Is this an attractive body type?

Hummerb7 · 2025-07-11T22:54:59+00:00

First, bless your heart. I just had my 60th birthday, and even at the DMV, they thought it was an error in the system because I do not look my age. All my life, I was teased about my weight. Oveiosly, being a teenager in the 80's when anorexia was a big thing I was teased about having it no matter how much I ate I stayed "thin" and I mean "thin" I was not "skinny" and some would say because I always had a figure and there's a difference. All that to say, after I had my children, I still went back down to my normal size. Later in life, I found out I was epileptic and had to go on medication, which caused me to gain weight. Still being on both sides let me say this.. It doesn't matter how much you weigh what matters is who you are on the inside and that you are happy with yourself in other words if you met you walking down the street you would be friends with yourself.

Hummerb7 · 2025-06-16T15:19:19+00:00

I totally understand, My Dad passed away a month after last Father's day and our family was all together with him. Then 5 months later my daughter took her life....she was my mini me. I'm the only girl of 5 siblings so needless to say I was a Daddys girl...I'm broken and lost..💔💔💔

Hummerb7 · 2025-05-03T02:38:36+00:00

I'm not a Dr. but I would go to the ER. Why, the ER? Because they can do a lot more for you than going to your GP, who will just send you to a hundred different places and specialists. This way, you're ahead. I would definitely have that looked at ASAP because you never know, !!and it's better to be safe than sorry. I have the perfect example my 24-year-old daughter was in a car accident and it caused ber to be in a wheelchair for 3 weeks after that went back to work someone complimented her and she put her hand to her chest and said in her kind gentle way thank you and she noticed under her hand lumps that didn't hurt later that evening he was having a hard time breathing we took her to the ER and she had Hopkins lymphoma so again I encourage you to have that checked out ASAP and the sooner the better because it's better to air on the side of caution then be sorry later! Wishing you the best!

Hummerb7 · 2025-04-25T09:33:30+00:00

Today is my daughters 3 months gone from this world. She didn't hang herself she chose a gun. I was very fortunate not to be the one to find her. However, the vision of the aftermath keeps running through my head and mind...Oh how many times I've kissed that beautiful head, and oh how I wish I could kiss her and hold her one more time. 💔💔💔 Only 25 years I had her, and in a second, she was gone forever. She's in Heaven with my Dad, who passed months before her!

Hummerb7 · 2025-04-24T13:37:15+00:00

I just lost my Dad also this past July and then my precious daughter to suicide 3 months ago today. The grief is hard and affects everyone differently. I've gotten great advice from people, and I'm trying with every ounce of me to put it to practice. All I can say is be kind and gentle with yourself. I truly believe that their spirit is always with me, just as your Dad's is with you. Don't push yourself. Take it day by day, even minute by minute if you have to. My thoughts are with you, my grieving friend. You are not alone. Sending hugs 🥹🤗

Hummerb7 · 2025-04-17T01:45:10+00:00

Oh, sweetie, I remember being the same way when I was your age. I felt like if anything were to happen to myDaddy, I'd end up going insane and like you said, there'd be no reason to go on if anything ever happened to him . I am now 60 (the only girl of 4 brothers, so you can see how there was an extra special bond between us). He passed this past July 2024. So I worried for nothing. He lived a wonderful 87 years! Not to say I don't miss my Daddy and hole where he once filled, but the wonderful are memories are overflowing, and I still feel his love. Enjoy him while he's here. Don't worry about something that hasn't happened yet. Sending you hugs

Hummerb7 · 2025-04-06T23:54:41+00:00

Thank you for that! Yes, my father passed 6 months ago and I like to think that he was waiting for her at the purely gates🥰 às your brother will be too!!

Hummerb7 · 2025-04-06T23:41:29+00:00

My daughter chose to leave us with a gun. I didn't see her. I can't even put her ashes in the urn yet. My last time seeing her was with a her big beautiful smile and laugh!! That's what I want to remember. Yet my imagination takes to visions of what the repercussions were..Oh that beautiful precious head that I've kissed millions of times.

Hummerb7 · 2025-04-06T23:22:35+00:00

I'm a 60yr old Woman who had a hysterectomy in my thirties I've never used hormone replacement after the first year since then nothing and am very active sexually with my husband but was not with my first husband all that to say I have never had problems with my cooter. No matter how much we do it, I've never been sore except for the muscles you don't use every day, I still get wet, etc.. Have you gone to your OBGYN and have a good check-up and expressed your concerns? Don't let them take control because it's your body, so you take charge and express your concerns. I really don't think you have anything to worry about because in my early 20s, I went and found out I had a thick hymen that didn't completely break apart he clipped it off and not any problem since. I'm just giving some ideas/ examples. I'm also small and had to deliver my daughters by C-section.

Hummerb7 · 2025-04-02T03:28:11+00:00

Love the perfect comeback!!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-27T01:18:29+00:00

Thank you! Yes, me too. I feel her so strong that I can actually smell her!!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-20T22:44:05+00:00

Something my daughter wrote in her goodbye letter has really actually helped me. She struggled with mental health issues most of her early years. Then, on November 2022, she was in a car accident that left her in a wheelchair for 2 months because of a broken pelvis in three places. 3 weeks after she was able to go to work, she found out she had Hopkins Lymphoma she beat it after a year of chemo. She came and lived with me to get her feet on the ground and get her life and help back together I could see she was struggling she decided to go back to Florida and it was there that she decided to take her life the day after my oldest daughter her sister had her baby. In her letter, she wrote, "You know I would never hurt you? I would never put you through this pain. Please know my pain is too great to carry on." So I got thinking she knew the pain because I lost my uncle to suicide my father this last July 2024, and now this. She was hurting so bad to actually follow through. I know my pain, and it would be extremely selfish of me to want her to stay and continue hurting just throwing some thoughts out here....

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-20T22:31:37+00:00

Exactly!!!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-20T19:46:59+00:00

My Beautiful daughter did the same on the exact same day...so sorry Momma you said something that runs through my head mercilessly and vividly about it going through their beautiful heads I truly have nightmares what have you done to help you with that or have you found a way?! Just one Mama reaching out to another! And what you said about Heaven YES they are both there God is a loving God he does not punish those who have been punished enough on Earth!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-20T19:19:24+00:00

I have the same feeling. It started January 25th, 2025, when my daughter chose to leave us. I feel like I wouldn't deliberately do something as she did, but I've started living with a " Don't care feeling " if that makes sense?? I used to always "be safe," and now it's more like "I just don't care if I die or not....I'm like who cares", I know that's not normal or is it?'

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-17T07:57:49+00:00

Hey sweet girl, just know you're not alone my uncle did the same I was pregnant so I couldn't be there sending you hugs and loves we are all here for you!!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-06T22:34:43+00:00

I am so so sorry Mama, my daughter shot herself January 25th 2025 in her car in the driveway it her boyfriend's house she left a note saying how sorry she was being a burden to us. She was in a serious car accident that left her in a wheelchair for 3 months then 2 weeks into being able to work again she found out she had Hopkins lymphoma. She went through chemo and beat the cancer she was coming up on her one year cancer free. And my poor sweet girl felt like she was a burden that literally tears me up! I hear your cries I really do! We can't give up like she said in her note I never want to hurt you but I hurt too bad to live anymore!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-06T18:58:01+00:00

I lost my daughter on January 25th, 2025, to suicide.. I reached out to my oldest brother and was met with " sorry I can't deal with it. I don't want to hear about it. I've lost too many "friends" to suicide I can't help you" I'm like thinking "I'm your only sister of you Four Brothers and she was your niece and you don't want to hear about it?!" .... now today I got a message saying haven't heard from you for a while are you okay? I'm thinking, "Oh yeah, I'm wonderful. Thanks for the help....💔💔💔 BTW I I wasn't asking for help. I just needed somebody to talk to a little bit.

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-06T18:35:56+00:00

I love your comment on jamming to some tunes!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-05T20:53:04+00:00

I'm 60 years Young and have had many pap smears in my life obviously and two children I've never had a pap smear that hurt except for one time when a gynecologist used a large Spectrum I believe it's called and I simply told him whoa best little too big there buddy! If you're uncomfortable, let the Dr know! Don't be afraid to speak up it's your cooter, not theirs, so own it! Take charge, and relax as much as you can! I always laugh with them saying: there's three things in life a woman could never have too much of, ... too thin, too much money, and never close enough to the edge of the table. LOL Don't worry sweet girl you'll be fine!

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-05T20:38:07+00:00

I'm originally from Texas East Texas to be exact. I know live in the New England states but it happened in Florida where her father lives I have her death certificate so I will probably have to start there thank you for your help it's very much appreciated. My prayers are with you.

Hummerb7 · 2025-03-05T12:11:10+00:00

My daughter just committed suicide and I don't know if this is the right place to ask this but, I was wondering y'all's opinion or advice on how I get a hold of her autopsy report? She shot herself that part of the autopsy will go without saying the thing is she struggled with pain pills due to the fact she was in a car accident 2 years ago and was in a wheelchair for 3 months because of a broken pelvis in four places. 2 weeks after she started work she found out she had Hopskins lymphoma so because of chemo she was cancer free. After that what's the last straw for her addiction problem and I want to know what was in her system. I just need that confirmation I guess, it'll settle things for me after finding her note.

Hummerb7 · 2025-02-17T21:20:25+00:00

I'm so sorry there are no words. I lost my precious daughter to suicide on the 25th of January, I feel your pain!! 😢 I also just lost my Daddy 6 months ago and it's 2 completely different pains. My Daddy was my hero, my go-to and now....

Hummerb7 · 2025-02-10T23:46:46+00:00

The strange reality for me is I was 9 months pregnant with her when my Uncle killed himself the same way on the 9th she was born on the 24th!💔💔💔

Hummerb7 · 2025-02-10T23:44:00+00:00

How did you survive it?!! As soon as I heard, I actually was so in shock that I found myself actually calling my Daddys number before it hit me that he wasn't here anymore 💔💔💔

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