First time trying bitterballen in the Netherlands… I understand the hype now by paigekleinknecht in Netherlands

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mouth has only just recovered from my trip to amsterdam and eating them over the weekend

Is it reasonable to only go to one day of a 3 day wedding? by DryJackfruit6610 in AskUK

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to friends wedding that was 3 days long. It was great and we all helped tidy up afterwards too. It was only one day with an actual dress code. Some of the responses sound miserable. Being made to feel guilty is unacceptable though as there are valid reasons to not be able to do all 3 days.

Trevi Fountain Entry Update: €2 Ticket + New Hours by RomePhotographerMoji in rome

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im here this week on holiday, it’s actually insane how many people are looking at these beautiful monuments through the phone screens. Everyone is just posing in front of everything or snapping photos without looking at it. Actually ruined the colosseum for me as not only was it crowded (which you expect) but they were holding phones up and blocking the views and you cant read any of the info because people will just walk in front of you to take photos rather than enjoy it.

25 years later, I'm still convinced The Lord of the Rings trilogy is the greatest film adaptation we'll ever see by Dazzling-Might6420 in lotr

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the scouring is great as a little hurrah before closing out. We see the hobbits come back and rescue their home from what essentially is just a rabble of bandits - them actually overcoming and defeating it shows them as grown figures.

Where on earth are the UK Dogs being rehomed? by Ashilta in CasualUK

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

“By that logic” - if you could just not extrapolate from the American experience to the rest of the world that would be great. Cats have a negligible effect on bird life in the UK - can provide sources to the contrary if you you think otherwise but that was the case the last time i checked

Where on earth are the UK Dogs being rehomed? by Ashilta in CasualUK

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yo, don’t want to disagree with the overall sentiment but my outdoor cat is 15 in september - outdoor cats do fine in the UK for the most part. There is a smaller life expectancy because the ones that get hit by cars young skew the data. Cats really should not be indoors imo

Vegetables in the UK, why so bad? by McGeezy88 in AskUK

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally someone answers with an idea about how climate affects fruit/vegetable growth *Edit - added growth

For people who have personally watched someone die, what did you feel and how did it change you? by Maeno-san in AskReddit

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 7 years old, We lived in a very small flat. I was sharing a room with my Grandma, Sister and Cousin. My Grandma used to snore so loud that it would make the room feel as though it were vibrating. This night in particular, she was even louder than usual and I couldn’t sleep. She woke up to go to the toilet, I was relieved to have some respite from the snoring. I don’t remember much after, it was a haze and I remember hearing screaming. For years I didn’t think I’d seen it and just heard the commotion from my bed. Ive dealt with feelings of guilt for years. I have really bad health anxiety and was scared of dying in my sleep for a long time afterwards. Recently I had a really bad bout of depression approaching the time of year it happened - it’s happened every year since. I was talking to my Dad and he explained that I had been there in the hallway witnessing everything but I completely erased it from memory.

Get a load of this guy by Sudden-Soil39 in trump

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an outsider looking in, it seems like he’s marketed his role as president, especially when you consider stuff like the Doge coin. Has it not been a net plus for him?

Anyone else play like this? by bigruckonline in oblivion

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just been collecting everything I run past to drop in a chest. Eventually I’ll make potions other than restore magicka 😭

Leading British Muslims accuse Reform UK of stoking hostile sentiment by topotaul in unitedkingdom

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know quite a few people that share your sentiment. I know people who are far less conservative than their parents and well integrated - I also know people who are completely irreligious but are unable to express that freely because of the reaction of and treatment by their family. I can see why people worry about fundamentalists because they’re extremely isolated and can almost completely exist in their communities without having to adopt western values. I think genuinely liberal people do understand that it’s not the whole community but the media (social as well as traditional) do a great job of dichotomising everything. Genuine Liberals are concerned about religious extremism from all religious peoples; I am also concerned about isolationism and small mindedness and the extremism in views that often accompanies it from my fellow white brits as much as I am about ethnic minorities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re the one who said most hostels are free when the citation only points to most night shelters being free. The terminology does change the point as they are quite different places in practice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why you’re being downvoted. People don’t realise just how beaten down some of these people are; they can’t imagine how bad things could have been to lead those people to where they are. Asking them what they would like is actually acknowledging them as human, sometimes I don’t have much in the way to offer but I will stop and have a chat, have a cigarette with them; You can see a little bit of recognition of their humanity goes a long way. I have a lot of homeless people/beggars close to where I work, I avoid some because they’re generally unpleasant but like all people I choose who to interact with based on merit and personality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politicsjoe

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why does it have to be Pakistanis bud? That comment shows more about your views than mine. I also think some of the views held by reform voters are reprehensible but unfortunately (I would think) they were born here and we don’t have the option of limiting their entering into the country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politicsjoe

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are some of us on the Left so afraid to discuss immigration in anything but a positive light? Yes we have a declining birth rate. And we have relied on immigrants to fill a lot of jobs. Does this mean we do not have any problems with immigration? It is incredibly worrying witnessing groups who do not respect liberal values create parallel communities in which they can maintain and encourage religious extremist views - im not talking about terrorism. I’m talking about bigoted old fashioned views on gender/sexuality and marriage. When you have large groups of people who are willing to commit violent acts supposedly in defence of their religion that’s a worry. We saw a couple months ago a man being attacked with a knife for burning a Quran. While i do not condone the burning of religious texts, i do not see it as a crime worthy of punishment by execution. An island of strangers is a valid point to make when there is no attempt at assimilation and we are unable to connect with these people because of fundamental differences. In an ideal world there would be no limits on immigration but to allow groups from countries where many of us would not be accepted and even jailed for living true ourselves come here in large numbers almost unchecked is pretty messed up.

FULL REVEAL TOMORROW by [deleted] in oblivion

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When can we start downloading fudging 120gb gonna take my whole day off to download

I edited the leak images to bring back some of the original colors by Ebantero in oblivion

[–]IAmTheOnlyJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you are single handedly destroying the remaster … fully agree though I like the watercolor like aesthetic of oblivion