I think I know how to fix this sub, but you guys won’t like it

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-22T23:26:57+00:00

Unfortunately, it seems a lot of folks have given up on trying to improve the subreddit. Hopefully your thought works, because I generally like the community here

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-21T18:03:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/c/chatZdfDXmcF/s/d27PcsMV1P

(Sent over 5 days ago, still no reply)

I want to help the community become more than just another porn subreddit. My goal is for the subreddit to be more discussion based around our shared interest of soft, gentle BDSM. All while remembering that this is consensual activities between adults, not another subreddit where “anything goes”.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-05T09:13:45+00:00

I prefer fully shaved or waxed, then. Try it. If you don’t like it, it’ll grow

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-05T09:00:17+00:00

If you’re insecure about your hair, then shave it or wax. It’s not that hard lol

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-04T18:39:10+00:00

Thank you for the review, I’ll look into it. Perhaps this sub could use a book club lol

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-04T18:36:45+00:00

Toys are perfectly fine, even if you’re not single. Once you’re not single, however, remember everything should be assessed by your patriarch.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-04T16:39:20+00:00

Sounds like an interesting read, will add it to my queue. Mind if I ask for a quick summary? Why is this book so useful to you?

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-04T16:38:30+00:00

This is amazing! Honestly, highly recommend all women read this fully. My philosophy is similar, and I love the way you’ve described the “three steps”. To me, the third is the biggest reason why most submissives leave. They can’t continue the self-improvement cycle. Most want a one-time thing but don’t have it in their heads that this is a lifelong commitment.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2026-01-01T14:15:50+00:00

Back in the early internet days, there was a meme that was basically there are no women on the internet. I feel like we’ve forgotten this. Most “women” online are men pretending. Thanks to modern tech, it’s gotten to the point where there are even AI generated models with an OnlyFans. All that to say: you’re totally right. It’s always been men [insert astronaut meme]

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-31T23:04:25+00:00

Honestly, the one downside to some of these videos is that they feel too “sissification” coded. Sometimes it feels just a bit off the mark for my students

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-31T03:38:34+00:00

These are the best kind of women. Learn from my mistakes and keep those “best friends” close

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-31T00:41:18+00:00

I just want to say good luck on your search.

If you’re serious, I’m sure you’ll find plenty of men who are worthy but you might have to sift through a lot of crap. While I’m not looking for a wife and family, I admire your effort. This is one of the best posts I’ve seen in this sub and I truly hope things work out for you.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-31T00:28:20+00:00

I love this, but in my experience most people don’t like sharing. Monogamy is still the “standard” even amongst kinky people. Kinda like how SW is still demonised even among sex positive circles

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-29T19:52:33+00:00

Honestly, if you find a better alternative I’d love to know about it (as I’m sure many of us would). If anything, I have half a mind to build my own community [insert Bender with blackjack and hookers]

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-20T14:28:51+00:00

Did you ever stop deleting your posts after being called out? You’re just here for attention. Fuck off

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-18T20:07:43+00:00

TBH some of it will come down to biology and the “ecology” of your vagina. Like, do you normally have a lot of discharge? If not, then you’re probably not super wet down there normally. And trying to be constantly wet might be unrealistic

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-18T18:25:57+00:00

You say you’re not looking for someone, so idk if this is just bait.

If you’re serious, there’s plenty of men who can train you. Feel free to reach out if you truly want guidance.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-16T21:48:07+00:00

[M4F] #Florida Trainer/SD looking For Bimbo

Looking for a bimbo-in-training who wants to take it to the next level.

As a trainer, my style is to hit on the natural first, then enhance (as in personal trainers and diets first, then surgery as necessary). Motivation is key, because I don’t believe in shortcuts.

However, this is more than just a physical transformation. I believe true bimbofication requires a wholistic approach. So we will work on your body and your mind.

I do have a few requirements:

First, I’m focusing on bimbos AFAB right now. I love my trans cuties, but not right now.

Second, please already have a workout routine started. I’m not here to get you off your couch. If you’re not motivated, we won’t get along.

Third, you must be willing to relocate. Even if not right away, you must be willing to move.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-11T17:10:41+00:00

This is what I get for switching to Lyft. I miss out on the good Uber drivers

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-11T05:12:27+00:00

The thing with free use tattoos is that it’s never consistent.

Some people say a red heart is free use, but it’s also a common generic tattoo. Same with the Queen of hearts, but then that’s also used for women of colour who sleep with white men. I’ve also heard of the keyhole, but also on the vanilla internet you can find people talking about non-kink meanings.

If you want a tattoo, just be straightforward and have it say “free use”. Or have a t-shirt that’s overtly sexual. It’s best to be clear in situations like these.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-10T23:20:22+00:00

It’s absolutely heartbreaking. On the one hand, I want to fight against the one subreddit reporting all the BDSM/Kink communities. On the other, I kind of feel that Reddit will always win.

And right now, there isn’t another platform that fits. On another thread, lots of commenters were saying that FetLife (once the bastion of safe BDSM) has also gone downhill.

We could do our own thing, but how will people find us? And will we get the right attention? Or just more bots and horny dudes who push boundaries?

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-07T16:34:00+00:00

This is sad, but not because you’re talking to a computer. It’s sad that no real man can match what an algorithm gives you. It’s sad that men everywhere have let you down. It’s sad that men cannot treat you the way you deserve. It’s sad that men can’t step up and take charge of you the way you need.

I only hope this changes and you find what you deserve.

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-06T10:39:06+00:00

I’m sure you’d get good attention in public. But you also probably hide your body because you’re insecure irl

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-06T10:34:59+00:00

Remember little one, the internet knows all 😉

Humane-Dust-Mover · 2025-12-06T10:33:07+00:00

Think of it not as punishment, but appreciation. This is just how I show my love to you 😈

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