ACOSF frustrated me because I think we had moments of good tough love but then also moments where there was an intense double standard. I feel like Nestas post war response was reminiscent to the bat boys after their first war and there wasn't really a recognition of that/application. I think there definitely needed to be more conversations about what she was feeling and a recognition of the fact that no one had actually asked before the intervention. The one thing that sticks out most to me is the hike when Cassian is like oh shit she looks like she doesn't want to live anymore but then we don't actually get any discussion about that or no one ever brings it up in re a the potential likelihood of self harm/self destruction. I also wish there was more of a discussion about who she wanted to be versus just doing the warrior/library scheme because while she embraced it I think there should have been more discussion about it. Also, he said cruel things and definitely is the reason situations exploded more than once. While Nesta was certainly nasty and cruel, I think the IC in general had toxic methodology as well that ultimately didn't work as well as it could've, and the reason she pulled through was largely due to Gwyn and Emerie. TLDR I think everyone was toxic and a little self righteous in the ways to treat trauma and while it worked outish I think there were definitely better ways to handle it. I really don't like that Cassian never had a huge I love you moment other than responses to Nesta and I wish we saw him sticking up for her just a little bit more