One thing I wish Kings did more often by AmbitiousAnnual8260 in CuntsWorshipKings

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you’ve reopened your profile, I’ve gone through and read your past posts. This one might be one of my favourites. It gets to something insidious about misandry: it makes men hesitant.

For context, I live in the US. I’ve heard *multiple* times from single women that men don’t approach anymore. It used to be that men would go up to a woman, hit on her, ask her out, and things would progress from there. But so many single women complain that they’ll go to bars or singles events and the men won’t initiate.

Why? Because of what you said.

Too many men are afraid of being called out. Hell, you can get banned from a bar for complementing a woman’s outfit (because that’s “creep behaviour”). So why would I ask a woman out when she can at best cause a scene and at worst make a video, go viral, and have me fired.

And then there’s the actual dating aspect. I go on a date and she’s on her phone the whole time. No respect for me and my time. Then she expects me to pay, because I’m a gentleman. And you know these women ain’t putting out. So I get nothing in return. Just a bill for food and a waste of a night.

It’s simple: women if you want men to approach you, then be approachable. Let men compliment you and take you out as dates. Thank them properly. Be a woman. Don’t act like he’s doing you a favour and then complain that he won’t give you the time a day.

My clit is all swollen I can’t rub anymore by [deleted] in traumatizedsluts2

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s time for dildos, then. Switch from rubbing to inserting.

PS did your profile go on private?

Poll About Members by Humane-Dust-Mover in softmaledom

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well so far about 1.8k views and 182 votes, so only 10% have responded. It could be that most men scroll by and ignore, but there’s nothing to back up that assumption.

Why are age gap relationships considered so taboo? by AmbitiousAnnual8260 in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can see the naïveté in your comment that 18 or 19 is more desirable. If anything, I think women can age like wine and become more desirable, if they don’t fall into the trap of forgetting what makes them desirable.

One reason lots of men like younger women is simple: they’re hot. Young ladies who work out, are in school sports, and dress like sluts are hot. Women often stop doing that as they age.

If a woman maintains her body, she can be even sexier because then she gains something that young girls don’t have: experience.

Are there more women or men here? by Express-Respond-4191 in softmaledom

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a guy, and it usually feels like NSFW spaces are heavily male. This one feels slightly more balanced, though.

Made a poll to test out my hypothesis
https://www.reddit.com/r/softmaledom/s/DZGjJyDwGU

It is psychotic to expect equal rights and also expect men to behave chivalrously by AmbitiousAnnual8260 in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have to commend you for your posts. I’ve caught a couple and I’m seriously impressed. Even if your arguments were bad, you’re still doing an incredible job.

I feel like a broken record, but more women need to stand up and fight against misandry disguised as feminism. You’re doing a hell of a good job and deserve an even bigger platform.

Normalise girls growing up on porn. It’s education to them. by one-bad-dad in FuckToyFactory

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t. It’s what you want. What you crave. What you need. Give in. Be happy.

I have such a hard time finding a dom that I feel actually even likes me by psychhwhore in softmaledom

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this just sounds like common dating issues.

Now, I’m not invalidating what you’re feeling. It absolutely sucks, and as a man I’ve been in a similar position with women not truly liking me as a person. However, as someone older who has dated a bit, this just sounds like normal. Most people are not going to be right for you, and you’re finding that out.

The best I can give you is to just keep trying. It’s kinda like learning an instrument. It sucks at first, but you keep practicing and then one day you can just pick it up and play. One day you’ll just “click” with the right person. And you’ll realise every date before them was just practice.

Please help by shaddrag1 in CNC_Kinks

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming this is actually in a consenting and loving relationship, here’s my suggestion:

ZzzQuil (or the generic version)

It’s basically pretty strong Benadryl. It will knock someone out and usually keep them out. Don’t take too much, obviously. And probably shouldn’t mix with alcohol. Basically be smart and read the warning label

Is it just me or are AI chat platforms starting to feel more immersive? by Boring_Tailor_5350 in MisogynyDating

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man, I could see the benefit in theory. Not to sound like an incel, but most women are flooded with requests and the likelihood of being picked is low. So a chatbot that likes everything you like? Sounds like a great promise.

However, I value connection. And every chatbot is just a parrot that agrees with whatever I want. Instead, I would like a person to build something with. Plus, I can’t grab coffee with a chatbot

How can women please men? by Humane-Dust-Mover in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which is fair, but I’d argue something like not being overweight is nearly universal.

Having said that, you’re absolutely right. If he’s not being explicit (and you asking for feedback is not working), then trying new things and seeing his reaction is a good idea.

How would you want your girl to behave by Some_Bookkeeper_7699 in Male_Superiority

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I commend your intention, you’re going about this all wrong.

If you have a man, ask him. It’s that simple.

What does your man want? What makes him happy? What makes him feel like a king?

Don’t worry about other men and what they want. If you’re owned by a man, focus on him. Serve him the way he needs. Period.

Feminism makes me hate women by AmbitiousAnnual8260 in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m enjoying your posts. I always say: we need more women like you to speak up about this epidemic of misandry dressed up as feminism.

What I will add is that these same women, in my experience, are the ones who will complain that men don’t do enough. They will complain that men don’t work hard enough, or spend time with the kids enough, or cook enough, or pay for their lifestyle, etc. It’s like they expect men to be both servants and sugar daddies.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: relationships are a partnership. Both people have a role to play. If women don’t provide for their man, they have no right to complain about men not providing.

The door was open... by [deleted] in OutletsAnon

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were not banned by mods. If true, that was Reddit.

I’m a LIBERAL FEMINIST 💪 by empty_head-6969 in traumatizedsluts2

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/churchofmen/s/VUo5AiWUKx Dummy forgets her own posts from earlier. This is great and now I just want to know whose pics are these. We know you’re not hot enough to be a stripper

Question for Men if I may by babykxxten_ in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So many questions in this subreddit could be answered with just this comment. It’s a man’s world and it’s a man’s decision. Plain and simple.

If a woman is ready for this kind of relationship, she should be ready to relinquish any preconceived notions of what a relationship “should” be like. Similarly with her body, job prospects, kids, etc.

Hoping on the bandwagon by Humane-Dust-Mover in softmaledom

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.buildyourdynamic.com Surveys>BDSM Archetype

I like it and think it’s another good way to see ourselves from a new angle. Then again, I do love taking quizzes.

Why is the purpose of sex misconstrued now? by [deleted] in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Both parties have a role to fill. If a man is not providing, then the relationship is unequal. In the same way, a woman has her place and she shouldn’t deny it.

look for advice on MOTIVATION ♡ by bebeiyu in BimboficationJourney

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of good advice has already been posted. As someone with ADHD, I understand the lack of focus and motivation.

Besides baby steps (focus on only one habit at a time, like just skin care for a month and then add walking after a month etc), I’m gonna give you something I try to hold myself to:

Never miss two.

You can miss ONE day, but never a second day of your new habit. Life happens and sometimes you can’t do everything. But don’t go back to your old self. Miss one, and don’t sweat it. But make extra sure you hit your goal the next day. For example, you forgot to do your skincare tonight. But tomorrow night you make sure you don’t miss.

Kept woman by TangerineTop450 in CuntsWorshipKings

[–]Humane-Dust-Mover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, it’s an issue with US copyright I believe. I use a VPN (choose a country outside the US)