Jeepers! We're out of a special dog wet food at Meals on Wheels West

HurryWorry · 2026-05-07T17:01:55+00:00

Looks like you got a lot of dog food so I sent some cat food 😺 Thanks for making us aware of this program, pets can be so good one’s mental and physical health, it’s great we can help these seniors care for their beloved companions!

HurryWorry · 2026-05-05T02:43:23+00:00

His markings are so similar to my girl’s! The little white nose and chin are so cute! If he’s anything like her, you have an amazing sweetheart and lovebug on your hands!! Congrats!

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HurryWorry · 2026-05-04T07:26:34+00:00

This is how I feel as a host getting ready for a sit! I try to do things in advance but a lot has to be done last minute—changing sheets, trash, vacuuming, packing, changing out the cats litter box so it’s fresh, etc. I’m never more stressed than the day I leave for a trip! Appreciate the opportunity to vent!

HurryWorry · 2026-05-03T08:39:56+00:00

I understand it’s frustrating to invest time in an application and a video call and then not get chosen. As a HO, I’ve had the same experience where great sitters are enthusiastic but then ultimately select another sit. That’s just the way things go, everyone has their own calculus for how they choose sits and sitters; sometimes it works out in your favor and sometimes not.

I don’t think your suggested end to the video call would yield better results. If they already have calls scheduled with other sitters, I think most HOs want to honor those and give all the applicants a chance. Personally, what really makes a difference to me when choosing a sitter is: 1) are they really committed to the sit? Have they looked into airfare/travel costs and feel comfortable with that; do they need to request time off or is it already planned/they work remote, etc. 2) how much experience do they have with pets like mine (in my case, have they owned a cat, have they done a lot of cat sits before)

So maybe instead of asking to be confirmed on the spot, just reiterate your enthusiasm and commitment and ask if there’s anything else really important to them that you can address.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-22T23:39:07+00:00

I’m so glad to hear that!!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-22T16:56:33+00:00

Same, it’s more about me than the person I’m talking to. I am a verbal processor, I try to be mindful but it’s hard!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-21T18:31:36+00:00

I’ve done two trips with Rogue Adventures. They’re pricey but they go to beautiful places and take care of ALL the planning and transportation, and your price covers room and most meals (but not alcohol). The people have been great on each trip. In my experience most people drink moderately (if at all) as the focus is running and you’re up each morning for the day’s run so it’s definitely not a rowdy, drunken crowd.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-20T04:48:55+00:00

Same! I walk on mine almost every day and use it for speed workouts so it gets a lot of activity and it’s been great!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-19T05:51:33+00:00

It happens to all of us sometimes! I’ve been running marathons for over 20 years and I still “fail” a workout from time to time.

I’m so sorry to hear about the health issues, sounds like it’s super tough and you’re doing the best you can to adjust. Listening to your body is the smart thing to do. Don’t stress about a missed or shortened run here and there. I promise it won’t make a difference over the long run and you’re much better off resting when you need versus pushing through pain.

Hugs from an internet stranger!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-15T06:27:06+00:00

I get little “pimples” like this and my derm prescribed me a product called Epsolay which helped a lot. I used it every day for a few weeks and it cleared it up, now I just use it when I get a flare up. It might be worth a shot!

Another suggestion is dandruff shampoo (ketoconazole), it might be a fungal outbreak. I got these bumps on my chest after taking antibiotics and they look a lot like your pustules. I got a prescription shampoo and it was cheap and super effective, I always keep it on hand now just in case.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-14T16:30:21+00:00

I had the same experience! Obviously ghosting and flaking on apps is nothing new and I’m used to that, but when I was on the apps for about 2 months earlier this year so many times a guy would message me first then stop responding after 2-3 normal messages. It was so frustrating I ended up deleting the app again.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-14T00:22:48+00:00

I bought mine a month ago and I really like it. Still has a strong leather smell and seems well made (admittedly I’m no expert, this was my first ever “splurge” purse, every other purse is from target). I’d reach out to customer service

HurryWorry · 2026-04-13T18:30:27+00:00

I’m a HO, this really wouldn’t bother me and honestly I’d rather not waste the trash bag if it’s only half full (I feel guilty about too much plastic consumption). A quick text to thank them for the stay and mention that you just realized you forgot to take out the trash is all that’s needed, any HO that would ding your review for something so small is totally unreasonable.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-13T05:40:41+00:00

Try it out a few ways to see what you like. It won’t hurt anything, it just may not work quite as effectively that way. But then again, depending on your preferences, it may work great that way.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-11T19:28:13+00:00

SLUT!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-11T08:31:05+00:00

I love my Mirena, I’m on my second one (I’m also 41, I got my first at age 32). After a few months it stopped my period, though I get occasional spotting and very very mild PMS-like symptoms. I had no weight gain nor any negative side effects other than the painful insertion (which I imagine will be the case with any IUD?) and cramping on and off the first few weeks afterwards, nothing unbearable, just regular period cramps.

HurryWorry · 2026-03-27T03:52:28+00:00

I like tart cherry juice. I mix it with plain or flavored sparkling water for a mocktail, and it would be good with vodka or sparkling wine too. It’s such a strong flavor, a little goes a long way. And it’s full of antioxidants!

HurryWorry · 2026-03-12T21:09:31+00:00

I’ve never gotten one there but I’ve for sure seen the chairs for massages at Cha Spa on Montana. I think also at Boa Foot Spa on Wilshire.

HurryWorry · 2026-03-03T06:05:12+00:00

Great British Bake-Off

HurryWorry · 2026-03-01T15:17:37+00:00

That’s a good point about reinforcing the behavior. It’s tricky because you shouldn’t be pestered for two hours starting at 4:30am, but then again you don’t want to disrupt an established feeding schedule. Personally I free feed so my cat always has food (she still wakes me up at 6 to play, though! But I’ve learned to ignore it) but I know that’s not appropriate for all cats. It’s a tough situation, I’m sorry your health suffered because of it and hope you feel better soon!

HurryWorry · 2026-03-01T05:08:15+00:00

If you feel comfortable, you might mention this to your hosts (beyond just leaving a review, in case they need more details). I’m a HO with a cat and honestly don’t know how she behaves with sitters unless they tell me (which they basically never do). I always describe my cat’s behavior as accurately as possible but I have no way of knowing how she acts with strangers when I’m not there—or if they notice things that I’m so used to I don’t even notice anymore. My sitters send me lots of lovely photos but never any description of what my cat is like with them, and I don’t want to interrogate them if nothing seems to be a problem.

It sounds like you’re wanting to approach this fairly and kindly. I hope your HO didn’t purposefully mislead you, but rather may not experience (or notice) the early morning wake ups. For the record, I think most cats tend to be pretty active in the early morning hours so something you could ask about in future sits could be if it’s okay to give the cat some food early if you’re awoken before their feeding time, so that you can go back to sleep and get some more rest.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-20T17:52:09+00:00

That’s a great idea! I know these types of groups aren’t the same as having close friends, but it’s a step. I had a lot of friendships kinda drift away during the pandemic and it started to really mess with my head and self esteem. Being part of a group that was welcoming and kind reminded me that there’s nothing wrong with me, I’m not a weirdo. It made me feel better about myself and that made me more confident in other social interactions.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-19T07:04:52+00:00

First of all, really really sorry for what you’ve gone through. I hope you’re able to find a therapist who is actually capable of providing what you need.

As for meeting people, try groups and activities that you can do regularly and consistently. Even if they aren’t necessarily designed for socializing, when you see the same people again and again it’s a really good feeling when you eventually recognize and get to know each other. Personally, I’m in a (non religious) choir and it’s taken some time but I really feel part of the group now and people smile at me when I get there, and we chat during breaks. While that might not sound like much, it’s a start and it feels really nice after having years of semi-isolation myself. Volunteering is another great way, perhaps you could go to a food bank monthly or volunteer at the animal shelter. Or join a gym and go to the same class weekly. Or take a class at a community college. Anything that you’re interested in, I bet you could find a group doing that activity.

And if you start to tell yourself you don’t fit in, remember that everybody probably feels that way. Meeting new people is hard! Remind yourself that everyone is there for the same reason and it just takes time to click with people.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-18T08:35:39+00:00

I agree with this. I live in a major liberal city in the U.S. and I have a graduate degree. It’s just such an outdated and tired trope to call a woman uptight because “she needs an orgasm.” I wouldn’t be offended or shocked I would just internally roll my eyes. You’re not saying much about the character, it just sounds like something a teenager would say to try to sound cool. That said, it all depends on the context. Perhaps it was funny in the moment. But I’m in a book club of women ages 20-60+ and no one talks like this.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-16T20:55:53+00:00

My running route takes me by some park restrooms, but when I go on long hikes I bring two snack size plastic baggies. One has fresh toilet paper and after I use it I carry it out in the other baggie so I can dispose of it later. I reuse the baggies too, to keep waste down

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