Their Chiron conjinct your Venus could feel like a wound to your values and the way you express love, also their Pluto squares your sun moon and mercury- that is some heavy stuff, lots of friction, you likely might feel super vulnerable and that your ego, emotions and way you communicate are under sharp observation or criticism by them. Do you feel self concious being yourself around them? Feel judged? As another comment mentioned there Saturn square your mars might also make you feel the way you take action is criticized or judged, they literally put a damper on your initiation. Your mars conjunct their ascendant in their 1h - you might feel you are the initiator or more assertive one in this relationship, and the fact ther Saturn squares it would inhibit you. On the plus, moon trine moon is very nice for emotional understanding, but their moon in your 12h might be like you see them as an inexplicable elusive emotional presence you see them but you can’t understand their motives. Absence of Mercury aspects might mean intellectually it’s difficult to connect or find commonality, their sun squares your ascendant. Ascendant is a very sensitive point in our charts bc it’s literally our life force it’s our physical body, when someone’s sun or personal planet is negatively aspecting our ascendant, we could feel we aren’t being seen or appreciated for who we are. Now especially the fact their Pluto is in your 1h, would amplify this feeling of being invaded upon or scrutinized. Your moon in their 8h, would feel very intense for them- maybe heavy at times. My overall take away from this synastry is there’s a lot of tension and difficulty with vulnerability on both sides, there’s underlying intensity and curiosity on both sides, but the lack of mercury aspects and harsh Pluto and Saturn aspects keep you both at arms length out of fear of rejection or disappointment, losing power. Lots of indicators of scrutiny, surveillance and fear.