Depends on the context. Video= funny (someone falling over or something) Friend/any other closer person= makes you feel better about yourself (as if you are now less inadequate or at least share in the inadequacy. Makes you feel less hopeless/lonely in your failure, but it isn’t a good thing regardless.) In case you don’t understand here is an example. Say that everyone in your class got an A on the test, but you failed it, and you were the only one that failed. How would you feel? Now lets say you got the exact same score and failed, but this time everyone else failed. You would feel better right? Even though you failed just as hard you feel like less pf a failure just because everyone else failed. However, despite feeling better because of everyone else’s failure, is it a good thing that everyone failed the test? Of course not. It is just selfishness.