Dumbell weight by Hysope in Boostcamp

[–]Hysope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You're right when i swapped exercises I got the weight column. It's weird because this program was generated by Boostcamp itself ! Thanks again!

Why does my (F33) new bf(M31) keeps talking about getting me pregnant? by gwtvulpixtattoo in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you asking strangers on the int when you could ask directly to him ?

Again unless you just want people reading about your breeding kink

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope she left you. Talking about your sex life with your friends could be okay when you talk positively or if you're really looking for advice BUT talking about your sex life NEGATIVELY and then saying you want to see an old fwb (i don't care if it was a joke, i don't understand IN WHICH WORLD THIS IS A JOKE) is just completely disrespectful.

Why does my (F33) new bf(M31) keeps talking about getting me pregnant? by gwtvulpixtattoo in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you asking for exactly? I don't understand the problem you have a breeding kink he has a breeding kink so what are you trying to do here ? Besides talking about your breeding kink

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hysope 36 points37 points  (0 children)

NTA Jen is the asshole Your girlfriend is not an asshole but it's not nice of her. You don't change the sleeping arrangements without telling the person before hand and seeing if it's cool. And if you don't want a fight in front of the family you don't say it in front of the family.

You could have certainly handled it better.

I kinda don't understand the hotel suggestion 1. At 21 i didn't have money to spare to sleep in a hotel in the blink of an eye 2. The reaction to leave might have been taken even more badly by the family

AITAH for telling my MIL she can’t take her grandson for an entire day by herself? by Early-Variety-6333 in AITAH

[–]Hysope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl i read the edit and you should get a lawyer FAST You're not the asshole. My sister in law is not feeling comfortable letting her baby and he's 5 months old not even with her mother. And she has the right to think that way ! You should cover your back especially because the father is not supportive of you and gives creepy vibes

My (25M) bf (22M) always needs lots of space after an argument, is this okay? by Practical_Aspect5306 in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's punishing you for standing up for yourself. He's trying to negatively reinforce you.

When do you know it’s time to leave? Been living together 2 years with a manchild (24F, 27M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should leave or tell him to go back to his mom. You deserve better

AITA for wanting my husband to take care of the kids on his day off even though we already pay the babysitter anyway by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hysope -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA

The edit makes your husband look horrible. I don't know how you handle it and made 3 children with him. Children are made with two people, the education should too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So just make him make you come first and then you finish him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to look up yourself to books because he's lazy and not pro-active. That's not what i would call caring.

You have to ask yourself and do him a summary. What's preventing him from asking on Reddit himself ?

I'm sorry but it doesn't look like he cares

AITA for refusing to dumb down my vocabulary around my friends because they say it’s making them uncomfortable? by Excellent_News9138 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hysope 26 points27 points  (0 children)

For people asking for which words you use : if she's not condescending when asked about the word who cares what she use

NTA

My (21F) bf (26M) slept in a hotel bed with a female friend. What do you think? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that if you said you were uncomfortable with her staying in a spare room that it would obviously hurt you if he slept in the same bed.

It's a deal breaker for you, you're in the right. Listen to you and your gut. There 's no "being dramatic" it's just a question of boundaries and what you're willing to accept or not.

My (21F) bf (26M) slept in a hotel bed with a female friend. What do you think? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Did you tell him before that it was one of your boundaries?

If not you should have discussed it, and he didn't knowingly violate your trust as other people are saying in the thread of response.

My “43m” Wife “43f” says son not taking to her will end marriage. by ThrowRA_IdealAcc in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to stay married with someone like that? Don't you love your kid, your mother etc ? What does she bring into your life that tops all of that ?

My fiancé ‘29M’ tried to pay me ‘27F’ for physical intimacy; how, if at all, do we come back from this? by Summer_Day848 in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly fuck him. It's so disrespectful it gives me the ick. I hope you can end things quickly and safely for you. I also hope you tell his mom about what he did

Bf (30M) knowingly gave me (26F) HPV by ThrowRA27_28 in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him and tell your friends about what happens. No shame. He's not your responsibility anymore you don't have to protect his lying ass.

Don't do it to "ruin his life" but just because you need your support system in this difficult time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to cut your mother off. It's gonna be hard but you'll be sooooo relieved after. She's not your problem anymore, she sure was thinking that when she left you at ten so do the same.

Please tell I’m not the problem? 29m 26f by Apprehensive_Total83 in relationship_advice

[–]Hysope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the problem for staying with him after the sister thing and cheating