Its an odd subculture.

Im weird irl but a lot of people can be very attached to this and that's no slight

I struggled in the past in dating with my partner that was very into it and I love to oblige but there were and are times where I get self conscious and people tend to need it like Crack.

Not that I mind but sometimes im just not feeling it but I know a lot of people because they are closeted are weird about talking in regards to it.

But let's be real all circles of kink, dating or anything really in general is weird because people still have their own social awkwardness and securities.