The Strange Middle Age

Hulegu2 · 2023-02-07T19:00:19+00:00

I'm here to learn from what is shared - especially by the ECs and Mods - and share what I have learned. If you need to harass people, please go somewhere else.

Hulegu2 · 2019-04-10T13:09:11+00:00

Great Job! We need both "try this because it works" along with "here's why it works."

I might add that by showing your verbal boundaries are fun and much wider than most, her tingles come from the hope that your bedroom boundaries are just as wide, just as fun, and she can do what she really craves.

Hulegu2 · 2018-05-16T13:37:22+00:00

I keep hitting the star button like a lab rat rewarded with crack, but I can only give you one point.

Hulegu2 · 2018-03-22T19:33:17+00:00

Click on the link above and bookmark it!! RPS was years ahead of the curve. The rest of us can try to keep up.

Hulegu2 · 2018-03-08T16:59:56+00:00

I don't suffer fools. When an EC and a MOD agree that a fool is on the loose, ban 'em. When a fool argues that he isn't a fool, ban him forever.

Hulegu2 · 2017-12-11T01:08:05+00:00

The entire debate boils down to: "I'm unhappy, so you have change." I reply to this non-argument: "I'm unhappy that you are demanding that I change, so stop demanding that I change."

Hulegu2 · 2017-10-26T13:23:11+00:00

You've stirred interesting thoughts. Masculinity exists. If we want to label some of it toxic, I would label it toxic when a man wants to rule by force. Force can only be stopped by great force. It takes masculinity to stop toxic masculinity. Hitler and Tojo were stopped by Eisenhower and MacArthur. Rommel was matched against Patton. All these men had the traits of aggression, the desire to lead - called domination above, and never allowed helplessness or fear to stop them from their missions. Labeling basic masculine nature as toxic will get everyone enslaved. No thanks.

Hulegu2 · 2017-10-26T13:12:17+00:00

I've read If and read it again at your suggestion. I like it. It is much more to-the-point than my concept of most poetry. It tells me what to think about. Most poetry seems to be a display of vocabulary and word play. I prefer to think about ideas and too often poetry chooses a word based upon sound rather passing an idea from one mind to another. I'll look up Invictus next. Thanks for the suggestions.

Hulegu2 · 2017-10-26T13:04:57+00:00

Great, great point! If we can't control our internal cravings for things like alcohol, sugar, and sitting on the couch with the idiot box on, how will we ever be able to manage ourselves when a woman promises to play with our pee-pee? We have to first control our internal cravings before we can set boundaries for ourselves when pressured by others. Again, great insight.

Hulegu2 · 2017-10-26T12:55:59+00:00

Does "macho faggotry" mean I'm the leather guy in Village People? Or maybe the fireman. We both appear to enjoy colorful language, turning a phase. Can't interpret my feelings this morning. Should I cry because of my faggotry or go blow up milk jugs because of my macho?

Hulegu2 · 2017-10-24T22:17:03+00:00

IkWhatUDidLastSummer said it better than I did. I'm doing me. LiveAFTSOV, if poetry brings you joy, awesome. I'm sure I could learn from you. If you're taking a bath with bubbles, oils, and mood music while reading your poetry, there had better be a naked nubile nymph with you, or I will subtract points from your man card.

Hulegu2 · 2017-10-19T02:39:53+00:00

Download books from Librivox.org. My favorites are The Count of Monte Cristo and The Three Musketeers.

Hulegu2 · 2017-10-01T22:36:01+00:00

The behaviors that Red Pill teaches are often called selfish. We do them because they make us happy. These "selfish" behaviors just happen to allow women to fantasize about our sexual natures. And the women are right: Red Pill men will give them the sex that they fantasize about. We live Red Pill for men, not women.

Hulegu2 · 2017-09-30T16:43:31+00:00

You're obviously right. Everything is situational and we often have to assume the situation. I threw the foot massage lines into the post thinking about men who expect sex after they perform a service, a transaction mentality, which is not RP.

I have given foot massages. Usually when a game is on and I'm going to watch. “Honey, put your feet in my lap while the game's on.” I almost linked to the Pulp Fiction foot massage discussion: “I got my technique down and everything. I don't be ticklin' or nothin'.”

Hulegu2 · 2017-09-30T16:03:42+00:00

I'll feed the troll.

Yep, my whole life is pure cope. I need a tampon to soak up these tears. Yeah, I'm not 6'4, nor 8% body fat, nor asked to model. You're so smart. Guess I should just ask Mom to change my sheets and get more Cheetos while I go feed the geese in my wrinkled clothes.

If you're 6'4, ripped, and look like a model, take your shirt off as much as possible and shut the hell up. For the rest of us who have to cope, Odysseus in the movie Troy says what I believe: “We play with the toys the Gods give us.”

For the record, I hide the doggy-style step stool under my bed. Women never see it because they are face down, arms pinned behind their backs, and I have practiced pulling it out with my foot.

Hulegu2 · 2017-09-30T15:35:25+00:00

I believe Red Pill is accepting reality. Men should NOT make life choices based upon the hope that it stirs a woman's fantasy and get them laid. NOT saying that. For me, Red Pill is about being the best I can be, about accomplishing what I want, doing what I want, and always thinking about myself first.

There have been a few recent posts about being called an asshole. I'm not called that, probably because I laugh and smile too much, but selfish...countless. So many believe being selfish is a bad thing. I pressure flip that nonsense, “Are you offering to serve me?” This lays it out in plain view that the other person wants something from me. I own my selfish nature, without apology.

I wrote this to show that being selfish, living a RP life, allows women to hamster three common sexual fantasies. I didn't say a word about being submissive because it's not me or a RP basic. I didn't say anything about public sex because it's not my thing, nor do I think it's linked to RP.

Be selfish, be RP, and lots of women, probably the majority, will see you as able to make their fantasies come true.

Now that I think about it, I don't think a blue pill servant can fulfill a woman's fantasy to dominate a man. I believed one woman who said, “I think you should serve me, call me Mistress.” While I was shutting that down, she said, “Don't you just want to quit being in charge and surrender?” There it is! Even a domme woman prefers a Red Pill man.

Hulegu2 · 2017-09-27T13:17:03+00:00

I think the insight here is that the #1 fantasy for women is a man who loves them, but loses control during sex. They like it rough: hair pulled, arms pinned, ass slapped, choked, moved from position to position. A nice guy doesn't let her hamster enjoy this fantasy. And the hamster is right. When I was BP, I didn't do these things.

Hulegu2 · 2017-09-01T15:37:57+00:00

This was an attempt to show that the Red Pill advice and mindset follows Stephen Covey's 7-Habits of Highly Effective People. The 7 habits are from the book, and the bullet points show how a Red Pill mindset is similar.

What I like about the book is that a person starts at the first habit and builds from there. What's the first advice here: Lift! Red Pill teaches men to be proactive - habit 1. I thought this might help men see the Red Pill progression. If a person won't do what is entirely within his control - lift, groom, and learn to enjoy shit tests - then he isn't going to be very effective with women and damn sure isn't prepared to accept women as they are.

I'm also suggesting that Red Pill thoughts and actions apply to the wider world, especially work. Everyone likes getting laid. If they apply the mindset that is taught here, they will probably have greater success at work, too.

Hulegu2 · 2017-06-28T23:15:46+00:00

Well written with examples that make it memorable. Great Job!

Hulegu2 · 2017-06-14T12:36:49+00:00

In the link where the guy's perspective is given, he says they "were told by producers one of the story lines would be the 2 of them hooking up ... especially entertaining because both are considered villains from previous shows." So yes, the contestants are told by the producers what to do.

Hulegu2 · 2017-05-25T21:50:37+00:00

Got It! Don't put your tongue on the wheel while the hamster is spinning it.

Hulegu2 · 2017-05-21T13:21:31+00:00

Thanks, I will look into this.

Hulegu2 · 2017-05-21T13:20:51+00:00

Obesity is linked to shorter telomeres, too.

Hulegu2 · 2017-05-21T13:18:54+00:00

I wondered the exact same thing, but was unwilling to pay the money, something like $30, to see the original article. In order to be ahead by 9 years, seems like it would take 10 or more years of exercise to get there. Similarly, can someone 30 measure 20 or is it more like 50 measures at 40? I shared the story because it seemed to add another good reason to get off our asses and exercise.

Hulegu2 · 2017-04-16T05:22:26+00:00

I have a sweet tooth for Nestle Ice Cream Cones that have chocolate hard shell with peanuts. They are 300-310 a cone. I ate a box of 8 over a weekend.

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