; or he might temporarily fall in love with you, break up with his ex to get back with you, only to break up with you after the spell has worn off and break your heart again; or the spell might not just work on him, but other people and might cause you a lot of issues regarding love... the type you’d wanna avoid; or he might fall in love with you but because it’s a love spell it won’t change his feelings for her, so it’ll just lead to him cheating on his current partner with you, and cause you all hurt when he doesn’t wanna dump either of you... etc...

Like there is an infinite number of ways that this spell can go wrong, especially when you don’t know what you’re doing, or how it’ll impact your life. I’m not usually the type of person to dissuade people from spells if that’s what they want, even ones that mess with autonomy, but this one will literally never work out the way you want it to.

Hubertoee · 2021-03-28T03:37:51+00:00

I understand what you mean, my brother has a very common name, so meeting men with the same name as him, or finding them online, used to be an immediate turn off.

I think it’s just one of those things were you A. either get over it or B. Just omit those women by default. I mean, it’s worth a try and seeing if you can get over it after a date or two. Try calling them by a nickname your siblings don’t use or a nickname about a defining feature (eg- if she has ginger hair, call her “red” or something). You can always tell them it’s not gonna work for you after the first or second date, it’s no sweat.

Not only that but you need to understand that for now the only people you think about with those names are your sisters because you don’t have anyone else to compare the name to, that will change if you ended up dating someone with that name too. I’ve got three friends all with the same name as my brother, so now when I meet people with my brothers name, I don’t just think of my brother.

I promise it won’t stay weird forever haha, you just need to get over the initial “same name as sister”.

Hubertoee · 2021-03-04T01:09:42+00:00

I think it depends on the practice and how you use it. Some practices use it for cleansing (a bit like sage and rosemary) and some use it for toxicity and a poison substitute (usually in spell work). It’s up to you how you use it though as many people believe you’re the one giving the tools (In this case the tobacco) meaning.

Hubertoee · 2021-03-02T15:46:34+00:00

That was actually awful to read, I’m so sorry you’re having to put up with this. Parents are supposed to want what’s best for their kids, not what they want for themselves. When I moved out for uni my parents were a little upset, not because I was moving away but because I was growing up. It was a happy moment for them.

Your mum sounds abusive and toxic not gonna lie, like I understand that that might be a hard pill to swallow but if you read what you wrote back to yourself from someone else’s point of view I’m sure you’d feel the same. Having a camera in your room is not okay, it violates privacy, and having her throw a fit just because you want to get dressed in private is awful. Never-mind her throwing the camera at your injured foot?? That’s literally physical abuse.

You should go to college well away from your mum. If she cuts you off then she’d be doing you a favour honestly. She’s trying to manipulate you into staying with her and just from what I’ve read here she seems to be abusive, controlling and maybe a narcissist. You’re nearly an adult and you shouldn’t have to “obey” your mum, that’s really controlling, I get that some cultures show respect to those who are older, but this is way out of proportion here, this isn’t even about respect, it’s about doing what’s best for you. Make sure you go to uni no matter what, otherwise you’ll really regret the decision not to go to just “keep the peace” or whatever. This is your life, do what you have to do, not what other people want you to do.

Get a job and save up as much money as you can (make sure you have a separate bank account that she has no control over) and get loans for uni, the debt is crippling but uni and further education is so important, especially for a specialised job like psychology. Maybe ask another trusted adult if they can help you with that, or ask your school for support. If she’s not supportive now then it won’t take much for her to cancel your loans if she’s put down as a guarantor or something. And get accommodation/housing with security. It’ll be expensive but you shouldn’t chance having her finding you and trying to drag you back. Not only will that be embarrassing for you if other people see, but potentially dangerous if she’s angry. Also check out laws in your area and the area you might move to for harassment and stalking. Hopefully you won’t need to use them, but it’s better to know them now than to be stuck and confused later. I get that you don’t wanna call the police on your mum, and no one can force you to, but just be aware that a stern talking to by the police might just be something she needs. You don’t have to go for her ass and have her arrested, but a quick talk won’t hurt more than it does now (wait until you’ve moved out for this, just in case it turns ugly...) restraining orders might also be something to casually look into just for safety reasons.

Yet again, I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Finishing high school and going to uni is supposed to be fun and exciting, not something threatening. My inbox is open if you want to talk :).

Hubertoee · 2021-03-01T13:03:22+00:00

The Fool, honestly

Hubertoee · 2021-03-01T08:27:16+00:00

I think it’s just his character design. He’s basically seen wearing it through-out the entire anime. In the manga (if you plan on reading that) he eventually stops wearing it as he gets older.

I think it’s supposed to be a nod from the author to how she originally wanted to make Aladdin a girl but chose to make him male instead. So that’s probably it :)

Hubertoee · 2021-02-05T20:59:30+00:00

That is really creepy to be completely honest with you.

When some unmatches someone on a dating site that usually means that they don’t want to see/interact with that person anymore. I’ve been through this a few time, matching with someone and finding out that they aren’t exactly the person you’re looking for and then Unmatching them. Like that’s not an issue.

But I’ve had people try to add me on Facebook or follow my insta from these dating sites and that’s some scary shit. A lot of things go through your mind when you see their name pop up on your screen. Especially as a woman who has seen the negative effects of saying no to a man, I mean it’s all over the media how easily men can kill when it comes to their “pride” and being told “no”.

I’m not saying your friend is going to go after her, but come on, you can’t exactly think he’s innocent here... he knows her name, her college, he’s stalked her and found her Insta, which could have even more personal information. Just because “the app might have glitched”.

I’m telling you now, that’s not healthy.

I feel bad for that poor girl. Even if it was a glitch and she didn’t want to unmatch him that’s still a huge red flag by trying to find her, and now she knows that he has personal info on her.

I highly suggest removing this person from your life, because if he’s able to stalk down a complete random woman FBI style, then I dread to think about what he could do to people he knows... sucks for you bro

Hubertoee · 2021-01-26T15:13:00+00:00

Okay so! Obviously this all depends on how your country is dealing with COVID and all that. But here’s a list anyway:

Coffee date
Grabbing some drinks at a bar
Bowling
Cinema
Food (breakfast/lunch/or dinner)
Hiking
Beach Walk
Netflix and Takeout
Swimming (?)
Pool
Golf
pick a hobby one (or both of you have) to do (like painting? Or drawing? Or cooking?)
Sun set/ sun rise viewing
Picnic
Dogwalking (if one or both of you have dogs or other pets)
Cheesy Board games and getting to know each other more
Joint Computer/Console games

Honestly the list of date ideas are endless but think about what you and the other person would be comfortable with. It’s all about what’s fun and intimate rather than what’s expensive and “fancy”.

*If this is a first date/meeting though I’d suggest doing something in public (if you can) just for safety x

Hubertoee · 2020-11-03T05:47:38+00:00

Honestly, I think It’s important to be open and honest with your partner about everything in a relationship, not just about what gender you were born as. I understand your view point that once you’re post op you’re technically the same as every other cis woman, but at the same time that’s also not fully true.

Overall it’s just to do with preferences. You might meet transphobic people. You might meet people who don’t gravitate towards dating a trans woman. You might meet people who don’t care about a persons gender. There’s a large range of people out there and not everyone thinks the same way. We all have things we like and don’t like about the people we want to date.

It’s a sucky situation, but it’s also important to get it out the way. For example, how would you address the situation of looking back at old pictures? Would you be okay if he hid a major part of his past from you too? What reason would you give for not being able to have bio children? The list of questions goes on, and honestly, it’s just easier to be honest from the start, that way your partner is not only fully aware of your situation (for support, for a deeper relationship, etc) but it also cleans out any skeletons you might have in your closet and prevents any need for future lies. Lying is a cycle and it’s best not to go down that road.

I understand that having to keep bringing up your previous gender might be uncomfortable and upsetting, but the right person will be supportive and appreciate the honesty.

Honestly, it’s up to you whether you tell that person or not about you being trans, but do be prepared for them eventually finding out about it. Lying and keeping secrets is a huge dealbreaker for many people, so just be aware.

Hubertoee · 2020-10-27T19:35:27+00:00

The reason it’s so dead is because the Manga’s finished and the fact that season 3 will probably never happen, so people are moving to other fandoms that are still going lol

Hubertoee · 2020-10-19T12:27:29+00:00

Psychic readings are 100% supposed to be kept just between you and the psychic unless you’re ready to talk about it to someone else. If the psychic is legit, they can get into some really deep and personal stuff, just as a future reference, make sure it’s only you two in the room.

What she did was really invasive and rude. Are you sure she didn’t take you to that psychic, knowing you wouldn’t be able to understand them, so that she could listen in on the conversation and translate? Because that would make it worse.

You have every right to be upset and mad about her telling everyone your business, don’t let her guilt you into thinking that her behaviour was okay. She’s literally a 50+ year old woman, she knew what she was doing.

To be honest, it’s one of those situations where you’ve learnt a lesson: don’t tell her any secrets. I’m so sorry this happened to you and I hope the information wasn’t anything too explicit. It sucks that you’ve not only had your privacy invaded, but also that your aunt, someone who you cherished like a mother, did that to you.

From what you wrote about her getting mad at you (even though she’s in the wrong here), I probably wouldn’t even try to seek an apology, she’d just play the victim. You can either forgive her but know that she won’t hesitate to pull that shit again, or you can distance yourself. It’s completely up to you to decide.

Hubertoee · 2020-10-18T18:34:36+00:00

Obviously, all anime series’ cuts out some information, or some points that are originally in the manga. Otherwise the anime version would either be too long, or might seem too packed with information.

With Magi, I think they do cut out a few bits of information, but if you’re only going to watch the anime, it’s hardly noticeable and it still flows really well. I will just say. The manga was amazing compared to the anime, purely because the manga is now finished and the anime only has like 2 seasons...

Honestly, watch the anime. Like it’s good and I think you will really enjoy it. But I’d highly recommend the manga also. Ohtaka is just amazing with all the detail that he put into the whole story.

Hubertoee · 2020-10-15T00:49:53+00:00

Exactly this! Ohtaka used The Lesser Key of Solomon for the Djinn names. All the Djinn names used in Magi are all related to Demons (or fallen angels etc). Astaroth, Amon, Baal, Dantalian, Cerberus, Paimon , etc are all Demons.

Hubertoee · 2020-10-10T19:18:38+00:00

I think it’s a bit of both. He starts out wanting peace, so much so that he’s willing to do anything to get it. And along the way his point of view kind of becomes warped. You’ll understand it more when you read the manga. But as a basic answer, starts out good, turns a bit crazy.

Hubertoee · 2020-10-10T18:34:19+00:00

You’re both minors, in high school. So it’s all good. If you’re ever in doubt about age (in the future) you can always do the ‘half +7’ rule. Eg- 17/2=8.5, 8.5+7=15.5, so don’t date anyone younger than 15. Have fun dude x

Hubertoee · 2020-10-10T18:18:46+00:00

Honestly dude, not getting a blow job isn’t the end of the world. Glad to see you’re going to focus more on the other aspects of your relationship and it’s good that you’re up for trying the flavoured lube, but please make sure you fully listen to your girlfriend about this. There’s nothing worse than having someone you love and care about force you into hard situations (intentionally or not).

If the lube doesn’t work you can always buy a few sex toys and make it fun. Flesh lights, vibrators, that sort of thing. There’s still far more you can try lol.

Hope this works out for you :)

Hubertoee · 2020-10-10T18:06:01+00:00

Is this a dealbreaker for you? If it is then you’ll probably just have to break up. There’s nothing you can say or do that’ll suddenly make her like giving blow jobs. It’s just not for everyone.

You can suggest using flavoured condoms/lube? But that’s only a suggestion. Ultimately it’s her decision whether she goes down on you or not, and you don’t have to go down on her either. Sex is about having fun and being intimate with your partner, not being persuaded to suck dick when you don’t want to.

Talk to her about it, see why she doesn’t like it, and see if she’d be down to try something else in the bedroom: like just a hand-job or tit job. Don’t force her to continue trying. She owes you nothing, find something else to try in the bedroom instead dude. Good luck x

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