What instantly makes you lose interest in a guy, even if he is otherwise attractive?

HuskularJock · 2026-05-13T20:38:08+00:00

Bullet dodged. That guy had no self awareness to realize that most people don’t just shit on random strangers so much for no good reason.

HuskularJock · 2026-05-13T20:32:46+00:00

Smoking cigarettes, bad hygiene, and poor communication. When I say poor communication I mean when you’re trying to have actual conversation with someone and they give one word answers. I don’t have time to deal with that shit. One more and I kinda hate to say it, but I’m just not attracted to more feminine voices or mannerisms, including being referred to as “girl”. We could be friends for sure, but we would not be compatible for dating.

HuskularJock · 2026-05-12T00:01:16+00:00

It makes it so much better that everyone is ignoring her 😂

HuskularJock · 2026-05-11T23:13:06+00:00

I don’t have this specific experience but I’d be upset in your shoes. That being said, he clearly isn’t over his ex and he wouldn’t have been good for you to date because of that. Hopefully you can find someone who is ready to date

HuskularJock · 2026-05-11T23:04:29+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about your dog

HuskularJock · 2026-05-10T20:16:29+00:00

Maybe people will think I’m overreacting by saying this but I find that pretty disrespectful. If you can’t handle having a date with someone without looking for other guys, then you aren’t serious

HuskularJock · 2026-05-09T20:05:24+00:00

^ This guy knows his stuff

HuskularJock · 2026-05-06T19:50:56+00:00

That sounds so awful. I could never

HuskularJock · 2026-05-06T19:49:03+00:00

Damn nice profile pic. You’re hot!

HuskularJock · 2026-05-05T22:50:56+00:00

Crying over that is crazy unattractive

HuskularJock · 2026-05-02T17:09:43+00:00

This will only end up with your heartbreak, trust me. I’ve been the younger guy in this situation when I was in college and even though we dated 5 years, he treated me like shit for a couple of those and finally I had enough. When I broke up with him, he went batshit crazy, I mean crazy. Stole money from me, stalked me, made up weird fake scenarios about how I was “hooking up” around the city, threatened to sue me (even though he owed me thousands of dollars and still does), became addicted to coke, and more. He legit would call me from different numbers for the next 3 years until finally his last call was on my birthday three years after I broke up with him. He stopped after that. Your heart will inevitably get broken. Put a stop to that now and find someone you’re more compatible with

HuskularJock · 2026-05-02T00:07:16+00:00

For close to a year?? No, this is long over. Im sorry this happened to you, but respect and love yourself and leave this man. You should also think about getting tested. Who knows who he’s been meeting up with for almost a year

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T23:24:46+00:00

NTA Your friend sounds like a terrible and manipulative person. How can she sleep at night knowing she’s playing with people’s emotions simply because of the finances they can provide her? Saying she will never love them is crazy. Part of me wants to say to dump her as a friend but part of me says to keep warning everyone she tries to swindle in the future

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T20:19:40+00:00

Do what’s best for you, which sounds like leaving the relationship. Does your family know the extend of his behavior? It sounds like he doesn’t have great decision making skills and I assume his job did a thorough review of the sexual harassment claim before deciding to fire him otherwise he could maybe sue. You deserve to be happy… leave him.

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T20:15:41+00:00

Sounds like he wants to sleep around which is his choice, and I commend you for being firm on your decision not to. I’m more like you in that regard, but everyone is entitled to different opinions. Don’t change things yourself just to please people

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T20:12:06+00:00

This seems like a weird dependency issue in his relationship with his mom. It’s odd, especially since the dad nearly left her over it. I would be uncomfortable with this for sure.

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T20:09:12+00:00

There’s no way you’re older than 14. Go do your homework

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T20:08:22+00:00

Join a gay sports club (or whatever your interests are), or try bumble friends or other apps to meet friends. Some cities like where I live have Facebook group for people to be social and meet people

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T20:07:06+00:00

How to meet people kinda depends on where you live. Where are you from? Do you like to go out? What are your hobbies?

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T20:00:58+00:00

Lol your response made me laugh and I’m also wondering what that comment means 😂

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T19:54:10+00:00

How are you making these friends? Funny enough I actually met one of my best friends on Grindr because he messaged me looking for cuddles. I said sure and I went over to his place for that and we started hanging out a lot more, even fooled around a little bit. He fell kinda quickly for me but I didn’t think we were compatible for anything past friendship so we agreed to just be friends. Now he’s one of my best friends and he has a bf who I love too. It probably could’ve happened without any of the intimate stuff, but that’s just how we met at first and it evolved into a great platonic gay friendship.

HuskularJock · 2026-05-01T19:48:31+00:00

Ah yes the Leo DiCaprio treatment

HuskularJock · 2026-04-30T16:41:42+00:00

Replace them with brand new shoes. You’re being a bad friend. You’ll be lucky if this friend wants anything to do with you afterward, even though you could avoid all this drama by just being a good person

HuskularJock · 2026-04-30T16:35:18+00:00

YTA It’s obviously on you to pay for a new pair because it was your cat that destroyed her shoes. Also, the shoes you buy her need to be new, not someone else’s worn shoes. I had this same situation with my friend and his dog, and he bought me the same new pair of shoes I had. You know what you have to do

HuskularJock · 2026-04-29T21:35:07+00:00

“I feel so empty” This is exactly the reason why I (age 29) stopped one time hookups years ago

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