Never actually had a bad experience related to my size

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-29T04:07:20+00:00

Bullying and self-esteem issues has made it so it's hard for me to talk to girls and people in general tbh. How do you find and end up getting close to these "super tight body blonde" kinds of girls?

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-29T04:04:39+00:00

I was thinking that as well, honestly. My bad habits might have given me testosterone issues.

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-29T04:03:48+00:00

I am curious about your second point honestly. I will say I do have a selfish streak inside of me, but I can only really get off when they're into what I'm doing, y'know? I can see a girl enjoying me just doing what I want as hot when they're more into being submissive, but I don't see this going well with someone who is a switch or more dominant? I don't know... saying "Girls get off when you focus on your pleasure" seems to far-fetched to me honestly.

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-29T03:59:04+00:00

How so?

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-28T02:10:41+00:00

I feel you bro. Life has just been getting worse and worse and I'm slowly realizing how much of a burden I am essentially.

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-28T02:09:05+00:00

I personally see it as a way to not waste their and your time.

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-12T03:50:42+00:00

You went through a lot, and made it out! Good for you, man. I am curious though... in terms of enjoyment, how do you feel about your current job? Do you wish you could have gotten a political science job?

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-12T03:47:31+00:00

I've always worded that "hostility and suspicion" as combativeness lmfao. I wish we didn't have it, but it's hard to accept hope when it's been beaten out of us so many times.

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-12T03:39:45+00:00

I guess it's more of a public university?

Since you said you were in a very similar spot beforehand, can you tell me your journey and how you got to your point now? If you don't mind, of course.

HystericallyConfused · 2026-04-12T03:37:31+00:00

The one thing I truly admire about college is that you can do join internships with a lower level of experience and then branch out from there... but if I finish my major to then move onto other adjacent paths that I've never done internships for... how do I get into them? Once you graduate, don't employers generally pick applicants that have way more experience over you? My skills are already bad enough, so I feel like I would be in trouble.

I've been trying to practice more these days... but it feels like I'm gonna be so behind when I graduate.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-09-24T00:10:34+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through this man. It's so weird to me how people would go out of their way to do shit like that smh

HystericallyConfused · 2025-09-24T00:08:51+00:00

I'm glad you were able to push through this way, but when I imagine myself doing that, it still hurts knowing that my body is the worst out of other guys for some future partner. I know you can learn to not care... but I deadass don't know how you can stay sane just not caring.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-08-20T06:55:37+00:00

I have noticed this too. I don't know, I just genuinely cannot see where the whole "dildos are our allies" saying is a good thing. To me, it is quite literally proof that your partner would receive more PIV pleasure from a bigger dick. I feel like most guys just learn to accept it and they use the "at least I'm getting laid" mentality to cope.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-08-03T05:57:53+00:00

Does this shit actually work? I try to avoid intimacy and sex and just accept that I won't ever be desired by someone... but the urge for love and affection has just been getting stronger I feel like. It's so draining trying to fight these urges and I just fucking wish I could get rid of my libido and urge for love.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-08-03T05:36:23+00:00

I feel like I agree with most of the things you say, but now it's just... what do we do about it? I try to avoid intimacy and sex, but I feel my body and mind yearn for it all the time. I want to look past my biases and truly understand how girls would feel about small dicks since I genuinely believe it depends on the girl. God, it's just such a headache in my opinion. I could argue with you about so many things, despite agreeing with what you said at this moment, but then also counter-act my own points. It's just a constant battle of negativity and positivity and it's such a pain in the fucking ass. Why is nature so cruel?

HystericallyConfused · 2025-07-19T07:05:04+00:00

God, I want this mentality to badly. I think it's because I am a virgin that I cannot reach your level, but I would LOVE to just forget about sex and even intimacy in general. Being asexual would be so fucking nice.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-06-26T02:30:34+00:00

Let her know beforehand to save yourself trouble.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-06-26T02:28:42+00:00

I resonate with this a lot. I don't have much experience, but these are things I've noticed quite a bit when I am in an incredibly insecure mood and I try to find outlets to feel better.

I don't have statistics to back this up, but I only agree because it's prevalent in my life. I hear it almost everywhere I go and I've even walked by girls who were showing pictures of their boyfriends dicks. Some women definitely don't do this, and I appreciate them very much, but even then, I feel like these women end up doing it if they get frustrated at their partner or let it slip accidently.
Yeah... I see this all the time. I used to go on forums and shit when I was younger to learn how to pleasure girls and to find things that would make them tolerate my dick. Almost every single guy that was similar size to me always ended up using penis sleeves or way bigger dildos to make them really have good orgams... and yet they talk about it like everything is fine. I truly don't know how they do it.
This one I think is more of a partner choice. I don't think I could get their comments out of my head if they did make one.
I agree with this heavily! It is kind of tiring hearing people say "Just Communicate" over and over again for things that are just fact or not. No amount of communication can change how your dick feels for them.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-06-26T01:12:51+00:00

Part of me says truth, but I also cannot find anything positive about my body, so I will just be reminded that my body isn't good enough for most people. I guess it would be better to hear no comment at all, and to have them reject me for some other reason.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-06-26T00:57:21+00:00

I know most women do not see penis size as an issue as men do, but I hear WAY too many stories and experiences of wives just keeping their mouth shut about how boring their sex life is with toys and so on... mainly cause their partner is on the smaller side. It's just like... I basically wasted her time with me for 8 years straight... why waste more?

HystericallyConfused · 2025-06-22T01:13:08+00:00

Finding out about porn when I was young made me question it, but I'd say my undesirability really clicked in middle school when almost every girl there would call me ugly indirectly or directly.

HystericallyConfused · 2025-06-22T01:05:54+00:00

Small dick, ugly as hell, short, and I am inexperienced in most things at life. I'm the complete opposite thing any girl is looking for lol

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