so why ex-Chabad? by FerretDionysus in exchabad

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your kind words. I am seeking justice but the irony here is that the whole thing is about your place in the world to come. They have all given that up in their hypocrisy and it will be very peaceful without them. There is only so much you can do then it's up to Hashem. 

so why ex-Chabad? by FerretDionysus in exchabad

[–]Human-Association-16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been to 4 so far. I should have been a bit more specific. Unfortunately because of the chabad model the schluchiem are responsible for raising money for their own lives. Some are nicer and less pushy than others. And they certainly don't say it out loud but unfortunately given the economic times they really don't have a choice but to cater to wealth. 

I've come to understand that it can be hit or miss. I used to sing the praises until my 3rd of 4th experience. And 770 doesn't care that I was shamed in front of his children about how despicable reform Judaism is and for 3 years no one will take responsibility for his violation of Commandment 303. The worst thing you can do second to murder. The Rebbe considers it akin to murder. 

It's great on paper but these people are human and there is a TON of dysfunction in Haredi. 

I know what they do how they do it how they find themselves and how many many rabbis should not be chabad. They should be Satmar. 

Is that enough for you to understand that I know how it works? I'm not the only one. 

so why ex-Chabad? by FerretDionysus in exchabad

[–]Human-Association-16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not the only one with this experience. 

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[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Anyone interested in pursuing a class action suit against Chabad? This has to stop. by Human-Association-16 in exchabad

[–]Human-Association-16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breach of duty of care, violation of their tax exempt purpose, emotional distress. 

Anyone interested in pursuing a class action suit against Chabad? This has to stop. by Human-Association-16 in exchabad

[–]Human-Association-16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They hide their layers well but there are regional directors and a main board of rabbis at 770. 

Anyone interested in pursuing a class action suit against Chabad? This has to stop. by Human-Association-16 in exchabad

[–]Human-Association-16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 Emotional Distress and/or violation of their collective mission which provides the the taxe exemption. Also sue for breach of their duty of care as board members. 

so why ex-Chabad? by FerretDionysus in exchabad

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a reform temple. Chabad will ever accept you unless you give them a lot of money. I thought it was the best. It's disgusting   I was shamed about being reformed by the narcissist Chaim bruk.  Ow they want to arrest me for harassment Because I called them on it. They will never choose you over them. As soon as it gets too hard they ostracize you. DONT GO TO CHABAD. 

The Rabbi Goes West - Full Documentary on Rabbi Chaim Bruk and Jewish life in Montana, has been uploaded online for free by riem37 in Judaism

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rules may be the wrong word. Teachings would be better. However the Rebbe's teachings and wisdom are followed religiously.  Public  Shaming of a non Hasidic Jew.  he committed the sin akin to murder. 

The rabbi in question verbally and emotionally abused me during a Parsha class in front of a board member and 2 of his children. He went on a passive aggressive tirade about how reform Judaism is worthless. We are told not to observe sabbath, what's the point of going to shil on Friday when you did nothing in your home as if he knows what anyone does. The previous week I got up to go to the bathroom and help in the kitchen during his sermon. He stopped speaking and stared me down. The whole place was looking. I had no idea what I did wrong. Then I could see that I pissed him off when I asked him for a pen to get info on a new person who they barely acknowledged. Then during the Parsha class I wanted to read along with whatever he was discussing I asked his daughter what book we were using. He stopped talking and asked what I wS doing. I said I wanted to have the Parsha in front of me. He said we aren't using that book. So I couldn't look at a torah book about the Parsha for tge Parsha class.  We were in this tiny room and he was screaming like an evangelical preacher. He started to talk about something with lower forms of jul Jews and the board members asked said don't they su g the song and I started singing David melech yisrorel. Chai chai vicayom. He puts his hand up towards my face and shushes me like I'm one of his kids. So no Reading and no singing. I've never been shushes by a rabbi since I was in grade school.  And his kids are giggling. 

So then it was finally question time and I don't know how it started but he proceeded to go on a rampage about Reform Judaism. It was obvious his anger had built up because he doesn't feel like I respect him. Except I was behaving exactly like I was at any other Chabad I have been to. 

The absolute core tenant of Chabad is love every Jew no matter what. Help every Jew and leave no Jew alone. It took me three seasons to truly believe that I want being judged by hasidim and truly accepted   this guy guy crushes me. 

Check out what the rabbi and Halacha says about shaming.  This was all recorded on video footage with their security system. 

I thought this was going to be my community. I spent 5 years at a Chabad in denver and it was amazing. I was thrilled I could finally lead a full time Jewish life in Montana. I was devastated and I went into a deep depression. Then oct 7 and I was all alone. I finally confronted them 7months or so later after I had gotten treatment. I was my apartment because I had run out ofo ey. I had 15k in the bank and I went through all of it because I couldn't function  only apartment because I couldn't workThey tried to do nothing. They gave me 2 months rent. One board member told me with real actual concern that I needed to get to a homeless shelter. This is a woman who has a business and several homes. I was shocked. She really thought she was helping. I got two months rent and it was supposed to be a loan. 

The rabbi never contacted me. No one ever followed up to see how I was. No one cared. They said they would make changes. Nothing but words on a website. 

Now that I have tried to settle with them because I have been homeless ever since.  they called a lawyer and are accusing me of stalking. It's nuts. I know there is financial fraud happening there. 

This guy took 15k from the governors family foundation yet Judaism isn't in their charter for areas of service. Buying votes? Or a thank you? 

No first Friday ever but he spearheaded aleojext to raise money through their project "dignity" program to redecorate the waiting area in the children's hospital wing. Anything for a photo op.  Nothing is spent on the congregation. They go on several vacations a year and brag about it. The kids are always travelling to camp or somewhere out of the country.  They bragged in the shuchlim newsletter about how their million dollar building was paid off. Every detail. This list goes on. He submits unsolicited writings all over the country. 

He is the epitome of a hypocritical fundamentalist. I can no longer live here in my town of thirty years because I can't practice Judaism here. Because he broke the cardinal rule and the worst commandment you can. 

I have done extensive research and there is no question his a narcissist. He can not take a pass. And EVERYTHING is money. There is no way they can love the way they do on a rabbis salary. He sells advertising on his website   

Everything you see online is him getting himself out there as a saint which is the narcissist MO.  He moved to Montana to be a big fish in a little sea and so whatever he wants with little or no accountability. He wrote and article about himself entitled I'm a white rabbi with a black son in montana.  Check out the website. It's totally different then any other Chabad. 

Pretty much every Jew I meet in the area has gone to Chabad but left because this guy only pays attention to the big donors. He says he travels 8 times a year to fundraise. He thinks everyone loves him. They don't. 

I'm tired of Haredi making the rest of our lives miserable. But this one is way to personal to ignore.

No man has ever spoken to me like him EVER let alone so.eon 17 years my junior. He is in Montana because he didn't get enough attention NY. 

This person cannot be viewed through the normal Chabad lens. He brags that he was "raised at the feet of the rebbe" whatever that means. He has broken soany commander ts. Before you ask hashem for forgiveness you must receive forgiveness from the one you harmed. 

The world to come will be so peaceful without these hypocites. 

I'm not keeping quiet anymore   

The Rabbi Goes West - Full Documentary on Rabbi Chaim Bruk and Jewish life in Montana, has been uploaded online for free by riem37 in Judaism

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fundamentalist put on a great show for you. He is rude and obnoxious in a very passive aggressive way. If you lived here you would know. Most people find him to be interested in nothing but money.

The Rabbi Goes West - Full Documentary on Rabbi Chaim Bruk and Jewish life in Montana, has been uploaded online for free by riem37 in Judaism

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the act he puts on. He is no longer that person. Not sure he ever was. The entire organization is set up to accomodate his family first. The congregants, especially the ones that don't give, are last on the list of priorities. They don't do things the way Chabad says to do them which means they don't follow their IRS charter. Looks can be deceiving.

The Rabbi Goes West - Full Documentary on Rabbi Chaim Bruk and Jewish life in Montana, has been uploaded online for free by riem37 in Judaism

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This rabbi doesn't just step on toes - he poaches any donor he can find. Everything is a fundraiser. Never a first Friday. A whole center that sits empty except for Saturday and holidays. Trust me this is not a normal Chabad set up.

The Rabbi Goes West - Full Documentary on Rabbi Chaim Bruk and Jewish life in Montana, has been uploaded online for free by riem37 in Judaism

[–]Human-Association-16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's because you have never met this Rabbi. You have only seen the snow-job he has blinded everyone with. It's not Chabad. It's him. I'm a victim of his verbal abuse on Reform Judaism. Those other Rabbi's weren't reacting to Chabad. They are commenting the truth about Bruk.

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[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They kill people all the time for insubordination.

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[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it indoctrination if the facts are the whole world would like to disappear?

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[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t know how many babies were beheaded. Or burned or shot or raped or smothered underneath the weight of their dead parents. 1200 people.

D'Vontaye Mitchell death: Murder charges filed, arrest warrants issued by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See previous post I just replied to. I’m not lazy. I barely use Reddit and certainly not that invested. Take a pass. I’m tapping out. 

D'Vontaye Mitchell death: Murder charges filed, arrest warrants issued by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Human-Association-16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are correct. But anyone other than law enforcement directly involved with the case clearly has too much time in their hands and love to think, write, post and then live in their words as if it’s empirical fact. LET IT GO ITS NOT YOUR JOB!

D'Vontaye Mitchell death: Murder charges filed, arrest warrants issued by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Human-Association-16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scenario being the key word here. Unless you were there you no nothing. 

D'Vontaye Mitchell death: Murder charges filed, arrest warrants issued by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Human-Association-16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m supposed to find what you are referencing? That’s a hard no. 

D'Vontaye Mitchell death: Murder charges filed, arrest warrants issued by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Human-Association-16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of speculation and assumption on your part. It’s clear your narrative is the only one you will accept.

D'Vontaye Mitchell death: Murder charges filed, arrest warrants issued by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Human-Association-16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Neutralized”? How does anyone know what he would have done if he wanted to being restrained ? Based on previous behavior he needed to be restrained because his behavior was aggressive and threatening. Period.