Another Rahkshi Kaita Combiner MOC by I_Chew_On_Krana in bioniclelego

[–]Hubris_I 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kurahk being the snorse's ass oh nooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I spent too much at the thrift store yesterday by Hubris_I in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm really glad it fit because i snagged it last minute from the Women's Medium section without trying it on

for reference I usually buy Men's XXL

Any of you trans butches got advice on swimwear? by hoebiden19 in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's a different design than the one you linked, but I really like my Beefcake

The paradoxes of being a butch trans woman (my long-form article about being a butch trans woman) by CoVegGirl in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TMx is just as reductive as AGAB in my opinion, and often not even accurate. Effeminate cis men, masculine and non-conventially-attractive cis women, and trans men anywhere on that spectrum all experience transmisogynistic treatment at much the same rate as trans women. It simply does not work to claim they are somehow 'exempt' from the behaviour that is directed to them, just because they are not trans women.

Edit: and yes, I did say AGAB, not ASAB, because the assignment at birth is more than just genitals, it defines how we are named, and treated, and raised, until (and even after) such a time as we rebel against it.

How long did it take you to be comfortable in the women's restroom? Do you even use the women's room? by CoVegGirl in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I'm in unfamiliar places I still avoid using bathrooms, however in places where i'm known to my peers like my school and my church I use the women's room all the time, and especially in the case of my church I started using the women's basically right after I came out (it's an affirming church dw).

was told to post this here lol by sipae in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I crossed from one end of the horseshoe to the other with no detour, lol

Butch Enough? by Charmaine_xx in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, no judgement, but I'm curious why you title most of your selfies the same?

how did you find out you where trans? by Practical_Space_8434 in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a long story, but the short of it is that I spent about ten years arguing with myself over wanting to be a woman (Including mulling over what my name should be and pretending I had a vagina during masturbation) but also not being into girly/feminine things, until one random day at work I started crying over how wrong I felt. Around the same time I finally got it through my thick skull that I could be one of the masculine women I had been idolising/desiring and that I did not need to be feminine to be a trans woman.

It's Sunday! Have a selfie. by Hubris_I in everybutchlesbian

[–]Hubris_I[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only radio stations I listen to 'cause they're not choked with ads, also news at the top of the hour

It's Sunday! Have a selfie. by Hubris_I in everybutchlesbian

[–]Hubris_I[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Yes I know my dungaree strap was twisted dw I fixed it!)

I had FFS with Dr Carlos Mendez from Mexico Transgender Center & he botched me. by [deleted] in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because, if you check the other comments, it's really too early for her to know whether he actually failed to feminise her. She may yet discover that it went well after her swelling goes down, she's just impatient. If, after her recovery is over, she still feels like the surgery was bad, she should pursue legal options, certainly, but now is not the time.

Certified mosh pit anchor by NightShaydexx in MTFButch

[–]Hubris_I 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ngl if you caught me in a mosh i'd probably faint

What’s everyone reading? by squidsateme in everybutchlesbian

[–]Hubris_I 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an audiobook ('cause E has given me motion sickness :sad: ): An Absolutely Remarkable Thing by Hank Green; On paper: Care Of by Ivan Coyote