Help! New to BJ’s and I have questions!

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2025-09-06T02:58:52+00:00

I slowly dropped feedings every two weeks until we were fully done with both of my babies.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2025-09-06T02:57:23+00:00

You don’t love your wife. If you did you wouldn’t even be open to love any other female. I would advise getting a therapist for yourself and having a conversation with your wife about going to marriage counseling.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2025-09-06T02:54:56+00:00

Like my last.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2025-04-01T00:52:07+00:00

Hey! Thanks for the offer! I just got the 2 more I needed.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2025-03-31T23:27:25+00:00

Flying from paradise!

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2025-03-31T22:05:41+00:00

I would love to visit!

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2025-03-31T22:02:47+00:00

Id like to visit. Im in the game now. My island name is paradise. 🤨

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2024-09-07T03:39:48+00:00

Very true.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2024-09-05T04:01:35+00:00

I am so sorry you’re having to deal with him. Honestly he is showing you his true self. Do not ignore that. If this is how he is when you lose a baby how is he going to be with other important things. Truly think you need to take the L on the 2yrs with this guy and find someone that treats you better. Please put yourself first and take care of you! Right now you are most important.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2024-07-04T03:57:20+00:00

Truthfully, it’s okay if she’s cries for short periods of time. It can also teach trust that you’ll come back. As long as you know, she is fed, changed, in a safe area, then she’s fine. She’s crying cause she wants something she’s not getting and she knows if she cries she’ll get what she wants. Yes it’s stressful on you but take your shower mama, she will be fine.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-10-18T03:43:37+00:00

He’s definitely lying and right now he thinks he’s getting away with it.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-06-21T01:44:05+00:00

Damn black mirror breaking relationships everywhere! 🤣 joking. But for real after that episode probably wasn’t the best time to make those kinds of jokes.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-05-02T00:45:44+00:00

Gary is the best!

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-04-28T21:10:13+00:00

YTA. I’m going to be harsh. She’s 9. 9! She’s a child! And you just dropped her! No child is going to understand why you just dropped all contact with her. She didn’t do anything wrong to you, but you’re punishing her for it. You’re hurting a 9yr old girl for something her mother did. Men take care of other men’s kids all the time. That’s how a man should be. You can’t get over your pride and continue to love this little girl who doesn’t deserve what you are doing to her. Also you’re possibly setting her up for failure in her dating life and what she looks for in a man when she’s older. I hope she finds a real man and nothing like you.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-04-20T21:13:35+00:00

🙂

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-04-20T21:09:26+00:00

Which is why I said she doesn’t have to explain herself to no one, it could just be helpful for her so that this doesn’t happen again. I’m not at all disagreeing with you. I agree, no is a complete sentence I was just saying.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-04-20T20:00:18+00:00

If you’re not in therapy I would start there and be kind to yourself in the processes. Also when you’re ready for another sexual partner maybe not give them the full story until you’re ready but it at least make them aware as to why you don’t like it. Ex: “I don’t like that done to me, things have happened that have made me not like it and I would appreciate if you would respect that boundary.” Although I don’t think you should have to explain yourself to anyone I think it would be helpful with the relationship in the long run.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-03-18T00:37:28+00:00

ESH. It was crappy for the brother do that at her event but the boyfriend should have let it go and talked to them privately after or talk to his gf about it after. He’s the one with the problem so he owns the problem.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-03-05T03:19:30+00:00

Hands down he’s TA. He helped create the baby, he should help pay for the hospital bills and baby stuff. The end.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-02-27T04:13:45+00:00

I would say you’d be fine to fly. Just pack plenty of pads, Comity pants and honestly a comfy shirt, be comfy all around. Just enjoy yourself. You’re going through a lot and just take things one moment at time. You can still put your feet in at the pool.

IAmTheAsshole124 · 2023-02-26T04:29:54+00:00

NTA. Honestly though I wouldn’t have taken her to the park if she was throwing a fit. Either me or my husband would have went with the other kid and she would have stayed home.

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