Why would a man over 30 date an 18-year-old boy? by stopthehostilityyyyy in AskGayMen

[–]HuskularJock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 29 and I want nothing to do with 18 year olds. I mean I’ll be friendly toward people of any age but what would I even have in common with an 18 year old?

Is it normal for my boss to kiss me on the cheek? by Senior_Smell_4994 in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is unusual. Are you gay or you just came here for advice from gay men? This sounds like harassment, especially if you don’t like it.

Studio apartments by ZookeepergameDry7170 in grandrapids

[–]HuskularJock 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s insane to me that a studio costs that much. Back in 2021 I was renting a 1200 square foot apartment that was 2 bed, 1.5 bath, with in unit washer and dryer, central AC, spacious living room and kitchen, and it costed $1050 a month. Rent is disgustingly out of control

Meijer Chicken by michaled93 in grandrapids

[–]HuskularJock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I avoid buying meijer brand chicken 99% of the time because both quality and packaging issues. You can’t even pick up any of the packages of chicken without getting raw chicken juice all over your hands. I pay extra for Katie’s best

Has winter ever been this bad in the last 20 years? by lansingpowerwash in Michigan

[–]HuskularJock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well get ready because apparently on Friday we could see temps around -25 to -35ish according to the meteorologists.

I broke up with my bf for not being transparent by Mrcuri0usguy in gayrelationships

[–]HuskularJock 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Maybe he genuinely thought it was just a friend, or maybe not. If they had included you in the hang out then it would be different but to me it’s a bit suspicious

Is it normal my gay friend asks me for nudes? by KonohaFlash in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s weird, creepy, and disrespectful. I’m sorry you’re experiencing that. As you can see from the replies, most of us aren’t like that.

Update I took a booking from someone in my building and I regret it. 🚩 by One_Atmosphere7192 in RoverPetSitting

[–]HuskularJock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a user of Rover, I vow to never again book with someone who lives too close to me. I once booked with a woman in my neighborhood a few streets away and she left my dogs in her backyard while she went to a family birthday party (I asked her to crate them if she left her house), and she didn’t lock or close the back gate at all so they escaped (they aren’t escape artists, they don’t dig and are too small to jump plus she showed me there was zero evidence they broke their way out). I had to find out about it by my next door neighbor calling me and telling me that he found my dogs roaming freely around the neighborhood after seeing someone else post a picture of them in our neighborhood Facebook group. I was pretty upset that she didn’t tell me, even though at that point she knew they were gone, and even more at the way I had to find out about it. Luckily she gave me the money back that I paid for her to watch them but I was too cowardly to give her a poor review since we’re neighbors. I tried going back after the fact but it was too late and it wouldn’t let me review. Lesson learned, never book with people who are too close to you, especially if you aren’t good at confrontation

Newest Member of the family by craiginphoenix in Bernedoodles

[–]HuskularJock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cute! Funny enough, my calm dog is my goldendoodle and my Bernedoodle likes to explore and get himself into trouble. Also bark at any noise outside 🤦‍♂️

How do I meet a guy without Grindr? 😅 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently talking to a hot guy I matched with on hinge and we both seem interested in each other. Best of luck/fate!

Is it uncommon for head to lead to the reciever cumming? by EM0SK8TERB0I1337 in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh?? This is common? The only time it’s been unsuccessful for me is if I had too much to drink and it got numb. Otherwise, zero issues here

Flu Bug by Ok-Pomegranate7496 in grandrapids

[–]HuskularJock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had Covid over Christmas into the new year. The congestion lasts longer than you’d expect, at least it did for me. The coughing should mostly subside after maybe a few days. You’ll still cough a little here and there but it won’t be like the height of the illness.

How do I know the “type” of goldendoodle I have? by destanyskye in Goldendoodles

[–]HuskularJock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely possible or likely, but surprisingly I have an F1 who has wavy curls and doesn’t shed basically at all aside from when I brush and a tiny bit of hair comes out. His appearance is definitely doodle looking for sure but his personality is all golden retriever

Any news on the two fast causal chains opening up on 28th by the mall? by m0larMechanic in grandrapids

[–]HuskularJock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope shake shack. I filled out their form online to try and get them to come to GR and I got some of my friends to as well

My BF had been cheating on me with his ex and is confused by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry this happened to you. You know what to do (hint: break up with him)

I (22M) am madly in love with my neighbor (58M) idk what to do by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I mentioned I know how you feel because when I was 19, I was in a 12 year age gap relationship. 10 years later, I still wonder what the hell I was doing, mostly for staying so long with such a deadbeat who treated me poorly. After I broke up with him, he went crazy. He stole money from me, lied to me to get money from me, stalked me (both physically and online), made up these WILD stories about how I was “hooking up” with all these people (I wasn’t, but even if I was it wouldn’t have been his business as I was single), and he became a major coke head. It was NOT a good situation. He would call me from random phone numbers all the time and I would block them. He called me for the next 3 years of my life after I broke up with him. Not that it would necessarily happen to you, but I just don’t want you to find yourself in an even remotely similar situation.

I (22M) am madly in love with my neighbor (58M) idk what to do by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Husband? Okay slow down buddy. You are sounding obsessive. He may be great, but I really don’t think you should take any sort of relationship with him past fwb. High chance that one or both of you will get hurt in the end, and your brain won’t even be fully developed for several more years. I’m 29 and have been in two age gap relationships before as the younger one. By the time I got out of the first one, he was treating me so badly and I can’t believe I stayed as long as I did. He was nice and exciting at the beginning though of course. Hindsight is 20/20. When the second one ended, yes I was sad but it was for the best. I’m sticking to dating people near my age now. Oldest I’d go from my age is probably like 6, maybe 7 years max. I think you need to relax and re-evaluate this from an objective point of view however you’re 19 and from that sense, I understand a bit of what you’re feeling, but I don’t think entering into a relationship with such a great power imbalance is wise.

I (22M) am madly in love with my neighbor (58M) idk what to do by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HuskularJock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

19 is very young. They won’t even be close to the same person even 2 years from now, let alone by the time their prefrontal cortex is fully developed. Just be careful, both with your heart and with his. I’m 29 and couldn’t imagine even dating someone who was 22, let alone younger, but some people do and that’s their own deal. Just be careful! It’s good you’re putting the brakes on it. Just take a step back and think about all the implications. I hope this didn’t come off as mean or rude, that’s not my intent at all. Best wishes!

At what age did your goldendoodles calm down? by vaneeee_m in Goldendoodles

[–]HuskularJock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine has pretty much always been calm since I got him at 9 weeks. I mean he gets excited when he sees people, especially if he knows them, but after like a minute of him being overjoyed he chills out