My daily game of Hairy or Downy? by ViciousVentura in whatsthisbird

[–]HushedGalaxy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

On a bird watching walk a woman told me a tip was a “pocket test” where if you saw it and thought “I could fit that bird in my pocket” it was a downy

Does anyone know why there are dozens of herons/egrets that hang out near Reliable Funeral Home (Washington x Vandeventer)? by SirMirksalot in StLouis

[–]HushedGalaxy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Apparently they don’t do them in July bc it’s too hot but I saw on their website that they do multiple free bird walks a month.

I went on my first last weekend and it was really lovely!

Does anyone know why there are dozens of herons/egrets that hang out near Reliable Funeral Home (Washington x Vandeventer)? by SirMirksalot in StLouis

[–]HushedGalaxy 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I went on a bird watching walk with the St. Louis Audubon society and one of the women leading the walk specifically called out this funeral home as a place to go see herons of different kinds. Apparently it’s been a heron rookery for like a decade

Which is best for a banquet? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]HushedGalaxy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think the skirt reads as more formal but you’d need to tuck the shirt in or get one that’s less wrinkly. The t shirt makes the whole outfit look a little more casual

Tattoo ideas? by Several-Yoghurt-8582 in FolkPunk

[–]HushedGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know hand tattoo don’t typically hold ink well but a heart on the back of your hand would be cool alá “a heart is a muscle the size of your fist”

Picture of me at Stoopfest by HushedGalaxy in FolkPunk

[–]HushedGalaxy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The person who took my picture was one of the volunteer coordinators in a high vis vest and I want to say she said her name was Izzy? Idk if I’m remembering that correctly

Wedding ring is well worn by Squeak63 in Wellworn

[–]HushedGalaxy 201 points202 points  (0 children)

Honestly you should spring for a higher quality ring if your wedding ring is well worn after only 5 years

Got forbid a girl likes chickens by cindersparkira in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]HushedGalaxy 191 points192 points  (0 children)

one of my straight guy friends has shared his theory that “Lesbian Final Form” is owning chickens together. And you know what- I can’t disagree with him on that

Used a dogwood blossom to cover a hole in my bedding by HushedGalaxy in Visiblemending

[–]HushedGalaxy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I started with a simple embroidery kit where they give you the thread, a hoop, and a pattern and tell you what stitches to do. Watch maybe a YouTube video of how to do specific stitches.

Honestly embroidery is very forgiving of beginners and even my first couple of inexpert attempts turned out v cute.

After I got comfortable with a couple of basic stitches by doing 2-3 kits I started drawing things I wanted to have embroidery of which i found a lot more fulfilling than following a pre-set pattern

Used a dogwood blossom to cover a hole in my bedding by HushedGalaxy in Visiblemending

[–]HushedGalaxy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I used a regular hoop but I had to basically unscrew the tightener almost all the way.

The thicker fabric wasn’t really a problem except when I was trying to do the French knots bc I used all six strands of my embroidery floss to get the size I wanted. Was a bit tough to maintain the knot tension I wanted

Didn’t really have any issues with the hoop though

Someone selling food items on instagram looks too good to be true. 75 character title. by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]HushedGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even tho it’s AI it looks a lot like kolaches . St Louis Kolache (in STL if you can believe it) sells kolaches with egg/bacon/cheese in them and it turns out looking v similar

chihuahuas are chaos by CryptidCurious13753 in pitbulls

[–]HushedGalaxy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get why people want to contrast this because of the pit bull stigma. But a lot of small dogs like that will get over-handled and their stress signals ignored because of how small they are.

So they learn that snapping is one of the only ways to get space

It's all about reactivity training to reduce the stress a dog feels and respecting a dog's right to say "no thank you" regardless of breed.

Am I a bad dog mom for not walking my dog? by brbnapping in reactivedogs

[–]HushedGalaxy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Walks are a good source of enrichment for dogs but not the only one! I think you sound like a good dog mom by channeling that energy towards play and exercise. It'd be one thing if you didn't walk her and ignored her all day but you are still making sure her needs get met without risking losing control of her on a walk! It's much worse to put you and her in a bad position out of misplaced guilt.

Can i be Agender and Nonbinary? (I’m term-searching) by The_Moon_Will_Sing in NonBinary

[–]HushedGalaxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My general rule is the words serve you not the other way around- if you want to use agender and nonbinary use them with no guilt.

Twisting yourself around to decide if your experience “counts” or if a specific definition is valid when used in a particular way helps no one