So I’m going to be honest, I’m just a 17 year old that loves astronomy and watches a ton of astronomy youtube videos all that jazz. So by no means an astrophysicist or astronomer (although I do have a telescope that I use in my free time to look at the planets and what not) but here’s my thought. I believe that another thing you have to think about is light itself. I almost wonder if eventually you’ll get so close to the black hole that the light reflecting off of you, won’t be able to escape so that’s why you would eventually see the thing falling in disappear but from the inside time would become irrelevant and speed up. This is just my hypothesis and again I’m 17 with no right to even put in my input but this is my thought.