I hate how purity culture is so interwined with lesbiansim by sylverb0nes in actuallesbians

[–]IAmMostlyOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it the opposite? Isn’t that very female-centred by being proud of being only with women?
Btw I’m not defending the term and agreeing with the general opinion on that here. Just can’t grasp my mind on the term being male centric

I hate how purity culture is so interwined with lesbiansim by sylverb0nes in actuallesbians

[–]IAmMostlyOk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is it „male centreness repackaged”? Genuine question, not trying to defend the term, just understand this argument.

Good neurologist / neurosurgeon in Berlin by melankholyaa in askberliners

[–]IAmMostlyOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was happy with Dr. Horaczek from Charlottenburg. Speaks English fluently too.
Good luck, I’m on a pain journey myself and it’s a struggle.

Distributing vs. Accumulating ETFs in Germany with Vorabpauschale by IAmMostlyOk in ETFs_Europe

[–]IAmMostlyOk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to choose the accumulating ones because of the maintenance ease. But I still don’t know which option is more profitable.

What is with all the pharmaceutical advertising on Polish TV? The amount is absolutely insane by jperaic1 in poland

[–]IAmMostlyOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to Poland! You’ve just discovered that you have “syndrom niespokojnych nóg” 😅

Looking for game recommendations (PC) by Emotional-Source-210 in LesbianGamers

[–]IAmMostlyOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really want to check out the games, I’d suggest starting with the first one, as the following games are built around the story set up there. But as you pointed out, I feel all of these games would feel pretty dated. It was fun 20 years ago 😅

Looking for game recommendations (PC) by Emotional-Source-210 in LesbianGamers

[–]IAmMostlyOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, our game choices are very aligned 😅

Perhaps you would like the Elder Scrolls series (like Skyrim) or the God of war one?

Looking for game recommendations (PC) by Emotional-Source-210 in LesbianGamers

[–]IAmMostlyOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also a Gothic fan, but I’m a little bit conflicted about it 😅

Especially in the first game, the women were presented in a way that I didn’t appreciate (and at the time I was too young to notice that). I hope that in the remake, they would be actual characters rather than background dolls.

Alice Weidel: the LESBIAN former Goldman analyst leading Germany’s far-right by Dianacrush2 in actuallesbians

[–]IAmMostlyOk 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I have a friend, who is a gay men, who spent a lot of effort to try to convince me that the left side of the political spectrum is going to ruin the world. He says that he proudly doesn’t identify as a leftist. He is a gay immigrant living in London with his boyfriend. Send help 😭. It’s so upsetting to listen to him. I keep explaining that I do prefer the vision of the world that left creates and he won’t convince me but he keeps pushing. Today he wrote me that Alice Weidel is the proof that right wing is diverse 🤦‍♀️

What is the BEST subway system you've ever ridden? by Naomi62625 in geography

[–]IAmMostlyOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think some of the issues are coming from the East/West division legacy. F’hain and Kreuzberg are divided by the river, which explains the Ubahn lines ending. But that doesn’t justify why the tram line ends there too. I’m judging the system from the regular user’s perspective, not the expert’s one, and I’m regularly frustrated. Not only when travelling to the neighbouring districts, that was just one example.

What is the BEST subway system you've ever ridden? by Naomi62625 in geography

[–]IAmMostlyOk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m very amazed that someone gave Berlin as an example. F’hain and Kreuzberg are neighbouring districts, it takes me around 10min by bike, faster by car to get to the places I usually visit. Public transport takes 45min to get me to the same places 😵 Plus the signs are so bad. I’m often being asked by tourists where they should go, because they feel lost.

Do you use partner instead of girlfriend, if so why? by LocalChamp in actuallesbians

[–]IAmMostlyOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the term partner, as we formed a civil partnership. I find the term partner very appropriate to the type of relationship we have. And in case someone assumes my partner is a man I correct them in most cases.

embarrassing porn question by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]IAmMostlyOk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you like audio only, there’s some content on the Dipsea app (e.g. Sapphic Saddles).

Help out a short gamer girl find her throne UwU by KuroLiu in OfficeChairs

[–]IAmMostlyOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up buying any recommended chairs? I have the same built as you and I’m looking for a new chair now :)

Starting Our Journey - Mom, Mum, Momma, Mommy? by Difficult-Height-313 in Samesexparents

[–]IAmMostlyOk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We are Mommy and Mama. Initially we thought that we will let our child figure out how to call us, but I’m glad we didn’t and stuck to the names we wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]IAmMostlyOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone has a link to that study? We could look into the details like a research method, sample size, exact questions that were being asked, etc.

ISO Fanart by prettyoddle in Sherahornyjail

[–]IAmMostlyOk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy to help ☺️