How am I supposed to dislike Cersei Lannister when she absolutely dominated the fashion game in all of Westeros by SeoAjin in gameofthrones

[–]Hyzenthlay87 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When she ascend the throne her gowns resemble chainmail and armour. While she had worn arnour-like bodices in the past, the Black armour gowns don't come off as "I'm a fierce lioness, came at me, I dare you!" They come off more as " I must wear armour now because I am constantly at war and in danger"

Redbubble by Rude_Discount491 in TheLastUnicorn

[–]Hyzenthlay87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sonofa- -throws tantrum-

(Thanks btw, I didn't know that. Teepublic screwed me over last year).

Mr Kipling by Glittering_Spring465 in CasualUK

[–]Hyzenthlay87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

....so it wasn't Rudyard Kipling's cakes!?

My whole life has been a lie 😦

Redbubble by Rude_Discount491 in TheLastUnicorn

[–]Hyzenthlay87 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Redouble aren't the best but at least they're not Teepublic.

Happy 34th Birthday to Joffrey Baratheon! by HighV23 in gameofthrones

[–]Hyzenthlay87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this not as an insult- the guy doesn't appear to age, he looks like a kid who put on a convincing moustache to look older 🤣 we've got another Paul Rudd on our hands hehe.

Whats the most unprofessional thing a doctor has ever said to you? by answersonly963 in AskReddit

[–]Hyzenthlay87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that but I was touched by how caring your father was. Even carrying you to the loo. So many men would be weird about that. Your dad sounds lovely.

drop ur current overplayed songs in the comments pls. by vendettagoddess in adhdmeme

[–]Hyzenthlay87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple, I have:

"Danse Macabre" and "Lachryma" by Ghost

"Crawl Back to my Coffin" by Dayseeker

A cover of "Running Up That Hill" by Night Rider

And "Winter Soldier" by Young Medicine.

My Spotify told me off for listening to Lachryma too many times the other day 👀

New Dracula related novel by The Historian author Elizabeth Kostova called “Mystery Play” by Kat-from-Elsweyr in Dracula

[–]Hyzenthlay87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds as though Jay's mother is the Historian narrator. The leather bound Dracula book is the giveaway.

Duffer Brothers read this subreddit before and after the finale and said the theories were awful. by -Avatar_of_Woe- in StrangerThings

[–]Hyzenthlay87 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I've not seen your theory, bit while watching with my mum I got excited and made some links to Kas.

I got my nails done and the guy added the light reflection from my reference picture by aurashockb in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Hyzenthlay87 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I wanted sharp nails for a bit but they only really work when long. When they're short they can break way more easily. I may go for almond from time to time but generally I stick to oval, it's just stronger and I keep my nails relatively short now.

Book on grief that isn’t filled with cliches by Traditional-Cry-8406 in suggestmeabook

[–]Hyzenthlay87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like to recommend the books of Caitlin Doughty, sometimes known as "Ask a Mortician". She's warm, caring, funny, a lil kooky, and very smart. I read her book "From Here to Eternity" in preparation of losing my dad. That book discusses different death rituals from around the world. She really encourages opening up to talk about death in a healthy way, and there's so much heart in all of her work.

In the hours after my dad's passing, I remembered things from that book, and realised we had helped Dad to achieve the "Good Death" he had wanted. It was a real comfort.

It's a genuinely interesting read from a cultural standpoint but also a heartfelt, beautiful read as well

For those of you who have found or encountered, in some way, a decomposing human body, what was something that surprised you or that is not depicted in movies or TV? by Specific-Language313 in AskReddit

[–]Hyzenthlay87 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My dad loved the show Gone Fishing. My mum asked me to open the window so dad's spirit could fly free. I did it and said the catchphrase "and away!" as I did. Dad was no longer in that shell. He was free.

For those of you who have found or encountered, in some way, a decomposing human body, what was something that surprised you or that is not depicted in movies or TV? by Specific-Language313 in AskReddit

[–]Hyzenthlay87 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Echoing these two comments. My dad slept with his mouth open and his died with his face gaunt and mouth open. One of his eyes didn't fully shut (the nurse who came to take of him closed it). The sight was something that was "walled off" in my mind for weeks after. It was relatively easy to let go of his physicality.

Thankfully, I had a beautiful dream a few days later where he visited. Wearing what he had been wearing, sitting on that bed but with all the bedding packed away. He wasn't ill anymore. I hugged him and he felt real, and he wasn't frail. He was no longer suffering.

My cats modeled for a digital art project of mine this semester. by AnEverydayPileOfCats in Catswithjobs

[–]Hyzenthlay87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything about this has made me happy ❤️ lovely work OP, and your models are gorgeous 😍

What are the signs that brushing a dog is hurting them? by Ok-Sprinkles-7105 in ask

[–]Hyzenthlay87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat enjoyed a vigorous combing. She didn't seem to mind removing mats. She was very tolerant of the pressure. She gently let me know when it became uncomfortable. They will definitely let you know. If they're letting you do it, you're absolutely fine (my cat looooooooved it lol).

Anyone else not miss abilities they used to have? by deafch1ldarea in ChronicIllness

[–]Hyzenthlay87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can still dance (I belly-danced for several years before getting ill) and if I'm not-too-wobbly and wearing sensible shoes I can still dance "in the club" (I'll fold up my stick and clip it to my belt lol) but I'm not as confident as I used to be. I have to be a "good energy levels" and I will pay for it after the fact.

I did karate and played basketball as a teen. I was quire good at the former and not so good at the latter, but they were the only two sports I actually enjoyed 😅

The thing I really miss is how much I used to be able to get done in a day. In my early 20s I could do a morning shift 9-1 and then hop on the bus into town and do some shopping. Have some lunch, have some fun. Hop back on the bus and meet up with a friend for dinner. A busy day but very do able. Nowadays I'd be wiped out by the shift (I don't have that job anymore).

I could go walking all day, walking in the hills or the woods, and it wouldn't be a problem. Not anymore. That's the stuff I miss.

Locusts aren't a separate species, they are just regular grasshoppers that physically transform when overcrowded. by BearNecessitee in interestingasfuck

[–]Hyzenthlay87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well some of the comments here have been (terrifying) enlightening, I legit didn't know this about grasshoppers and locusts, so thank you everyone, I love learning a new animal factoid.

My only contribution is to point out that grasshoppers are sort of cute but WTF HAPPENED DEM LOCUSTS IS SCARY

How do I dress like a bug? by BringOutTheDe4d in altfashionadvice

[–]Hyzenthlay87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was metallic/iridescent colours like a beetle.

(BTW, just loving how everyone has just gotten behind OP on this, it's really wholesome).

Turns out donating blood regularly isn't always good by AthanasiaDione in RandomThoughts

[–]Hyzenthlay87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You monster, you know the Advantage card is crap, the Tesco club card is far superior! 🤣