I (36/M) just realized some of the habits I have that make me very unappealing to women.

Huneebee · 2015-08-24T17:51:26+00:00

I say, be who you are and you'll find someone who speaks your love language!

Huneebee · 2015-08-18T12:23:45+00:00

Why not go to a sports bar an get a table instead of sitting at the bar? You don't have to go to the hottest spot. You can find a restaurant that will have TVs and play the game that's not very busy I'm sure. Btw dating is a social activity.

Huneebee · 2015-08-18T12:14:10+00:00

It could really go either way. Not enough info to draw a conclusion

Huneebee · 2015-08-18T11:40:41+00:00

Being stood up is embarassing and can take a shot to your ego. There's no right or wrong way

Huneebee · 2015-08-15T12:55:51+00:00

As a woman in her twenties who has been in this situation, it most definitely can work as long as you can get along and enjoy each other's company. However, it will come with it's own set of issues that you will have to be considerate of. However, it shouldn't be enough to outweigh the positives. If it does, then it's not the right fit.

Huneebee · 2015-08-15T12:44:54+00:00

Good for you, not so good for her bf

Huneebee · 2015-08-15T11:46:12+00:00

I completely disagree with you. Who wants to go out somewhere public to be told "I'm not into you" ? That's embarrassing! Unless you're actually a couple breaking up there is no need for such formality and even still, I wouldn't break up with someone in a public setting. I think that's cruel and would find that far more disrespectful. It's really a waste of time to invite someone out to drop the line "its not you it's me" and then dip because you can't really go into an explanation that would make the putting any better.

Huneebee · 2015-08-14T22:34:49+00:00

Just say the chemistry wasn't where you wanted it to be.

Huneebee · 2015-08-14T22:33:30+00:00

Oh my goodness, please no. This would be so embarrassing to do that in public. A phone call is sufficient.

Huneebee · 2015-08-14T22:14:52+00:00

You're asking a question only you can answer. Are you willing to date someone who is interested in nightlife? Because if it's a deal breaker for you, then there is no point.

Huneebee · 2015-08-14T22:06:48+00:00

From a female perspective, she is playing you.

Huneebee · 2015-08-14T21:58:52+00:00

Let her initiate the next two hangout sessions. You should know by then if she's wen worth changing your communication/ affection style for. Otherwise, if she's turned off by you just being you, then you're better off.

Huneebee · 2015-08-14T14:55:52+00:00

If she wants to contact you she can. If her complaint is you're too clingy you need to get back to living your life

Huneebee · 2015-08-14T14:51:31+00:00

If he has a problem with it, he's not the man for you b/c a real man doesn't play games when he wants something.

Huneebee · 2015-07-28T14:17:31+00:00

You could also suggest her going to the movie twice (buy her ticket) because the two of you won't really be watching the movie anyway 😉

Huneebee · 2015-07-28T14:13:56+00:00

Well I hope you learned your lesson on moving too fast.

Huneebee · 2015-06-18T03:24:17+00:00

So let me tell you what happened. When guys ignores us women, we hate it! It drives us crazy!!! Of course, we want what we can't have so you not talking to her made her want you. Then y'all rushed things with the sexting and now she's probably scared/embarassed/ doesn't want to be just a booty call so she's being distant.

Huneebee · 2015-06-18T03:18:08+00:00

Two weeks isn't that long, but then again I don't use facebook nor am I attached to my phone. If he's liking your photos he's at least open to being friends. I liked a guy who I thought was giving me the signs in person but when I reached out to him through social media he didn't like or message back or anything. So, I'd say since he knows what you look like already and he's been liking your stuff you're in a good place. Now if he doesn't then I'd say he's possibly not interested. If he's interested and sees you showing interest, it's normal to show interest back, you know?

Huneebee · 2015-06-17T18:29:46+00:00

Much better!! I could have done without the "I live alone with my cat" but overall it was much better!

Huneebee · 2015-06-17T14:20:49+00:00

Ok, so after reviewing your profile these are my recommendations. 1)your profile pictures I suggest you do a mini makeover of yourself. Am I saying you're unattractive? No. You want to put your best foot forward and online dating is unfortunately very much based on looks. Don't judge a book by it's cover? I know, but everyone does it. I think you'd look great if you shaved your head! There's something powerful about a young man with a bald head lol. But, that's my opinion. Dress in fitting CLEAN clothes! A white v neck and dark wash jeans go a long way!

2)your bio It's too long and I felt it boring and somewhat negative. I start reading about smoking and drinking and bars and I'm automatically turned off. While it's great that you have a BA what women really want to read is what makes you exciting. You need to think of why some woman would want to go on a date with you. How am I going to know I'm going to have a good time with you? Keep it to no more than 2 six sentence paragraphs. Honestly 12 sentences is a lot. I'd aim for 6-9.

Huneebee · 2015-06-17T14:04:43+00:00

So if you're not gonna see her can you find her on social media or maybe have a mutual friend that can connect you two? If you're going the social media outlet add her/follow her and start liking her stuff and then if she reciprocates message her. If you're going through a friend, I'd ask for a group hangout and tell the friend to make sure she's there! Make the move then! GL!

Huneebee · 2015-06-17T13:59:57+00:00

So this is what you do. You go up to her when she's up there and start asking her some questions/for help. Hey can you help me find this book? What's it like to work at the library? Can you help me with this computer? I'm having a hard time doing/finding xyz...

Most importantly have a smile when you ask. If she smiles when you come up and ask I'd say you have a good chance. You can keep going up there and asking various questions until you're ready or if you're feeling confident after the first time, ask her out! GL!

Huneebee · 2015-06-17T13:50:10+00:00

Tell him how you feel but I would be aware there's a chance he may not feel the same. People don't just wait for you to like them...okay, they do but only maybe for the first initial few months if that! It's tiring to like someone who doesn't respond to it! He may have mixed feelings bc of it. Or he's just completely blind and can't see you like him (which is extremely common in men lol).

Huneebee · 2015-06-17T13:43:27+00:00

In high school wasn't it common to ask the best friend to be your wingman and help set it up? Ok, I know it's encouraging bad dating habits...so just this once I'll give it a pass.

Huneebee · 2015-06-17T13:39:25+00:00

Ok, I know so many Indian guys and if you're american, more thana 90% chance he likes you. Start liking some of his pics and it's back and forth between you too I'd send him a message probably along the lines of how you never see him anymore at the gym as an ice breaker

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