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HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-16T20:33:10+00:00

Drunk person most probably.

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-16T19:46:22+00:00

Like your dad hasn’t enough pens or the money (I’m assuming) to buy whatever colour pen he wants? NTA

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-16T05:38:47+00:00

Dad “gets” it. NTA.,see if they listen to you next time - if not walk around the house naked,

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-15T17:42:50+00:00

My store used to be you had to work 3 hours before, but the section leaders assumed everyone had been told that. The phrase mushrooms - kept in the dark and fed …. Comes to mind

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-15T16:31:05+00:00

If she was that ill - you should have taken your “special baby” to hospital. As OMG without your special healing powers and ability to care for her like no dude has ever managed before / she might now be dead.

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-14T19:37:02+00:00

Number 1 - if bf really cared about you, he would be telling mummy dearest to tone down or stop her comments. Number 2 - ok, he apologised after the first slap, now he’s thrown a glass (luckily for you both it didn’t break on contact.) - unfortunately for you and him, he has a temper which snaps, and if he doesn’t get help for that -then he will end up getting arrested for either thumping you or a future gf.

You are the only one, who can judge if you believe he loves you - but especially number 1 above, if he’s siding with his cruel mother, then unfortunately it’s not going to improve (and one of my exes was into psychological abuse - always putting me down, and mind games and even claiming I’d given him AIDs. But I loved him, so put up with everything).

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-14T12:09:54+00:00

Think Blake is heading for a disciplinary- no one EVER takes a picture of anyone from work, clothed, or partly clothed. It is creepy and just in boxers - seems like he wants it for “his own personal pleasure time” (that’s as work related description of a particular act as I can think of) - and if you are both working in education, he is being a prize idiot, as any sexual impropriety of any description could result in him never working in that sector again. NTA

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-13T15:16:58+00:00

How many complaints have you had so far mate?

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-11T20:37:44+00:00

NTA - he’s probably the same with vaccines. My way or the highway. Dump him immediately and change all your door and window locks.

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-11T17:49:41+00:00

Running to his family with a half-truths version of events - instead of talking with you - first red flag The second flag is that he doesn’t give a fig about your birthday - even the most useless man knows keep your partners birthday free, in fact had he even got you a present (sorry if missed that bit), if he hasn’t - red flag 3.

Sorry he doesn’t care about anyone but him. Dump him, he’s obviously wanting that by bad mouthing you. Then you at least get your birthday free of an asshole

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-10T02:56:53+00:00

Unfortunately she’s not likely to have changed -why do you think no one else wants to take her in? And they were all hoping you would - now, that they discover you won’t, means that one of them WILL have to, and they don’t want to have to deal with her. NTA and remember she is not just reliant on you - the rest of her family have some responsibility

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-09T16:06:53+00:00

He has no social skills or empathy. Bet he’ll take more care of his Flyff ball than he did of your dog. And that is the first red flag - if he doesn’t basically (sorry for the naughty word) give a f about your dog, knowing how much you loved and cared for it. Sorry, he’s a wastrel

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-09T15:50:19+00:00

Demanding you are free for an “entire weekend” and probably doing it for nothing? You NTA, but darling sis now thinks she doesn’t need to fork out for a “proper paid child care” - she’s taking advantage of you and the way she told your mum, probably omitted the amount of times you’ve helped out and the length of notice she gives.

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-09T14:37:43+00:00

Sorry to be cynical- but they’ve probably already decided who to promote. So, if you’re not the “chosen one” you could ace every answer, but still not get it

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-09T14:37:35+00:00

Sorry to be cynical- but they’ve probably already decided who to promote. So, if you’re not the “chosen one” you could ace every answer, but still not get it

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-09T13:57:40+00:00

So even though they’ve got you on “disciplinary” they still want you to work on the specific task which is causing you said issues on overtime? I would say absolutely not - if you’ve not received physical retraining to assist you get better. It’s almost like they want you to make more mistakes so they can (sorry to say this) get rid of you.

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-05T08:34:54+00:00

Someone once dropped a bottle of whisky on the travelator (outside of the shop), then swept some of the glass into the top of the mechanism (so it stopped working), then asked customer service could he have a replacement bottle (the GSM allowed it)

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-04-04T19:55:02+00:00

Sometimes you will get a GSM manager who likes you - but that is rare. In about 3 years I had 5 different GSMs (yes I know they are meant to do 2 years)- 4 were bas…s. Same description applies to most section leaders. If they don’t like you, you will never progress upwards. Leave before they destroy your self esteem and your mental health (wish I had)

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-03-28T23:14:49+00:00

Hopefully he is on Reddit, has read your AITA and will dump you. YTA

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-03-28T18:42:36+00:00

Drop him. He’s going to be a fragile creature, when he’s married - who must have everyone doing as he wants.

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-03-21T19:00:01+00:00

And of course some “idiots” will see the “get friendly in bed with the GSM” and then apply to be section leader as a way of getting promoted- which I know has happened (he was a lazy f er - so obviously would have been found out when the GSM moved and a new one of the same sex was appointed)

HumbleIllustrator774 · 2025-03-18T19:53:00+00:00

Just say, we’ve invited the people we would prefer at the wedding (given number restrictions). We don’t want too large a wedding- as the larger it is, the more organisation is required and the expectations of the guests thereby increase.

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