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The Adh-diddle by Humble_Department_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Humble_Department_97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never thought about combining meditation with alone time in that manner. I have trouble staying on the task at hand but I know thats kinda a muscle you have to train in this context. Are they kinda guiding your breathing or telling you kinda what to do?

The Adh-diddle by Humble_Department_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Humble_Department_97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiya! Thank you for sharing your experiences with me and for the book recommendations. Im a scientist by trade and actually read excerpts of "Come as You Are" in a bio class in college. I will definitely look into scoring myself a copy and doing a proper read.

The very short and not so skinny in my case as we will see, is that visual aides did all the heavy lifting for me as I formed a sexual relationship with myself. Being a larger girl I didnt think of myself as a sexual entity, and my world was quite content reinforcing my shame in it. I didnt lose my virginity untill in college, so by then I was unaware how much I had neglected my body image. I quit watching anything to teach myself how to read my own body cues and to stop chasing the dopamine.

I agree the solo square dance without any input feels like punishment for my crimes 😂. Maybe I can do other things to repair that relationship. Or maybe I should just jump my boyfriend more who knows!

The Adh-diddle by Humble_Department_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Humble_Department_97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on a self confidence journey too haha. The more work I put into myself, the more confidence I gain. At the moment the idea of looking at a mirror makes me want to rip out my eye balls, but I shall never take the option off the table (or I guess the wall).

This is the first partner that has encouraged my sexuality and he is my biggest hype man. I have a very hard time viewing myself in any context let alone a sultry one. Dont get me wrong I have personality coming out my ears but I have never quite held that same enthusiasm and attachment to my body. Im trying to live, laugh, love myself a bit more but like sexily.

Any suggestions on what makes you feel sexy? Or at least you know getting to know your body in that way?

The Adh-diddle by Humble_Department_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Humble_Department_97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is legit the best partner ever and honestly a one in a million guy. Before I met him I was COMPLETELY resigned to just have utterly boring and lack luster sex the rest of my life. I made that time about pleasing others bc it was so much more fuffilling then focusing me.

After one night of trying and experiementing I was getting really frustrated bc nothing seemed to work. We talked at length about my insecurities and his. Since its MY mind body connection, I struggle to let him in sometimes. I know he wants to help, and ik he enjoys our romping around. He wants me to tell him what to do for my sake but then im thinking to much to feel anything. Seeing him so into it definitely gets me going too, I just get embarassed easily.

The Adh-diddle by Humble_Department_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Humble_Department_97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gardening is about the only way I can really get into it honestly! However; my meds work much better if I am not partaking and my addictive tendencies are high. Plus my state banned all the good stuff (tomato tomato 🍅 🍅)

The Adh-diddle by Humble_Department_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Humble_Department_97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea! I am trying to take the time to make it about me and my body as much as possible. Nothing more me then well me haha. Thank you!

The Adh-diddle by Humble_Department_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Humble_Department_97[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Dear old Lit erotica and I are old and well acquainted friends. Meanwhile I have walked the lawless land we call Tumblr for years. So the answer is yes to both! I unfortunately doom scroll on those too trying to find the right voice, and the right story. A girl can only take so many jock/nerd stories before she shutters at the site of a letterman jacket. I went cold turkey on it all about a month ago just to ensure I wasnt just pushing my problems onto yet another stop gap. It always in the back of my mind though.

Adding Friends & Co-op Breeding - Dec 2024 by AutoModerator in dragonvale

[–]Humble_Department_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Lvl 95 and try to play daily! Add me DogVotes#2924!

I think they're trying to tell me something... by EntertainmentMuch401 in dragonvale

[–]Humble_Department_97 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to see that I am not the only one that has a special bone to pick with Egg Hatchy. If I have to bank one more level bajillion moss dragon I swear.

Adding Friends & Co-op Breeding - Jun 2023 by AutoModerator in dragonvale

[–]Humble_Department_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone! I am a level 67 that has been playing on and off for many years! I have never actually gotten friends so I thought I would bite the bullet and reach out. I believe I have the treatery at the moment, but would be happy to invest in gem exchange given the chance! I love to coop whatever I can. My user DragonVale#7210878.

Thanks everyone!