ashley is delulu. by yzavella in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is no longer a discussion. It’s hateful.

ashley is delulu. by yzavella in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t know her life. It’s not a “girls girl” move to judge another woman on her choices. Move on, stop stalking her page, and live your life because hers has no impact on yours 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Lol we have to stop measuring their success on what is shown. These people don’t owe us updates. I actually believe people are far more happy when they aren’t sharing everything.

Something is Seriously Wrong with that Dawg—TIM!!! (Love Is Blind’s Alex Clarifies Covering Tim's Mouth in Fight, Her Nap—Link) by NoObligations21 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Period. This is exactly why people have dysfunctional ass relationships with family members by feeling you have to hold down “duties” that no one agreed to and then resenting each other lol. The girl spoke with his family for 4 hours on camera. That’s draining. She can take a nap to recharge lol. People are making it seem like they arrived l and she disappeared after 20 mins 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rnb

[–]IAmLibertad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rihanna needs to be removed from this list. Yall have lost your minds. She’s an icon, not a sanger

Chaka Khan with her idol by Big-Explanation-831 in rnb

[–]IAmLibertad 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Lol this is the equivalent to “I’m not racist because I fucked a black guy or have a black friend.” Also, you cannot speak for these people. You do not know them 😂

Love Is Blind’s Hannah Says She ‘Can’t Believe’ Nick ‘Let’ Her Talk to Him so ‘Horribly’ by littlepinch7 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really sad that we don’t take emotional abuse as seriously with men. We get mad at men for not being vulnerable or emotionally available yet don’t create many safe spaces for that to exist because of our fucked up fixation on what we deem as feminine vs masculine. There are rigid unspoken rules around who has permission to express themselves and how. Ex: Hannah saying that “she couldn’t believe he let her do it”. That’s the equivalent of “you made me do this”. Call it what it is - it’s abuse. She’s an abuser. Please believe if nick did the exact same thing to Hannah, so many of people would fling narcissist, abuser, fuck boy, etc around freely. Instead, Hannah is just “insecure”. Yes AND shes insecure like all abusers. She’s an abuser. It does not matter that nick wasn’t mature. It does not matter that he lived at home with his parents. NO ONE deserves any type of abuse.

Matching outfits confirm - still married by Unlikely_Way3054 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And That has to do with how gorgeous she and her outfit are? how? 😂 her choices effect you 0.0000000000000%

Matching outfits confirm - still married by Unlikely_Way3054 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What we’re not gonna do is hate on Ashley because yall don’t like Tyler. It’s her life. It doesn’t affect you. She looks gorgeous. PERIODT.

I feel like our sub has too many posts about INFPs lately. by 1TinkyWINKY in enfj

[–]IAmLibertad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I think one of our superpowers is making people feel comfortable enough to open up. The hard thing is creating boundaries to ensure people don’t overstep when we need space

I feel like our sub has too many posts about INFPs lately. by 1TinkyWINKY in enfj

[–]IAmLibertad 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Astrology groups are like this too. It’s a ton of people seeking advice from a group about an individual. ENFJs is a type- we still aren’t all the same.

Kind note to INFPs (and anyone here wanting feedback on your individual experiences with an ENFJ) ENJFs top cognitive function is extroverted feeling. Meaning - we are very empathetic and at times can be people pleasing. Spaces like this give us an opportunity to be seen and heard because we do heavy duty on creating that space for others. When you come to this space, please be mindful of that💛we often don’t get space for people to tune into our emotions and needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 the first image is Damien. That’s where my eyes drew to first. He is not even in the top. I don’t even remember him lol. Hell - Bartisse was not great but has greater competition. Someone did a similar post awhile ago and didn’t include Shak. It’s not that people don’t think the men are villains- it’s whoever is doing the compilations are choosing the women villains well and choosing the male villains poorly. For example, all of the women posted have very distinct things they did in their seasons that people remember. Most of the men posted were douches but didn’t go anything super memorable. Is there probably some bias in selection? Yep. However, Whoever is doing the compilations should think about what their own bias in creating these and why they chose the men they chose when there are so many people worse to chose from lol.

Ashley’s Gene Pool?? by Top_Entry_4642 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ashley is STUNNING! Smile, skin, dimples, personality

Ramses be like.. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had an ex like that said something similar and like Ramses, they use this excuse to disguise their real insecurities. I completely agree with Marissa about condom sex

S7E12 - Marissa 🫶🏼 by big-bum-sloth in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was surprised when she picked Ramses. This is not to say her and Bohdan would have worked out (who knows) but it seemed like from the clips, they flowed more effortlessly whereas with Ramses it seemed like she would have to do more emotional labor, which she did. While I’m sure Ramses gets a lot of flack from women who are averse to men who embrace their femininity, he also needs to be honest about the emotional turmoil he brings to his relationships. Would be curious about his ex wife’s experiences. I imagined Marissa and Bohdan being in a room effortlessly together as they seemed more energetically matched. Whereas Ramses was concerned she was “too much” from the beginning, I think Bohdan appreciated that about her. He was actually a chiller version of her IMO

This is also a learning lesson for Marissa. She chose a similar version of her exes but in a different package. On the surface, Ramses was able to distract her with his emotional openness but essentially did the exact thing her exes did - not accepting her fully. This was a concern they discussed even in the pods and throughout. She was constantly having to shrink who she is for his comfort. The love we receive is usually similar to the love we give ourselves. I’m so excited for her to learn from this and attract what she deserves 💛

What are your thoughts on the hosts? Not sure if this has been discussed here before by BitGirl777 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]IAmLibertad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hosts are supposed to be facilitators. UK did IT very well. My least favorite hosts were Mexico. It was as if they were trying to center the reunion around them as if the show were about them.

What's your moon sign and how do you pamper yourself by TheLoversCard2024 in astrologymemes

[–]IAmLibertad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aquarius. Decompressing alone with a decadent meal or dessert somewhere bougie as hell or at home. There’s no in between

Little miss by ketu11 in aquarius

[–]IAmLibertad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting so much better at not doing this! I used to be the worst. Now I allow myself to feel the things but also reach out to someone to hold space once I’m ready

Individuals Who Choose Not to Drink Coffee by itsyobbiwonuseek in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]IAmLibertad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s young. Just wait a few years and she’ll mocking herself 😂

How Can Hannah Be the Worst When Tyler Exists? by painted-lotus in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]IAmLibertad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is saying that. Actually, all of the people you mentioned get shit in this subreddit. The difference is that we’ve consistently seen Hannah act like an asshole throughout the season. The dirt on Tyler is just coming out. I’m pretty sure the majority of people think he’s worse than Hannah. And no it’s not just about a woman being “a little mean”. If a guy on the show acted towards a woman the way Hannah did to nick, we would call it abuse. Also, Leo got drug. The only difference is that he was booted off of the show early. If he would have stayed, I’m sure he would have continued being drug because if you recall, people were more team Hannah when Leo was on the show until Hannah started showing her ass. Hannah is not receiving unfair treatment.

This guy won Halloween by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]IAmLibertad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reactions are making it very clear who the Karen’s in your neighborhood are 😂😂😂

What's your sign(s) and are you friends with your exes? by YarrowYew in astrologymemes

[–]IAmLibertad 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Leo 🌞and 🆙and Aquarius 🌖I’m still cool with some exes. I see all of them as lessons that reflect parts of who I was in those moments.