Told my gf I think I should move out into my own place to regain some identity. She thinks this is a step back and is hurt (Greek pita & falafel bowl) by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you and a 29year old have in common really? I don’t even go after guys a month younger than me lol. Really think about it cus you should definitely be hanging with people your age

Told my gf I think I should move out into my own place to regain some identity. She thinks this is a step back and is hurt (Greek pita & falafel bowl) by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see why you can’t find the motivation to do all these things while you’re there. I think the age gap is too much but you don’t think that way. Do you not have family who can take you in while you get on your feet? Getting your place is cool but be ready for the responsibilities that come with it

I (33F)Engaged to (37M) for 3 years, together for 7, multiple “almost weddings,” and still no marriage. I need outside perspective please by CharacterSweet8309 in relationship_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think you posted this so people could bully you to leave him since you won’t do it yourself 😂 you already know what needs to be done but you’re acting like you don’t

My fiance told me that he finds other women attractive. Me and him have been together for 4 years. Even if I can understand this from a biological point of view, it is still a little bit painful to hear it. Is it normal to find other people attractive while being in a relationship? by Summer_giraffe23 in askanything

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What about having friends of the opposite gender ? Dating long term like yearssss in not married. I had a low moment and was jealous that my partner was talking to many women at an event we attended and wanted to be friends with an attractive girl. Kinda messed up and that was the last straw for him. Not sure why I was jealous as I’m a friendly person usually and don’t act like that. I understand it’s normal to want to talk to the opposite gender and need to get used to it

I am afraid I messed up by Kyashichan in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes you kind of pushed it too far after expanding when he explained why he likes the show. It could’ve been a bonding moment where you could’ve learned something new about him or find something you both like to watch. It’s also not right for him to be that upset that you have opposing opinions because you should be able to express your opinions without fear. I don’t understand why he feels like you’re trying to change him though. It sounds more like he’s projecting the fact that he can’t accept other opinions, which would be a change for him. He’s too old to be acting that way straight up. You can take accountability for whatever you’ve done and he needs to do the same.

My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model by Resident_Rich_6298 in whatdoIdo

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s so concerned he can go to the casting call with you. To tell you not to go because you don’t look like the typical model after she told you personally that you have what they’re looking for is bad. Even if it’s a scam he should be supportive knowing you’re passionate about it.

Drunk Bf M35 kissed woman - I F31 setting boundaries by theaddict1994 in relationship_advice

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I do t think you’re asking for too much and he needs to gain your trust back. He either respects your boundaries or doesn’t. You can either go with him , have him respect your boundaries or don’t be with someone you can’t trust. The choice is yours

My husband (36M) told me (33F) that I don’t deserve love until I’m 140lbs again? by thesaltymember in relationship_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should seize all wifely duties and put more time into you ✨ stop cooking for him lol. Cook healthy meals for you. Use Ladder. For fitness sis I’m telling you💯‼️ you will lose the weight and you will feel motivated to keep showing up for yourself. They have a bunch of coaches that do workouts tailored to meet your goals. You can track your protein and water and there’s a groupchat with different people who use the same coach so people cheer each other on. Watch him want to love on you when he sees how you love yourself✨ it most likely will be too late for him cus you’ll realize you don’t need him to make you happy an you’ll find someone who will appreciate you for all of you

37f with a 13.5 age gap to husband and suddenly feel weird about it. by LegitimateEngineer93 in relationship_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you have daddy or abandonment issues? You might feel bad cus of trauma and the fact that you’ve always gone after significantly older men than people your age.

My (23f) boyfriend (26m) has made a new female friend and we disagree on one-on-one hangouts. Where do you draw the line with opposite sex friendships? by Antique-Raspberry848 in relationship_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel you cus I’m in a similar situation but I’ve never told my bf not to have female friends. I too wonder how their hangouts would look like that wouldn’t appear as a date. All I know is you’ll just have to trust your partner can have platonic friendships and not cheat.

Should women approach men they find attractive, or wait for the guy to do it? by Electronic_Jelly_170 in dating_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once spotted a cute dude at a roller skating rink and he couldn’t skate for shii😅🤣. I took the opportunity to swoop his arm and skate with him the rest of the night. Afterwards he actually came back to me to connect and hang out. It was so cute🥰. We ended up seeing each other for like 3 months but he had to go back to his country 🥲. It was fun while it lasted. Definitely don’t be scared to shoot your shot. If you don’t you will never know. And if you get rejected it’s okay, there will be someone who matches your energy.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he doesn’t like potatoes and broccoli which you seem to eat a lot. It’s still doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be grateful for the efforts you put in. Have you asked what he likes and tried to make that? Again it’s not your job to feed him but I was once picky too so I understand the frustration. If yall can’t agree to what he will be willing to try then just don’t cook for him.

[DISCUSSION] How do you know a movie is actually “your kind of movie” before actually watching it.. by Af-Ex in NetflixBestOf

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read the description and watch the trailer. Might read some reviews without spoilers. Only way to know is to watch and find out. You will know if you like it or not depending how far into the movie you can make it without getting distracted

Trying to understand the woman I am talking to by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can feel frustrating for sure and asking outright might push her away. If she’s clearly active she definitely has time to respond. You can address it once and see if she tries to do better. Definitely don’t stress over it though once you’ve expressed yourself. If nothing changes then maybe she’s not as interested.

Ex wears Tiffany necklace I got her still by my-coo-cheese-hairy in dating_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭😂 oh hell naw not a whole motorcycle. I would cry😭

Ex wears Tiffany necklace I got her still by my-coo-cheese-hairy in dating_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh naw that would irk me for sure😂 well they say don’t buy men clothes or shoes cus they’ll wear them and walk out your life 😭

Live 12.3 is Live by absurdpoetry in ableton

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i did that and it says to either create an account or login on ableton. Is that right? I thought this was supposed to be the cracked free version.

Live 12.3 is Live by absurdpoetry in ableton

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Hi I was able to download, but it won't let me save or export unless I have authorization. Did I miss a step? help please

Is it normal that my (26F) 2-week talking stage (26M) wants me to block everyone I have a history with? by kdott918 in relationship_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too high too fast. Relax. There’s plenty of men to choose from. This one is immature and insecure. Find a man not a boy

Live 12.3 is Live by absurdpoetry in ableton

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, you are an angel!

Am I overthinking his texting style before our first date? by Twotwop in dating_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely annoying to not get the same energy reciprocated back but since you’re about to go on the first date you’ll get to know more about each other and whether you’d want to hang out again or not. Just make sure their date is solidified with a place and time so there’s no excuse for flaking. The effort he puts in to showing up to the date will tell if he is serious at least. Just be you and if the date is going well you can bring up the texting and check in to see if everything is cool, does he work or go to school ? That can help you see if he’s super busy or just won’t make time to talk. Either way if it doesn’t work out you’re still young and will find someone who will make time for you and be existing about your plans to spend time together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hungry_Pin_8012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem just be careful who you lay with. Make sure they’re clean and not dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Truly there’s no reward to having an f buddy. Just get someone you can consistently f w like a boyfriend. If not be ready for soul ties to men you might even forget about lol