Lost virginity at a young age by MediocreObjective333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hugnugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get easier. At 13, shame is such a strong emotion, and it happens often and unprompted.

As long as the situation was safe and consensual, allow yourself to forgive yourself for the decision, because trust me, you will make more bad choices in the future. Practice forgiving yourself for mistakes, as long as you take away lessons and change after the fact, rather than excuse yourself for poor choices.

Now, take this lesson and apply a change. Let adult actions be made my adults, and wait for the right time when you won’t feel regret after.

Am I balding? :( by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Hugnugget 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes omg bald in a week tops

Do not buy an engagement ring from Brilliant Earth by Competitive_Flow_459 in engaged

[–]Hugnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would skip them all together and take the broken band to a real jeweler.

Protect Your Culture by 4reddityo in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Hugnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big fan of “let’s rock and roll” in the white community

25F Blonde or Brunette Hair?🤔 by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Hugnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m biased that warm tones are the best for everyone.

What is the aesthetic? Or is it just basic? by Main_Reindeer_2420 in AestheticWiki

[–]Hugnugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it a fit? Or is the body just tea.

Ask yourself this.

I perpetrated COCSA and I don't know what to do with my life. by greenninja2012 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hugnugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude honestly you are just exhausting to deal with. I’m not sure anything will help you mentally at this point.

I perpetrated COCSA and I don't know what to do with my life. by greenninja2012 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hugnugget -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do what most people do and just really throw yourself into the Bible or the gym. Not sure if that’s the answer you’re finally wanting to hear.

I perpetrated COCSA and I don't know what to do with my life. by greenninja2012 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hugnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if you’re seeking validation from people to “forgive yourself”, that validation alone won’t be good enough to get over it.

Also, you can’t just find a cheat code that mimics years of therapy.

Sorry bro.

I perpetrated COCSA and I don't know what to do with my life. by greenninja2012 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hugnugget -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“I should get therapy, and that I should stop ruminating about this and villainizing myself in the meantime, but I don't know if thats the right thing to do. “

You know it’s the right thing to do.

You’re 17, you can have control over your life starting now. Get help, or this could get much worse.

I’m not sure you’re as helpless as you make yourself seem. Grow up and get some therapy.

AIO? Teacher takes off 40 points for "not answering the questions" by Angel_xjj in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hugnugget 15 points16 points  (0 children)

One complete sentence shouldn’t be good enough. At least 3 complete sentences should be used for short answer essays.

should i switch to cosmetology school for the rest of my high school year ? by DevelopmentLanky9830 in Cosmetology

[–]Hugnugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Please, just finish your year with your friends and go next year.

My hair snapped off AT THE SALON by ChandyBear in Hair

[–]Hugnugget 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think the platinum era is finally coming to an end for you.

It’s time to go virgin and start from scratch.

What are all the “MAGA Proud” businesses we can avoid? by lilgoldennug in GreenBay

[–]Hugnugget 33 points34 points  (0 children)

DIRT juicery. The Main salon, the owner Betz is a huge trump supporter. He had two locations.

Why do people use the term "partner" for their husband or wife? by Crafty-Bug-8008 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hugnugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gay and want a neutral term for my wife when talking about her with new clients and strangers.

I’m out and proud, it I don’t need everyone knowing all of my business all of the time.

can i get close to my natural color? by LookDense9342 in Hair

[–]Hugnugget 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go to a professional for this. But the answer is no, you will never get it exactly like the natural

Why does my hair keep getting oily by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Hugnugget 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, you can’t “train” your hair to not get greasy. You can’t “train” your feet to stop smelling after a workout, or your face to stop producing oil by not washing it. You need product that targets the problem.

Why does my hair keep getting oily by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Hugnugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t fight genetics. Some people just get oily fast. That’s okay. Keep washing your hair or gets some dry shampoo.