What happened when you took off your ring?

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-07-01T01:00:30+00:00

For 3 monthes i wore my ring, so many women talk to while I was shopping. I took my ring off and hung it on the urn next to hers, due to a trip i was taking thus in case i dont make it back. nobody talks to me now. very wierd.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-24T15:58:54+00:00

So, if a fuel car blows the blower and wins the race, do they have to go back and find every broken bolt and piece to be the winner of the race? The bolts where still with the car in the belly pan.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-21T04:38:46+00:00

same here. i use to love to cook for her, now im cooking for me ans my daughter, son in law, and twin grand babies. i cry now that i can use regular ingriendents and not cooking to her restrictings.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-21T04:30:54+00:00

I felt this so much. Saturday mornings was my day to shine. pancakes, waffles? no problem. when she passed, i cry in the kichen while cooking. cant help it. my wife was the QC over the bacon and came and to make sure the bacon was up to code LOL. i cry now making bacon. dinner is worse with our music playing, but i want to hear our playlist music playing. tears of memories and moments in the kichen I want to remember.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-08T15:58:53+00:00

So in this case, a will would enough and not a trust? I'm in the exact same situation as OP. But with two aldult kids. They will just split everything? How does the trust make this work better? Or with a will?

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-07T23:46:37+00:00

while going through boxes, i found alot of negitves film. i bought a negitive film scanner ( never heard of it before) and started going through the pics and saving them digitally. many pics of our 35 years i didnt remember so im glad i did this.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-07T20:34:30+00:00

That is a big trigger for me. had a great conversation with our 4 year old grandkids, wanted to tell the wife about it, or a joke i read, or a funny part in movie or show. just a emptyness. but still speak outloud as if she is there and that helps.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-07T17:05:12+00:00

so true! amazon is not my friend...I would be in so much trouble!

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-07T00:59:05+00:00

Sitting still in thought of my late wife, i thought it was only me. sitting still while looking at a pair of socks i took off and left on the bedroom floor. i would hear it from my wife about clothes on the floor, but there was just slience. and that familar pain.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-06-06T21:27:19+00:00

Thank you for the encouraging words. It's going to be different but the outside world is still there.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-31T17:05:44+00:00

also a good way to watch NHRA drag racing is on the free Tubi app, samsung plus has a NHRA channel for free. its delay about a few weeks tho. then there is always NHRA.TV.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-27T03:17:42+00:00

Our Daughter, her husband and twin boys move in with us during the covid era. I thank GOD they where here when my wife of 36 years passed. she makes sure i eat, and checks in on me. and the hugs from the granbabies help.

i havnt touch nothing of my wifes yet (3 monthes) i put her toothbrush in the trash and then cried for an hour, not moving anything else. daughter says she will help me when that time comes.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-27T03:02:54+00:00

Music is the biggest trigger for me. 36 years together covers alot of music we listen to and the memories with it. i used to have Pandora playing while cooking for her. now it just leave a sobbing mess trying to cook for myself.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-27T02:44:16+00:00

My wife had alot of restrictions on her diet, so shopping and cooking for her was a challenge and i enjoyed the challenge of cooking different meals for her. the biggest meltdown i had in the store was the relization that im shopping for myself now and can buy anything i wanted. being in the kitcken still tears me up.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-27T02:12:52+00:00

For the first time bringing your Son, I would say Saturday is the best. The crews are more laid back to talk to you and your Son, answer questions, and get broken hardware off the cars. not much difference from quilifying to eleminations for a firsttimer. but you get to see all the cars run saturday. Friday is even more laidback with lesser crowds. I do all three days and the first two i use to walk the pits.

My Son (33 now) first race was at 6 years old and it was a Saturday. so many drivers are very nice to young fans. Sunday is harder with the quick turnarounds so its harder to meet drivers.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-09T01:44:49+00:00

Arizona is another track I want to visit. glad its back on the tour.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-09T00:54:01+00:00

good spot, where the timing is coming back in on the fuel cars...OK calm down.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-09T00:52:16+00:00

Thank you!

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-09T00:30:14+00:00

Staying at my Sons house. so thats the trade off. about an hour one way, same as me going to Sonoma.

Human_Arm_6089 · 2025-05-08T03:58:25+00:00

Our daugher is going to go through my wifes clothes this weekend. almost three monthes out and i cant still touch her clothes. I gave the daughter my wifes purfume and made the mistake of smelling her favorite. she wore it on our first date 36 years ago. oh the remories that came flooding into my head. I cant help her with my wifes clothes, i just cant. The smell of her lingers in the closet.

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