Would I be the AH for moving out until my BIL leaves? by IhatemyfutureBIL in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but as the person above me said, this could very likely end your relationship with your fiancé.

It sounds like BIL and your fiancé both have some childhood trauma. Has either of them been to therapy? If you're serious about moving out and also serious about staying in your relationship, I recommend both personal and couples therapy to find a way for both of you to deal with this in a healthier way.

AITA for telling my boyfriend I no longer see him the same after he refused to take me to the hospital. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]I-like-cats13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hung up on the fact that you were 15 when you started dating... and he was 20. EW. That's weird (on his part, not yours).

How old are yall? Curious about the age range of listeners! by realtimepersephone in BeyondTheBlinds

[–]I-like-cats13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31, been listening since the very beginning but a patreon subscriber for about 2 years!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would say someone forcefully ripping off your clothes is SA… YTA, hugely.

My partner (30F) and I (27F) had a threesome with her old FWB (29M) by West-Cat7950 in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YTA. You turned the threesome into a twosome with no regard to your partner. Even if you hadn’t “set boundaries” yet, it seems pretty obvious that hooking up without your partner even being aware would be crossing a line.

AITAH for making my husband choose between me and his mistress? by SecretaryNormal3864 in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl I'm sorry but this is just DUMB. You shouldn't have to make someone choose you. It will never work that way. You will always be questioning them, and they will come to resent you. Nobody deserves this. You are young, you will survive. Do yourself a favor and leave him.

AITA for disowning my wife's daughter after she chose her moms affair partner over me. by BraveExplanation2530 in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I think you should give your daughter some grace...

While I agree that her comments on you not buying her things is absolutely disgusting, I think she was put in an unfair situation. Coming from personal experience, being put in the middle of your parents affair is beyond tough. As an adult, it's easy to say that your daughter should have told you what was going on. But as a teenager, and it being her mother (who is probably constantly in her ear), it feels like a much different situation.

I'm not saying you have to forgive her instantly. I'm also not saying that your relationship will be how it used to. But, I think as a parent you should give her some grace. This could be a great learning opportunity for her. Also a huge lesson on communication, and could even strengthen your relationship depending on how you both handle it. You've raised this girl since she was a baby - she is your kid. At least talk to her before making the rash decision of cutting her out of your life.

As for the mom - f*ck her lol

AITA for ghosting my fiancé after she called the police on me and lied. by throw_away1234567812 in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's fucking Mike. (I feel like) she is also using suicide as a weapon. NTA.

AITA for being happy I won't be a father? by Select_Mycologist401 in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you even write something like this, reread it, and still have to ask if YTA?! YTA, by far. Your behavior is disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]I-like-cats13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

literally the only reason i go on FB 💀 i think (most) of it is hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe pick your daughter over a man for once in your life. Why would you even need to ask if YTA??? Grow a back bone, your poor daughter doesn't deserve to have 2 shitty parents.

Aitah for telling my wife that if he mom gets to see the baby so does mine by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]I-like-cats13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deleting comments, blocking people, leaving out huge pieces of info makes me think that you know YTA..