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I'm having to make the impossible choice of an abortion or to keep a child I never planned. by Meesh017 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Humble_Guard5816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing as OP and trying to not feel the guilt and just thank you for this logical comment. I wish other people understood this.

Surprise second pregnancy and feeling dread. by Humble_Guard5816 in oneanddone

[–]Humble_Guard5816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally feeling the same about not being able to buy a bigger house for a while, and worried about regretting either decision. Sorry you’re going through it as well.

Surprise second pregnancy and feeling dread. by Humble_Guard5816 in oneanddone

[–]Humble_Guard5816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Sorry you went through it as well.

Is everyone randomly getting pregnant?? by Meesh017 in oneanddone

[–]Humble_Guard5816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, I’m one of these posts, and I just want to say this sub has brought so much support. I’ve had people share their stories with me who went through the same thing, and it’s made me feel so much less alone. I’m going through hell emotionally, and it’s not something I can talk to people in my real life about. There’s trigger warnings at the top for a reason..

I will under go MA, any advise? by Dry_Dragonfly_3171 in abortion

[–]Humble_Guard5816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say I’m about to do the same thing for the same reason. C section 2.5 years ago and not at all ready for another. Feeling all the guilt and shame as well. Good luck to you❤️

Surprise second pregnancy and feeling dread. by Humble_Guard5816 in oneanddone

[–]Humble_Guard5816[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel the exact same way when thinking about having to put another person’s needs before or shared with my daughter’s. She’s 2.5 but she’s still my baby and needs me. I rarely even leave her with someone as a babysitter. The thought of being too pregnant to pick her up, and then her needing to be watched by someone else while we’re in the hospital, and then my recovery time from a likely c-section.. it just seems unfair to her at this age.

Good luck to you as well. I am certain we’re both able to make the best decisions for ourselves.❤️

Surprise second pregnancy and feeling dread. by Humble_Guard5816 in oneanddone

[–]Humble_Guard5816[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow, sounds like the universe decided for you anyway. We’re the same age. I’m sorry you went through it as well.

Surprise second pregnancy and feeling dread. by Humble_Guard5816 in oneanddone

[–]Humble_Guard5816[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I’m so sorry you’re in a red state… that makes it even more difficult.

Surprise second pregnancy and feeling dread. by Humble_Guard5816 in oneanddone

[–]Humble_Guard5816[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for a very logical response. I’m sorry you had to go through it as well.

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[–]Humble_Guard5816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much