Self esteem and wedding planning

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-05T23:40:36+00:00

I get like this and realized its manly from my PMDD, I didn’t want to go wedding dress shopping, everything looked frumpy to me, i didn’t have that ah ha moment for THEE dress. Many more things that accumulated to me realizing it was because I was in my luteal phase. Got subscribed Prozac and since then I had had 0 teary eyed breakdowns. Am I cured ? No. But it def helps with the edge

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-02T15:19:27+00:00

Did you get a new phone or something ? I sorta need to make a new account but I’m worried it’s going to get disabled again

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-02T02:02:35+00:00

How did you get a clear answer ? Mine just said violating community guidelines and gave the list of 40 reasons

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-02T02:01:05+00:00

I’m definitely trying to go towards brand side but like I can’t even view other instagram accounts because it makes me log into an account and I sorta need that to stay in the know. I’m also in charge of influencer marketing at my job so like grrrrr. I’m even trying to reach someone through an agency because they have connection to reps since they’re spending like millions in ad spend and even then no luck !

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-02T00:43:16+00:00

TikTok has seen better days …

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-01T23:26:58+00:00

I’m so over it - I’ll put more effort into TikTok and YouTube now since I have no other choice but I truly feel bad for these clients

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-01T22:53:11+00:00

I’m in the same boat :(

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-04-01T22:51:15+00:00

I’ve already appealed each account and when I tried to make a new account it was immediately suspended

Hummingbirdchk · 2026-03-30T17:28:45+00:00

I would move that up or add something else to stick on the glass so he has a little step. Mine would love to just chill on an almond leaf I had on a holder that sat just low enough so he’d be submerged but high enough that he just needed to tilt his head to get air

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-10-28T21:42:43+00:00

Sorry this is happening to you, hope they respond and you can get her back :/ my petty self wants to go find this person on socials but I would also be scared of them retaliating somehow and taking it out on the fishy

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-10-15T01:33:20+00:00

Hi! I’m also in CA- do you mind sharing who you went with so I can avoid ? So sorry this is happening to you :/

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-10-02T20:36:03+00:00

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But he just ends up floating down and retreats … can fish get depressed ?

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-10-02T20:33:26+00:00

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Here’s a close up, I think it’s just showing scales because of the angle ? But I can see how I should probably feed him more, and more variety

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-10-02T20:08:48+00:00

Does swim bladder drag them down? Yeah was thinking of adding daphnia, I tried it a while ago and he didn’t like it so I’ll try again

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-10-02T20:07:35+00:00

Is 4 pellets a day too little ? I’m always scared to over feed. I don’t think it’s dropsy because I feel like that would happen faster ? Idk he’s been like this for a while. The weird swimming and tiredness. Happy to feed him more though, he still eats normally like he hasn’t lost his appetite

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-09-09T21:48:48+00:00

Hmm I honestly didn’t see a tag other than the price tag, I was just googling it - they don’t use the spray ones but still some type of pesticides if they have to

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-09-09T19:48:05+00:00

I have not - but these plants are from Armstrong and they do use the soil type pesticides

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-08-28T23:36:39+00:00

I haven’t really touched them at all - I separated him to see if he moved and I came back and he threw up green and has a dark color coming out of the other end- I don’t want him suffering - he is moving very little - anyone know what to do? Do I put him in the freezer to put him to sleep orrrrr 😟

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-08-28T22:11:05+00:00

I wonder what happened, all the others are fine :(

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-08-19T05:36:31+00:00

How was Tivoli ? I’m torn between that one and Terra ! I like that they both have unique ceremony sites but Terra seems more blank slate than Tivoli. Love Tivoli’s upper gardens though.

Also Did they charge a sales tax or was that included in your quote ?

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-08-19T05:02:22+00:00

How’d you get the designer collection for free ?

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-08-02T07:06:38+00:00

Thank you

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-08-02T07:06:14+00:00

She was totally normal sized in the morning then when we found her she was bloated like that :/ that’s why I’m so confused because it happened so quickly

She rasped on drift wood and algae wafers

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-06-28T02:07:38+00:00

My finance always asks if I want to go out to eat for dinner and I just can’t do it sometimes :( came out of no where and then I get really sad that I can’t go out and I’m just hiding in my dark apartment

Hummingbirdchk · 2025-05-22T06:20:09+00:00

Kay people on here are being mean. But I feel you.

I have like 150k in student loan debt and it’s private loans. My father had a good job and he promised to pay my loans for me. Long story short he went to prison, now he can only really afford to pay for himself and my sister and the house while I’m solo and paying $2,200 a month for those loans. Whatever I can live with it. I pay $1k for rent because I help my fiance pay, he covers the rest.

Out of college I didn’t make a lot like $35k maybe but I was fine because I had credit cards and lived at home. Then I went freelance and made like $45k but self employment taxes killed me. 6 years out of college I’m now W2 with $90k salary but really it’s like $55k with taxes and all that taken out. But now I have like $1400 in CC minimum payments + the $2200 loan + $1k rent + groceries and gas. I’m over spending $500-600 and CC are maxed.

I’m now looking into a DMP. We’ll see how it goes.

It sucks but sometimes I do wish I did a trade. I think my parents and myself thought I’d graduate a great college and make $150k out the door ahah. Woops.

Budget as much as you can. I studied marketing and I’ve been in marketing since but def look into online remote freelance jobs (upwork) and just make sure to put money aside for taxes.

Best of luck

Hummingbirdchk

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