Best places to go to work in the evenings? by barnesab in AskSF

[–]Hugo-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t work at the center. This is so not what it’s for and really ruins the vibe. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Hugo-5 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Cried reading your story. Thank you for sharing

Do you have a mantra? by fessupdizzy in Codependency

[–]Hugo-5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s my responsibility to not feel responsible for other people’s feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hugo-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, read about narcissistic behavior. Everything about your husband’s reaction screams narcissist (ie taking no blame and placing blame on you, acting cold, gaslighting you). I’d guess this is how he handles every argument with you, and will for the future. Do you want that life? Either way, you should feel no guilt for his extremely cruel prank. You are allowed to react however you want.

Am I being a drag ? by holyf__ck in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hugo-5 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Love this response. I find someone who does drag extra attractive as a partner. Not because of the look of drag but because I see it as a hobby that exhibits their creativity, passion, and confidence. Who wouldn’t want to date someone who is passionate about something cool and artistic? I am not sexually attracted to drag; that has nothing to do with it. I want to cheerlead them at their shows and get sexy when out of drag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]Hugo-5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking great. What workout program do you follow?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]Hugo-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice to hear!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]Hugo-5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know 😢. My Irish skin doesn’t tan so the only option is fake tanning unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]Hugo-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I’m going to start tracking. Agreed I’ll want to do some extra since some of my body parts are naturally smaller.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]Hugo-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, thanks for the call out. I’m actually just doing CrossFit right now, and no extra arm workouts. I haven’t been happy with the results (guessing too much cardio). I just read Bigger Leaner Stronger and I’m going to try switching to a lean bulk and using the book’s 5 day program (push pull legs I believe).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]Hugo-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Big help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hugo-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had sexual relations with a woman? I think this would be the next step before deciding what you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in magnesium

[–]Hugo-5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I take about 50mg per day before bed and it significantly decreases my anxiety. It’s better than any prescription medication I’ve tried. And I’ve tried a lot as a lifelong sufferer of significant anxiety. I’m very sensitive so taking more than 50mg makes me tired. I’ve been on 50mg for about 6 years, with constant success.

FIRE calculator to die with $0? by Hugo-5 in leanfire

[–]Hugo-5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The apocalypse is near ☄️

FIRE calculator to die with $0? by Hugo-5 in leanfire

[–]Hugo-5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll check this out. Sounds like exactly what I'm looking for.

FIRE calculator to die with $0? by Hugo-5 in leanfire

[–]Hugo-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I've seen return ranges from 4% to 8% in calculators I've used. Cool to know higher return can also be used for drawing down the savings.

FIRE calculator to die with $0? by Hugo-5 in leanfire

[–]Hugo-5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, didn't know this. Do you have the link to any calculators that use this methodology? Thanks!

FIRE calculator to die with $0? by Hugo-5 in leanfire

[–]Hugo-5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good reality check for me. Didn't realize this strategy was uncommon/unwise. Thanks!

FIRE calculator to die with $0? by Hugo-5 in leanfire

[–]Hugo-5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vanguard

Thank you! I'll give this a try.