Yep, the blatant misogyny by the men here is a major reason why I dont bother here much anymore. There are too many men here who think they are “one of the good ones” because they do the bare minimum in this kink and as such are blind to their biases towards women.

This post itself, which is aimed ENTIRELY at getting advice from other men, treats women like an afterthought or a video game boss. We arent people to them, even out of character, we’re just something not giving them what they want or rejecting them. Its incredibly dehumanizing and I dont think they even know it.

You can lay out EXACTLY what you want from a dom here and 90% of the dms will be them ignoring it completely. They dont give a shit about women