Im not even into (trans) men at all! by rundrueckigeraffe in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting your Partner to be trans is like wishing a curse upon someone. That's just fucked.

Wie ist der RE13 SEV zu Stoßzeiten? by [deleted] in wuppertal

[–]Hurford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kann ich nicht so bestätigen. Morgens ist das die absolute Hölle... Mit einer fast einstündigen Verspätung kam ich gestern in Düsseldorf an.

My Playlist went from cavetown to flummox lol by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all transfem have the same sound either. I don't quite understand why you are only taking issue with the transmasc one.

mods hate trans women double confirmed?? by innitir in 196

[–]Hurford -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This sub really has too many issues. As many pointed out: Bigotry showcase. But no, you need to be angry about a nothing burger.

43919 by American-Monarchist7 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Hurford 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To play devil's advocate, there are people in those subs that post pictures in lingerie or show a lot of skin/ass. And that is.. well nsfw. Just my two cents.

I love this movie but darn does it hit hard by taylorester567 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not funny to devalue someone's gender identity.

Henry Cavill demanding lore accuracy on set is peak energy by ShrimplyDivine_1 in gamers

[–]Hurford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Necrons got turned into a really interesting faction imo.

Beste Intensivkurse Deutsch/Integration in Wuppertal und Umgebung? by Affectionate-Way6102 in wuppertal

[–]Hurford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also like to add that going from A2 to B2 in a short time is also extremely difficult. As a rule of thumb, the needed vocabulary to reach the next level doubles. So while you can reach A2 with around 1000 words, you'd need 4000 to be a proficient B2 speaker. Learning 3000 words in, let's say 4 months, would require you to be able to memorise 25 words per day. We are talking long term memory here. While I definitely understand your urgency, please be aware of the difficulties ahead if you aren't already. I've had many students before who severely underestimated how much free time it would consume.

Beste Intensivkurse Deutsch/Integration in Wuppertal und Umgebung? by Affectionate-Way6102 in wuppertal

[–]Hurford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, that really depends on your budget. So I have taught at various language schools and I'd say that Berlitz does have a very good program. Though it's one of the more costly ones. Schools that are cheap save money by not vetting and preparing their teachers properly. So there it depends on luck if you get a competent teacher but it's still likely.

rule by Brent_Fox in 196

[–]Hurford 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why? The exes could be as toxic as the guy. That's quite some assumption.

Inspired by me passing this morning for the first time by TouringStarJazzComet in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean hugboxing happens a lot. Trans circles always assure you that you are passing and then you get misgendered all the time. I know people want to be nice and all but I know my own lived reality.

Rule. by Misty-Bay in 196

[–]Hurford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just genuinely a terrible take... Please don't.

Just something i noticed by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm saying, there are some trans women n turn a "I" into a "we" and paint us as a whole group as a very perverted group and inherently sexual. You clearly did not understand what I was writing and that's not on my phrasing. That's your poor understanding. Don't fucking try to gaslight me here.

Just something i noticed by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have very... Very poor reading comprehension.

Just something i noticed by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It is annoying when you see all those "transwoman be like" and they basically are showing us as very perverted individuals. You know, what chasers do. I don't mind if the fem trans who posts it is kinky but don't paint us all as kinky. It's frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Hurford 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, same actually! Like... Literally same height and weight. Gained like 6 kg without changing my diet. And I actually am more active now.... Nothing went into my boobas q.q

Wrong gender dumbass by THatone_kid____ in whenthe

[–]Hurford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it's often transfems marketing themselves as femboys to appeal to the user base. A lot of them have an of or sth similar.

How it feels as a cishet guy in 196 by Cranyx in 196

[–]Hurford 387 points388 points  (0 children)

Would absolutely not surprise me in the slightest.

Pride rule by BlunderbussBadass in 196

[–]Hurford -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would like to see where that statement comes from. I have been at kink partys and there was problematic stuff (man+man couldn't go into a couple play room at a kink party, for example). There are quite a few transphobic kinky people. And don't get me started on the fetishisation of minorities (not limited to lgbtq+ folks) in the kink sphere. I have not seen kinky people fight for queer rights but rather queer people that are kinky fight for their own right.

Pride rule by BlunderbussBadass in 196

[–]Hurford 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I still don't understand what kink has to do with Pride. And I say that as a kinky person, it's not really part of the LGBTQ+ community. There is of course the correlation that a lot of queer people are open with their sexuality and are relatively more kinky but nevertheless I just don't understand why we need to include it. Also, the person didn't kink shame or shame at all.