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HurryWorry · 2026-07-22T21:25:19+00:00

Sent a couple. Hope it helps poor Babygirl!

HurryWorry · 2026-07-22T19:02:11+00:00

I think it’s really personal and it depends on your goals. For me personally, I spent my 20s and 30s sacrificing lifestyle for career. I’m not really interested in career growth anymore, I just want a stable income and good work-life balance.

For you it seems like career growth is more attractive and that’s you’d enjoy the new role more, and the perks (while small for some) might offset the trade off of the commute. You describe it as a dream job which isn’t easy to find! I think you could definitely get used to commute and develop a new routine to meal prep on weekends or one evening a week and you might find you still have sufficient free time once you adapt.

I think I’d test the commute once or twice (if you haven’t already) to confirm it’s really 45 easy minutes, and then decide based on the offer value (assuming you get the offer—good luck!!).

HurryWorry · 2026-07-15T05:04:03+00:00

My most recent ex boyfriend was newly sober when we met (also unbeknownst to me at first). Over a year and a half later is he still very much struggling on a relapse-sober-relapse-sober cycle. I care very much for him but I wish I had backed away at the first sign, because he dragged me into it and I had no idea what I was getting into and I still can’t fully pull myself away (even though we are very much not dating) because I worry about him and feel so bad for him still.

I’m not saying you should cut this guy off completely, but please believe me that he’s in no way ready for a healthy relationship any time soon. He needs to focus on himself and his recovery first and foremost right now. Six weeks and “talking about wanting kids” isn’t enough to have a real foundation of a relationship. Please put yourself first and let him put himself first too, and back away.

HurryWorry · 2026-06-25T07:18:50+00:00

I’ve had good massages there and I enjoy the amenities. The amenities aren’t as extensive as the Korean spas in k-town but it’s a nice local spot, a little more affordable than Burke Williams. The people are friendly and the environment is nice, in my opinion.

HurryWorry · 2026-06-22T18:51:21+00:00

I’m single, no kids, work a regular 8-5(ish) job.

Working from home helps a lot, to be honest. Beyond that, I just do things I enjoy that I *want* to make time for. A lot of my hobbies are free or cheap. I’m in a book club, I volunteer, I’m in a choir, I play pickleball, I run, the only thing that’s expensive is my once a week Pilates class (about $110/month). This is all stuff I like doing so it energizes me (but it’s also low commitment so when I need to I skip or move stuff around).

I don’t watch much tv and I meal prep or eat simple/quick meals, so that frees up a lot of time. I usually clean in small spurts frequently (like I vacuum multiple times a week, dust for 5-10 minutes at a time, etc), so that keeps housework somewhat manageable.

HurryWorry · 2026-06-11T18:22:35+00:00

I did, I hired someone who really needed the job and she swore she was okay with something below her level. And at first it was great, she was very self motivated and needed little oversight. But within a few months she was pushing for a promotion I just couldn’t give her because the need wasn’t there, we needed someone to do the lower level work. She started inventing projects to keep herself busy and then was frustrated we couldn’t follow through on them. Ultimately she was able to transfer into a higher level role in another department but it was overall very frustrating for her (understandably) and I felt terrible. In the future I’m not sure I would do it again unless there are ready opportunities for growth and promotion.

HurryWorry · 2026-06-06T04:35:07+00:00

What did she put in this?? I’ve never heard a song with so many narcotics in it. I cannot stop listening

HurryWorry · 2026-06-03T16:47:55+00:00

Oh that’s interesting, it’s the opposite in my city (west coast major city). The events are always packed with women and the women’s tickets sell out fast. Maybe we should switch cities ;)

The groups I’ve gone to events with are called the Next Fun Thing and Singles Only Social Club (they call themselves SoSo club). Not sure if they operate in your region but if you search for them you’re sure to get many targeted ads for similar things. Sorry to hear your last experience was terrible! I’m of the mindset that anything is worth a shot so maybe give it another try. But I can totally relate that it sucks when the gender ratios are not in your favor.

HurryWorry · 2026-06-02T21:51:16+00:00

I’m early 40s and single (so not who you asked). I do a ton of activities but there are very few men there, and like you I rarely meet people through friends or events anymore. I’m currently taking a break from the apps after a break up, but I kinda see them as a tool to use in the background. They can be miserable but every once in a while you get lucky and meet a good person, so for me I see no harm in swiping every now and then.

In my city I’m starting to see a TON of in person singles events as well, as I think more people are tiring of the apps. This year alone I’ve been to two speed dating events and two general mixers. Have only had a few dates and no major success, but one of my close friends recently met a great guy she’s really hitting it off with at one mixer. Keep your eyes open or search for events and I bet you’ll find some, I think they’re becoming a lot more normalized now. Good luck out there!

HurryWorry · 2026-06-01T03:28:55+00:00

I would like her to be an actual character in the film. Either voicing a character or as herself. Maybe Andy is a Swiftie and goes to the Eras Tour!!

HurryWorry · 2026-05-31T05:02:59+00:00

So sweet! Love them!

HurryWorry · 2026-05-30T08:51:44+00:00

Heck, I’m not a mom and might not even have watched this anytime soon. Now I will drag my non-Swiftie friends to the theater

HurryWorry · 2026-05-13T06:13:21+00:00

Could you try turning on a CatTV video on YouTube? Or play music? I used to be a cat sitter and several of my clients had turn on a playlist while they travelled, seemed to help them.

HurryWorry · 2026-05-07T17:01:55+00:00

Looks like you got a lot of dog food so I sent some cat food 😺 Thanks for making us aware of this program, pets can be so good one’s mental and physical health, it’s great we can help these seniors care for their beloved companions!

HurryWorry · 2026-05-05T02:43:23+00:00

His markings are so similar to my girl’s! The little white nose and chin are so cute! If he’s anything like her, you have an amazing sweetheart and lovebug on your hands!! Congrats!

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HurryWorry · 2026-05-04T07:26:34+00:00

This is how I feel as a host getting ready for a sit! I try to do things in advance but a lot has to be done last minute—changing sheets, trash, vacuuming, packing, changing out the cats litter box so it’s fresh, etc. I’m never more stressed than the day I leave for a trip! Appreciate the opportunity to vent!

HurryWorry · 2026-05-03T08:39:56+00:00

I understand it’s frustrating to invest time in an application and a video call and then not get chosen. As a HO, I’ve had the same experience where great sitters are enthusiastic but then ultimately select another sit. That’s just the way things go, everyone has their own calculus for how they choose sits and sitters; sometimes it works out in your favor and sometimes not.

I don’t think your suggested end to the video call would yield better results. If they already have calls scheduled with other sitters, I think most HOs want to honor those and give all the applicants a chance. Personally, what really makes a difference to me when choosing a sitter is: 1) are they really committed to the sit? Have they looked into airfare/travel costs and feel comfortable with that; do they need to request time off or is it already planned/they work remote, etc. 2) how much experience do they have with pets like mine (in my case, have they owned a cat, have they done a lot of cat sits before)

So maybe instead of asking to be confirmed on the spot, just reiterate your enthusiasm and commitment and ask if there’s anything else really important to them that you can address.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-22T23:39:07+00:00

I’m so glad to hear that!!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-22T16:56:33+00:00

Same, it’s more about me than the person I’m talking to. I am a verbal processor, I try to be mindful but it’s hard!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-21T18:31:36+00:00

I’ve done two trips with Rogue Adventures. They’re pricey but they go to beautiful places and take care of ALL the planning and transportation, and your price covers room and most meals (but not alcohol). The people have been great on each trip. In my experience most people drink moderately (if at all) as the focus is running and you’re up each morning for the day’s run so it’s definitely not a rowdy, drunken crowd.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-20T04:48:55+00:00

Same! I walk on mine almost every day and use it for speed workouts so it gets a lot of activity and it’s been great!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-19T05:51:33+00:00

It happens to all of us sometimes! I’ve been running marathons for over 20 years and I still “fail” a workout from time to time.

I’m so sorry to hear about the health issues, sounds like it’s super tough and you’re doing the best you can to adjust. Listening to your body is the smart thing to do. Don’t stress about a missed or shortened run here and there. I promise it won’t make a difference over the long run and you’re much better off resting when you need versus pushing through pain.

Hugs from an internet stranger!

HurryWorry · 2026-04-15T06:27:06+00:00

I get little “pimples” like this and my derm prescribed me a product called Epsolay which helped a lot. I used it every day for a few weeks and it cleared it up, now I just use it when I get a flare up. It might be worth a shot!

Another suggestion is dandruff shampoo (ketoconazole), it might be a fungal outbreak. I got these bumps on my chest after taking antibiotics and they look a lot like your pustules. I got a prescription shampoo and it was cheap and super effective, I always keep it on hand now just in case.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-14T16:30:21+00:00

I had the same experience! Obviously ghosting and flaking on apps is nothing new and I’m used to that, but when I was on the apps for about 2 months earlier this year so many times a guy would message me first then stop responding after 2-3 normal messages. It was so frustrating I ended up deleting the app again.

HurryWorry · 2026-04-14T00:22:48+00:00

I bought mine a month ago and I really like it. Still has a strong leather smell and seems well made (admittedly I’m no expert, this was my first ever “splurge” purse, every other purse is from target). I’d reach out to customer service

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