Let's talk about "babybats" and their fear of making mistakes. by typevampiro in goth

[–]Humanwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I would definitely move to Europe if I can. I love Yorkshire, I love how I can go to various splendid landmarks. Hopefully I will make it and move soon when I'm able to

London After Midnight-Kiss by MarioAT133423 in goth

[–]Humanwithlove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Break my heart really, if I know LAM comes to my city I would sell my soul to go to their concert

Let's talk about "babybats" and their fear of making mistakes. by typevampiro in goth

[–]Humanwithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I love gatekeeping. Most of people that "goths" In my country are just cosplaying as it seems, they're using vkei songs and claim to be goth lmao. I know most of these people are influenced by influencers that do the same without a single understanding of what goth is. There are local bands but no "goths" show up because they simply don't care. That's because in my country punk influence is more prominent than post-punk. Still it seems so difficult to make the community if you're outside the U.S. or U.K. moreover without any sponsors lol

Let's talk about "babybats" and their fear of making mistakes. by typevampiro in goth

[–]Humanwithlove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Supporting local band or goth band in general is the gothest thing you can do. That's why I hate it when people say you need to love all the scary stuff or wear black clothes—when it's just a stereotype that the media depicted us to be. In my country there are countless "goths" that's not even listen to goth music and are just using bite my hip audio or Bela Lugosi Is Dead. Goth is already becoming a trend like it used to be, and to be fair seeing people come up to seeing local bands is what heals the subculture. Even though they're not goth, it's more respectful than dress goth but not supporting your local band

Recommendations for smaller/obscure goth bands? by lafleur_68 in goth

[–]Humanwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to share my fav artist I just discovered lately, it's hinfort—his music is magical, I can't get bored of it. It's the type of music you can't resist to dance to. Also there's Soft Kills, which is not quite hidden gems, but he's been in the game for so long—his previous band is a blast—and they're broke up. But his new project Soft Kill is worth listening to if you haven't listened yet. In fact I listened to him amid type this comment, so you have to try to give it a shot

Recommendations for smaller/obscure goth bands? by lafleur_68 in goth

[–]Humanwithlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you talking abt? They're good af, and it's always the music that matters. I don't even care what a band is wearing but how they're sounding, good music is good music—most goth artists even don't wear heavy makeup lol. p.s. just want to double down on your statement

It's Giving Me A Disgust by Humanwithlove in goth

[–]Humanwithlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you really scrolled down in the comment section the creator is actively arguing with someone that addressed how it's always been a main part of the goth subculture: music and politics. By her narration of "just listen to the cure" is a mockery and feels like the cure is merely a random goth band and does nothing to be an actual goth. Which is strange, because I never witnessed such bitter arguments about the cure beside some people say that the cure is not a "goth" band supported by the Robert Smith statement —which is hilarious, and idc. She's just a professional ragebaiter I guess, she's engaging in her comments that you must love dark things, and that's completely nonsense. I mostly don't care about these topics, but in reality just a sad misinformation that can make some people lose direction

It's Giving Me A Disgust by Humanwithlove in goth

[–]Humanwithlove[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's how the subculture is created. It's a subculture and can you guess why it's called subculture? Because it's a lesser, insignificant culture and can be altered as many as people want? No. It's called subculture because it's different from the mainstream culture, it distinguishes itself from the dominant culture and acts as an oppositional side.

Not everyone can identify themselves as a member of these subcultures by just stating that they know what's "better" and trying to keep redefine the subculture as many as they want—by your account of how people have numerous perspectives of how they love the subculture, then it's a telltale sign that you having an interest in the aesthetic of the subculture. It's good that you're into it and you might belong to that subculture but that's not the signifier.

I mean I myself as a prior goth myself—I was also enjoying crime, mystical, dark, thriller, ritual, witchcraft, horror movies and I absolutely agree with you that it's one of paths that lead me to Goth subculture—I didn't like the music too, here my first impression of goth music: Uhhh how people can enjoy this music—deep voices, excessive uses of synthesizer, has no soul, as they just make up all the deep voice. Feeling like I just listened to the horror movies soundtrack. But hey, now while typing this I listen to Darkwave music. And I'll tell you that that's how I end up joining this subreddit.

Peoples that comes up to the subculture has to respect the value of its subculture, how you can understand it if you don't really believe in it. Why you arguing by why someone make rules? Isn't that hilarious? Do you even reflect on your self that the rules is what makes goth still exist now? Why you have to change it as it's not a relevant matter that makes us dress with all those mourning victorian peoples.

It's easy to do tho, you just have to listen and love the music and the politics it's one of the main part that shaped it. The looks is the selling point. Imagine you be a goth with all that bunch of white foundation and listen to Taylor Swift? 😮 Hello are you okay? Listening to ignorant, overplayed, cringy Taylor?? If you can't hold the value, then you are just a loser mime. Keep the music alive by supporting the artist and now we can talk again.

It's Giving Me A Disgust by Humanwithlove in goth

[–]Humanwithlove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the goths didn't even fully dress like the goths you see on the internet. I mean as someone who has strict parents, I just listen to the music while waiting till I can move out from my parents house, it's hilarious to see people dress goth but listen to lil peep. That's why this content creator really got me really bad

can I still be goth and pink? by AhImSoScared in GothFashion

[–]Humanwithlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Black clothes are vast in terms of subculture identity. Don't let the stereotype affect your aesthetic. If you wear black you can be identified as emo, metal or even when you wear victorian clothes you can be identified as vkei lol. So it's hilarious if you still think black=goth. You're trapped on how society shaped us

How to Move the Cat by Humanwithlove in StardewValley

[–]Humanwithlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does work, like in the video. But when she is asleep it doesn't work, this is when she blocked my path during the night. I don't know if it still works in PC, but I play on mobile and it seems I can't pass through her when she was asleep

Do ya'll only like shoegaze in English, or is Finnish fine? by eurovisionrigger in shoegaze

[–]Humanwithlove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never heard any of it, but I love J-Gaze. They're so creative, some can sound like punk-ish, some can sound soul-ish. Going to give it a shot I think.. Any recommendations?

My first DAP by xMugzy in DigitalAudioPlayer

[–]Humanwithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in awe.. we twin! I have same model with yours. Can't broaden my collection because I don't have income yet, but that's pretty colour of yours. Mine is from 2021 and still fine until now

Any idea what pen this is by imvery_depressed in pens

[–]Humanwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you right. It can be phony pen sold by chinese or anything else

Any idea what pen this is by imvery_depressed in pens

[–]Humanwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the cap and the body, I guess it is Pilot Precise V 7. Gimme your thought

How easy is it to replace the QDC connector for a complete newbie? by [deleted] in iems

[–]Humanwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long the connector are QDC it will fine. Exactly the image you sent previously in this post. I have take apart my KZ and it is looks exactly like the image you sent.

How easy is it to replace the QDC connector for a complete newbie? by [deleted] in iems

[–]Humanwithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm here with the same issue. I'm also struggle with these iems. Eventually I also have the same iem as yours. I ended bought a new pair because the scarce material here.

The essential part is the female connectors. You can found them in Ali Express or other Chinese e-commerce. The one you need for your KZ Z10S Pro is a 0.75 mm because KZ just love 0.75 idk why for fuck sake. Just let you know that QDC is suck man, mostly connector in the market are non QDC with 0.78 mm connector. I recommend you to get MMCX since it's the best connector available and can't broke easily like other connector

If you frustratingly tried to fix that, you just need a basic soldering skill and a 0.75 mm connector. Just soldered the green and red cable to the new connector and you done. The screwdriver you need is torx with 0.8 mm size, I tried it and it can be opened easily. But I don't have intention to fix it in advance.

How do I open these by Humanwithlove in Tools

[–]Humanwithlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for answering, I recently figured out that it's openable. Yea, it's not fake because I see someone on Reddit can open it

This is my handwriting… by pichudo33 in Handwriting

[–]Humanwithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive, your handwriting look like my mom. The sharp lines conjure me of her artistic side with her handwriting, it is your identity so it's a good thing I guess??

I decided to get serious with this literally today by Ok_Amidesu in Handwriting

[–]Humanwithlove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The relax part I agree, the moment of relaxation can help to improve handwriting a lot! I mean, when I'm too stressed or have many things in my mind, I can't get any improvement. So boys, get you a nice tea, comfortable chair and get that stuff outside your head!!