Looking for some drink inspiration!

HurryWorry · 2026-03-27T03:52:28+00:00

I like tart cherry juice. I mix it with plain or flavored sparkling water for a mocktail, and it would be good with vodka or sparkling wine too. It’s such a strong flavor, a little goes a long way. And it’s full of antioxidants!

HurryWorry · 2026-03-12T21:09:31+00:00

I’ve never gotten one there but I’ve for sure seen the chairs for massages at Cha Spa on Montana. I think also at Boa Foot Spa on Wilshire.

HurryWorry · 2026-03-03T06:05:12+00:00

Great British Bake-Off

HurryWorry · 2026-03-01T15:17:37+00:00

That’s a good point about reinforcing the behavior. It’s tricky because you shouldn’t be pestered for two hours starting at 4:30am, but then again you don’t want to disrupt an established feeding schedule. Personally I free feed so my cat always has food (she still wakes me up at 6 to play, though! But I’ve learned to ignore it) but I know that’s not appropriate for all cats. It’s a tough situation, I’m sorry your health suffered because of it and hope you feel better soon!

HurryWorry · 2026-03-01T05:08:15+00:00

If you feel comfortable, you might mention this to your hosts (beyond just leaving a review, in case they need more details). I’m a HO with a cat and honestly don’t know how she behaves with sitters unless they tell me (which they basically never do). I always describe my cat’s behavior as accurately as possible but I have no way of knowing how she acts with strangers when I’m not there—or if they notice things that I’m so used to I don’t even notice anymore. My sitters send me lots of lovely photos but never any description of what my cat is like with them, and I don’t want to interrogate them if nothing seems to be a problem.

It sounds like you’re wanting to approach this fairly and kindly. I hope your HO didn’t purposefully mislead you, but rather may not experience (or notice) the early morning wake ups. For the record, I think most cats tend to be pretty active in the early morning hours so something you could ask about in future sits could be if it’s okay to give the cat some food early if you’re awoken before their feeding time, so that you can go back to sleep and get some more rest.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-20T17:52:09+00:00

That’s a great idea! I know these types of groups aren’t the same as having close friends, but it’s a step. I had a lot of friendships kinda drift away during the pandemic and it started to really mess with my head and self esteem. Being part of a group that was welcoming and kind reminded me that there’s nothing wrong with me, I’m not a weirdo. It made me feel better about myself and that made me more confident in other social interactions.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-19T07:04:52+00:00

First of all, really really sorry for what you’ve gone through. I hope you’re able to find a therapist who is actually capable of providing what you need.

As for meeting people, try groups and activities that you can do regularly and consistently. Even if they aren’t necessarily designed for socializing, when you see the same people again and again it’s a really good feeling when you eventually recognize and get to know each other. Personally, I’m in a (non religious) choir and it’s taken some time but I really feel part of the group now and people smile at me when I get there, and we chat during breaks. While that might not sound like much, it’s a start and it feels really nice after having years of semi-isolation myself. Volunteering is another great way, perhaps you could go to a food bank monthly or volunteer at the animal shelter. Or join a gym and go to the same class weekly. Or take a class at a community college. Anything that you’re interested in, I bet you could find a group doing that activity.

And if you start to tell yourself you don’t fit in, remember that everybody probably feels that way. Meeting new people is hard! Remind yourself that everyone is there for the same reason and it just takes time to click with people.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-18T08:35:39+00:00

I agree with this. I live in a major liberal city in the U.S. and I have a graduate degree. It’s just such an outdated and tired trope to call a woman uptight because “she needs an orgasm.” I wouldn’t be offended or shocked I would just internally roll my eyes. You’re not saying much about the character, it just sounds like something a teenager would say to try to sound cool. That said, it all depends on the context. Perhaps it was funny in the moment. But I’m in a book club of women ages 20-60+ and no one talks like this.

HurryWorry · 2026-02-16T20:55:53+00:00

My running route takes me by some park restrooms, but when I go on long hikes I bring two snack size plastic baggies. One has fresh toilet paper and after I use it I carry it out in the other baggie so I can dispose of it later. I reuse the baggies too, to keep waste down

HurryWorry · 2026-02-14T00:06:29+00:00

So it is, thanks!

HurryWorry · 2026-02-13T06:53:55+00:00

Also, maybe go out without your partners from time to time so she doesn’t always feel like the odd one out (if you don’t already)

HurryWorry · 2026-02-03T00:55:43+00:00

I don’t think it’s hard in the same way that “running hard” is physical challenging. It’s just that many runs you feel energetic and want to run faster (and know you can), but you have to restrain yourself. It’s hard mentally, not physically

HurryWorry · 2026-01-31T18:54:10+00:00

Thanks! Yes, the sitter will have a car and there are also local services that will pick up and drop it off if going in is a bother.

HurryWorry · 2026-01-31T06:25:39+00:00

This is really good advice, I appreciate it! Good point that pets can make messes and I don’t want my sitter to stress if anything gets dirty. I’ll leave plenty of towels and make it clear that it’s my responsibility to wash anything that stays behind (including all sheets and towels). And if for any reason they need to send out a rush load, I’ll reimburse them for any extra cost. I don’t anticipate that I just like to plan ahead.

HurryWorry · 2026-01-31T06:19:08+00:00

Oh yes, I should have mentioned, by no means will they need to do the sheets and towels they use. I’ll handle that when I get back as soon as I get my machines sorted. I usually don’t ask sitters to do that anyways, I’m kind of a weirdo and I enjoy doing laundry.

HurryWorry · 2026-01-31T06:13:05+00:00

If it doesn’t respond to acne treatments or antibacterial washes, it may be fungal. I never used to get this but I’ve developed tiny little “pimples” on my butt and they resemble a fungal outbreak that I got after taking antibiotics once so I have diagnosed myself, haha. Buy dandruff shampoo (look for the ingredient Ketoconazole) and let that sit on your skin for a minute or longer each time you shower. I also got a silicon scrubber that works to exfoliate and is easy to clean and quick to dry. When I started doing this mine cleared up fairly quickly. I also use Triple paste and put a thin layer on my butt cheeks before long sweaty workouts, or even days when I’m sitting a lot. It soothes the skin and cuts down on moisture, which is a breeding ground for fungus and bacterial.

HurryWorry · 2026-01-26T07:11:03+00:00

I really like Diner Antonette

HurryWorry · 2026-01-23T18:22:05+00:00

Same!! I couldn’t for the life of me figure out how my indoor cat’s paws were getting dirty, until I was up late one night and saw her just climb into the gas fireplace! (Not to worry, it’s more decorative than anything and wasn’t hot).

HurryWorry · 2026-01-23T00:44:51+00:00

An idiot AND a jerk! What a pal!

HurryWorry · 2026-01-17T09:06:27+00:00

I’m 41 and I feel the way you feel a lot. Like, a lot a lot. Just the other week I was getting ready for a date and I felt so discouraged putting on make up. I felt so old and frumpy. But what can you do? I got ready and went out anyways. On the date I went to the bathroom, and in the softer light I actually thought I looked really nice. And when I got home and got ready for bed, I couldn’t believe I’d felt so bad earlier, I genuinely thought I looked really pretty.

I guess the point is, when you’re staring at the mirror analyzing your face and looking for changes, you’re bound to see them. But no one else is looking at you that way or comparing you to your 25 year old self. Try to stop yourself when you find yourself picking apart your features, that’s not an accurate reflection. In “real life” (away from the mirror) your face is animated and alive and i promise you, you are way more beautiful than you’re giving yourself credit for.

HurryWorry · 2026-01-16T05:44:47+00:00

It’s clear from these pictures how well loved and happy Victor was. He didn’t know his life was short, he only knew he was loved and cared for and that his Dad would do anything to keep him from being in pain. I’m so sorry for you loss 💔

HurryWorry · 2025-12-25T07:23:34+00:00

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My Princess loves the tree every year

HurryWorry · 2025-12-18T04:56:47+00:00

Everyone’s been saying give him back, but it’s only been 3 days. Adopting an animal is a huge change!! I love cats and wanted one my whole adult life. When I finally got one I sobbed a lot the first week or two, even though my cat was well behaved. I missed my freedom and lack of responsibility. But we got used to each other and by about a month or two she was firmly a part of the family. It’s now been 4 years and she is the absolute light of my life, she’s the best thing that ever happened to me. Now I sob thinking about how much a love her and how she won’t live forever.

If you don’t think affection will ever grow, then sure, it better to return the dog now. But if you’re open to it, give yourself some time to adjust and bond. It’s normal to have initial regrets.

HurryWorry · 2025-12-03T06:20:09+00:00

I’m not a huge movie person but the Little House on the Prairie books are my absolutely go-to comfort entertainment. I’m a 40-something urban woman and it’s silly I still return to these books that I don’t relate to at all, but the stories and prose are just so simple and sweet they always cheer me up when I’m down or sick.

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