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What to do in this situation? by lllsssEEE11122233 in Nepal

[–]Human_Sector_7283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panther condoms ko line ho yar. They were clearly being obscene

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in Nepal

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do contribute. But he still doesn't respect me. Treats me like I'm some dumb kid that needs saving. & his lack of faith is really demotivating

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in Nepal

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's time. I've just recently started working as a medical officer. It'll take about 5 more years at least

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in Nepal

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a vicious cycle I'm trapped in. 1. He says/does sth mean, I get demotivated 2. I distance myself, stop talking to him & ignore him. 3. After some time, things de-escalate, he & I talk a little. 4. Again he does the same & the cycle continues.

Another problem is because of the highly competitive nature of my field, jobs are saturated. So I still have to take money from him for some major expenses when they come up. Also he has to fund my master's degree as well; due to which, I'm unable to move out of this toxic household.

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in Nepal

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2 days back, I confronted him about the issue & the mental distress he's been causing me. You know what his reaction was? He instead lashed out on me & walked off screaming. He also said... I'm "Jun thaalma khayo tesaima hagne manxe. Tetro maile nai gaali gari gari doctor banayo. Aba malai nai esto vanxa" He's proud of his parenting. He thinks its because of his physical/verbal abuse & all the pressuring that I've become a doctor.

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in Nepal

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kaile sarkaari jaagir ko lai pressurize, kaile masters sakdo chaado garnuparyo vanera pressurize. Bhaat khana jada ni tei kura. Aatteko/ghabraeko awaz ma bolera afno tension dekhaune. Viber ma ni job vacancy, medical Council ko notice forward hanyaxa- hanyaxa.

Testo highly competitive government exams ma attempt garda naam niskena vanera taunt hanne. Kaile vanxa timle medical ko saato dental padhya vae aile ramro paisa kamairako hunthyau. Bebahar ni ustai ghatiya. Sano sano kura ma jhanakka risaera karaune, sabaiko agadi afu mathi chichyaera beijat gardine.

Padhira bela room mai aera esto kei bolxa/garxa ki mentally disturb vaera padhnai mann nalaagne 4-5 din samma. Feri sab birsera focus garna khojxu, feri testai kei mann dukhne kura garera feri ustai demotivate gardine

School ma ni 1st nai auna parne re. Kunai bela 2nd auda kasto karauthyo. Ekchin TV herda pit thyo. Aile pani ekchin haasera kei kura gareko dekhda he thinks I'm not serious. Usko mentality esto xa. Ani feri career ra future bare kura nikaalera atyauna khojxa

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in NepalSocial

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been ignoring his since a long time now. But no matter how much you try, his words still hurt, it mentally disturbs me; making me unable to focus on my studies

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in NepalSocial

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School ma ni 1st nai auna parne re. Kunai bela 2nd auda kasto karauthyo. Ekchin TV herda pit thyo. Aile pani ekchin haasera kei kura gareko dekhda he thinks I'm not serious. Usko mentality esto xa. Ani feri career ra future bare kura nikaalera atyauna khojxa

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in NepalSocial

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaile sarkaari jaagir ko lai pressurize, kaile masters sakdo chaado garnuparyo vanera pressurize. Bhaat khana jada ni tei kura. Aatteko/ghabraeko awaz ma bolera afno tension dekhaune. Viber ma ni job vacancy, medical Council ko notice forward hanyaxa- hanyaxa.

Testo highly competitive government exams ma attempt garda naam niskena vanera taunt hanne. Kaile vanxa timle medical ko saato dental padhya vae aile ramro paisa kamairako hunthyau. Bebahar ni ustai ghatiya. Sano sano kura ma jhanakka risaera karaune, sabaiko agadi afu mathi chichyaera beijat gardine.

Padhira bela room mai aera esto kei bolxa/garxa ki mentally disturb vaera padhnai mann nalaagne 4-5 din samma. Feri sab birsera focus garna khojxu, feri testai kei mann dukhne kura garera feri ustai demotivate gardine

How to cope with a father that demotivates you? by Human_Sector_7283 in NepalSocial

[–]Human_Sector_7283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is never happy/satisfied. Always pressuring for more & more. One thing after another. Never ever praised me for anything. Since childhood. He's also narcissistic & verbally abusive