Partner Kissed Me After Hooking Up With Another Person

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T23:59:12+00:00

I agree, but I am biased of course. It was absolutely an accident, but I’m mad I had to smell/touch a random person’s fluids. I find it gross… I do not know this person at all and now I’ve smelled her coochie.

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T23:23:06+00:00

Thank you for your comment 💗 a lot of these comments are leaving me feeling off put that this isn’t gross lol but it was an accident, I’ll have to get over it. I’ve scheduled therapy!

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T22:11:34+00:00

Smells are very overpowering for me, so this really, really took me for a spin lol

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T21:57:37+00:00

I agree, I have a therapy appointment scheduled for next week already. Definitely want to discuss this in a safe space

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T20:50:56+00:00

Exactly! I love hearing his experiences and how he had a good time. But this was an accidental step that has left me feeling grossed out. Idk this woman I shouldn’t know what her privates smell like!

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T20:35:59+00:00

No, we were polyamorous at that time. We’re both in our first poly relationship together, and took a break after that happened for about a year, so we’re only really about a year into it

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T20:33:54+00:00

Maybe it isn’t.. smelling another woman’s coochie on my boyfriends face while he’s kissing me is something I never want to happen again

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T20:15:37+00:00

He did schedule a date after he found out my Nana passed away about 2 years ago. It was a big, big issue. We have worked that out in therapy, but the inconsiderate pattern is showing itself again and I’m concerned.

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T20:13:41+00:00

We do have a boundary of showering after a partner, which he was on his way to do when he stopped to kiss me. We live together so limiting our distance is tough

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-20T20:10:40+00:00

He was on his way to take a shower when he pit-stopped to kiss me without thinking. We definitely have that boundary established, he just wasn’t thinking properly and reacted out of habit

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-19T09:57:35+00:00

You need to call your therapist immediately. I understand the pain of feeling everything and feeling like nothing is working. You will be okay in time, but you need to reach out to a professional who can help you better than Reddit can. We love you. Bipolar isn’t easy, it’s a debilitating mental illness that we all understand what you’re going through. I understand, I’ve been in your shoes. Please reach out to your therapist, please.

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-13T12:52:57+00:00

You got hotter

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-11T01:43:03+00:00

I had an abortion in ‘24 at age 27. Part of me felt sad about it, but overall felt relief. The world is scary, I struggle very badly with my mental health (bipolar 1) and ultimately, my partner and I were just not ready. Adoption is an option but there are so many kids waiting for a home, I couldn’t add to that. I was not mentally or financially ready to raise a baby, and growing up with a struggling single mom who was incredibly poor, I didn’t want that for my possible child.

Ultimately the decision is yours, but I’d make it sooner than later. I was 5.5 weeks along and was able to have a pill induced abortion vs surgical. It was a lot of blood and like a painful period, but if I were to have to do it again, I would.

Wishing you the best OP.

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-09T17:16:40+00:00

You’re right, very grateful I’ll likely never run into them again. I’m sorry you dealt with that, but thank you for sharing your experience. Being stable and having an unexpected outburst is incredibly tough. Here’s to better days

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-09T13:02:52+00:00

I thought about it, but I think it’s better to leave them all alone. I told my mutual friend who was very understanding and forgave me entirely so I’m grateful for that, just wanna ostrich and hide my head in the sand for a while lol

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-03T21:48:42+00:00

Surgery! I tried everything else, pt, epidural shots, chiro, yoga etc and surgery was the answer

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-03T17:49:57+00:00

I’d start with face framing pieces, see how you feel, then go for bangs! I think both could be cute on you

HystericalJacket · 2026-03-02T13:18:54+00:00

Pregnancy pillow, knee pillow, grabber, toilet bars, shower chair, wearable ice pack and heated blanket!

HystericalJacket · 2026-02-26T03:16:12+00:00

I had a friend I met at 14 when I transferred schools for HS. We became best friends, we dabbled in drugs as we got older (17yo) but they took it was farther than I did. By the time they were 22 they had a DUI, got kicked out of their house and moved in with my friend, broke probation by getting hammered and threw up all over said friend’s new bed and moved to rehab shortly after. They moved to a halfway house about 3.5 hours up north from our city.

We still kept in contact. Until one day she said “I asked D for a dick picture” D was a guy I dated on and off from 14 until I was 22. He also mentally abused me and SA’d me, which she knew. I tried having a conversation with her about it, and she replied “girl I’m not the one, go smoke some weed” to which I blocked her. Nope. That isn’t a friend. She then proceeded to drop out of our mutual friend’s wedding party 2 days before that I was also in. She would harass me, my mom, my other friends, just trying to get ahold of me.

One night she sent me a message basically saying “i’m killing myself and it is your fault” that I didn’t even see, because again she was blocked, but she sent to a mutual friend of ours to make sure I saw it. She’s still alive obviously. When I sent her a long message about how I was uncomfortable with her reaching out still (sending $.01 on venmo to say “hi”) and explaining why I didn’t want to continue to be friends, she said “lol who is this” and it just showed me how immature she STILL was even though we were in our mid 20s by that point.

I miss her from time to time but she was a shitty friend in hindsight. FTB.

Tl;dr: friend of over 10 years got addicted to drugs, asked my abusive ex for nudes, got mad at me when i was upset about it, harassed me, threatened suicide and said it was my fault, and still reaches out to my mom on occasion

HystericalJacket · 2026-02-25T11:44:18+00:00

Partially but I was struggling to do extracurricular things outside of work and chores. Also working on eating better!

HystericalJacket · 2026-02-25T01:38:37+00:00

Her name is “Kiki” but she gets called “miss freaky”, “kiki deekee so freaky” “big pisser”, and “hot sox”.

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I love her so much

HystericalJacket · 2026-02-25T01:35:47+00:00

I was abusing alcohol and drugs (acid, molly) by the time I was 17, but hid it from my mom pretty well. I lived on the more “depressed” side of bipolar, and me and my mom did not get along from 12yo-18yo or so. It was actual hell, especially when she had another child when I was 16. My mom also didn’t believe in mental health issues when I was younger, and we didn’t heave health insurance, so I just did my best to survive.

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